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Ok well my boyfriend thinks that I dont have enough time to spend with him because I play so many sports. I am on a softball traveling team. Varsity cheerleading. Varsity vollyball. Dance. Gymnastics. Basketball. Swim team and tennis. I dont want to give any of them up with it being my senior year but i am always at practice and i do come see him in between practices and when im not doing anything. I pretty much see him when i need to be sleeping. and he told me today that he thinks that we might break up if i dont give up something. I dont think that is right...We have been together for 6 years...since the seventh grade. And now we are seniors. What should I do???
Thanks...Hotblonde123
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ok if u do all those sports u definatly have no time for a guy.
hope this helps,
chynna
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Well since it's your senior year and you have been dating for 6 years do you think he can wait one more year? Ask him about it. Ask him to come to your games or something. Then you two can have time before and after games and if your coach will let you even during practice. He may be able to help you improve your game (not saying that it's bad) but he can help you if you have problems. Or you can explain to him that you like doing sports and that if he loves you that he should learn to love them too!
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I think you should try to talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel, he may think you care more about the sports than you do about him. But, make sure he knows you care about him a lot! Just sit him down and talk to him and tell him everything and try to work it out. Just be like "We've been together for 6 years, thats a long time, so you know how much I care about you! I care about you a lot, its just we're seniors now, and I can't just give up one of my sports, we need to work this out and talk about it. Like, when we would have time to spend time with each other." And you guys should make a list of when you two can see each other and what you two can do when you do see each other. Just try to work it out with him. But don't yell at him, if he starts yelling at you because sometimes that makes the situation worse, because the guy gets mad, you know how stubborn boys can be lol. But just tell him how you feel and stuff. If you still need some more ideas or whatever, just post a message in my inbox. I'll be glad to help you out. Good luck hun!
xoxo Kourtney
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thats pretty stupid on his part, considering you have been together 6 years, so if hes not happy with the way you do things, maybe hes not the right guy for you. maybe you can get him to understand that you give up sleep and time between practices to be with him and that u need to stay on all the teams
hope i could be of help
good luck
p.s. tell me how it goes with your boyfriend after youve talked to him
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tell him that he should come to ur games and practices. That way u can enjoy both. It seems lyk a serious relationship u have with him...6 years! Maybe on the weekends u 2 cud get together..whenever u have free time and ur not busy. Tell him that those sports mean a lot to u and that he means a lot to u too. So just try to get him to go along with it. But it looks lyk u got ur hands full-u do wat u think is right. I dont think all those sports last year long..so ya!! i hope i helped!!
Twizzler
oo that is great u guys are going to dinner tonite!! i hpe everything works out.
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