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If a guy cums in your ass and it gets on your panties && you're scared you might get pregnant does birth control work AFTER you have sex??? I need to know because I took it. :o and I'm only 15 years old so I am not ready to deal with any consequences or complications!! (link)
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A. No. if you only take one birthcontrol pill After the fact. It will not help you what so ever.
B. Your quoting to yourself that your only 15 and your not ready for consequesnces... OPENY YOUR BRAIN.
Everything comes with consiquences. if you can't handle it. then you shouldnt be doing it in the first place.
Trust me hon,. your still so very very young. You have your whole life a head of you to experience all the joys of sex. Don't give it away to early.
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I have a friend that I talk to a lot. Let's say this is Friend A. I have another friend that I have somewhat drifted away from and I have not talked to him or hung out with him as much anymore. This is Friend B. (They're both males) Friend A is amazing, I love him to death, we never get sick of being with eachother, and I've known him for about 4 years. Friend B, we're alike in so many ways too, I've known him since Kindergarten, but he's ehh, as in, kinda flat in personality. With Friend A, I can talk all the time, and I always have something to say to him, we listen to eachother, we laugh together, and everything :) Friend B, he commented to me that he thinks I'm trying to replace him, and he's been wound up about me always hangin' around Friend A, and I don't know what to do with him. I don't know if he's jealous, I just wish he talked to me like he used to because he acts like I did something horrible and he's been acting all solemn with me. PLEASE HELP (oh and Friend A asked me out and I do wanna give it a try)
Random Fact:
Me: Libra
Friend A: Aries
Friend B: Libra (link)
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First of all,,
You shouldn't judge who's good for you according to horoscope signs.
It does sound like Friend B is a little jealous of the communication and closeness that you have with Friend A.
You should talk to Friend B,. And tell him how your feeling about you and him. As for Friend A. He seems so cute for you. You two seem like you really connect. If you want to go out with Friend A,. Then you should. And like Previous Advicer said,. If B doesn't accept how happy and excited you are to be with A then he is not supporting you,. as a true friend should.
Hope this helps:)
*Jasmine;;
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the differences between female and male writing
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It all depends on the person. In Most cases male handwriting is smaller,. and not as neat as female handwriting.
But don't make the mistake that all men's handwriting is messy. some of them are really neeat and pretty.
*Jasmine;;
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how can you know if i guy is a virgin
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You can tell by asking him,. It's the only way to know for sure.
*Jasmine;;
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im really shy around my bf what to do (link)
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I was this way with my ex boy,. Just be your self around him,. And slowly you will warm up to him,. and be able to express yourself at a more largely style.
*Jasmine;
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So my boyfriend and I have been dating for three months. He gets me gifts all the time. He gave me a really pretty ring on Monday and for Valentine's Day he gave me a box of chocolates. Well this time it's not really a special occasion. I just want to get him something nice for the heck of it.
Thing is, I'm broke. To compensate I write cute little love notes every Wednesday for him but I want something more. I really want to make him something he'll really like. I know he likes videogames and stuff but we pretty much like the same things. He's sixteen. I'm fifteen.
Any romantic suggestions would be nice. Greatly appreciated! (link)
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What about making him a cd with a few of his favourite songs,. and then maybe one cute song to remind him of you? Then you could even write something on the cd.
You could even take a few snapshots *aka* Pictures of the two of you,.
Hope this helps:)
Jasmine23
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holy s***. please help me. i was just texting one of my best friends (we r both girls) and for a while now i have had a few crushes on her that were on and off. (i think i might b bi curious but im too scared to tell anyone) so last nite i had a dream and the only thing i can remember is us making out and when i woke up i texted her so we texted a few times about our hair and stuff and so i was telling her how nice her hair looked and i said it was so pretty and she says "its because i have magic fingers lol" and b4 tht she was saying that my hair was long and beautiful when i said i was thinking about cutting it. so i wanna know if she was like flirting or if im just making a big deal out of nothing and if, judging by what she is saying to me, if she might b bi or not. thanx so much! (link)
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She only was commented saying your hair was beautiful,. as in you shouldn't cut it.
As far as her being bi,. This doesn't really point to anything related to bi curious.
I think you are just kinda freaked out about having a same sex related kissing dream. This is perfectly normal. It happens to everyone of us. It's not something to be ashamed about or anything. If you ar Bi curious,. That is perfectly okay too. Your at a stage where you are trying to discover who you are.
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Alright, sooo I think I might be falling for my best friend. I don't even know it that's how I feel (I never really do) but that's where it seems to be going. The thing is, I promised myself I would try my hardest not to feel that way towards somebody until I'm out of high school (I'm 16, junior in high school). I've almost always had crushes on guys, pretty consistently since the fifth grade. The feelings have pretty much never been reciprocated (apart from two instances but I don't even count them) and it just adds too much unneeded stress and emotion to feel that way towards somebody. High school relationships are sort of pointless in my opinion. But anyways... another thing, we've been best friend for almost five years. I don't get why these feelings are just coming up now. Maybe it's because we've become closer friends lately, and it's just the closeness I'm feeling?? I don't know. And lastly... she's a girl. As am I. I've never had crush on a girl before (if that's even what this is), so I feel kind of weird. Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against girls liking girls, I truly don't. I just never thought I would like a girl like that. And I don't know if her opinion on that matter is the same as mine, and I'm pretty sure her parents aren't. And, she has a boyfriend. I don't want to tell her and creep her out or make her feel uncomfortable, especially if my feelings aren't really what I think they are. I don't know. I'm just confused about a lot of things right now. Any kind of response to this would be much appreciated. Thank you (link)
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I agree with the other commentor,. you should figure out if it's just love best friend of if you like this person more.
It is normal to be confused about liking same sex at your age. and if in fact you are bisexual or like the same sex. it is nothing to be ashamed of.
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Well I am a 14 year old girl and I feel like out of my friends I am the ugly one. The guys always talk to them and ask them out but never me. I know I need to be more social but I don't know what to talk about. I need advice on how to make myself prettier and get guys to notice me. (link)
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Oh my gosh!! Your Gorgeous!!
advice from experience.
I tried to change my self for my first love. Thinking oh if only i was skinnier he would like me or if only i was better.
Hon,. Your perfect the way you are. If Those guys don't see it. then they are missing something amazing. Don't let anyone tell you different:)
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Okay so I have a bf, and we have been going out for 2 months. And I have a guy friend that asked me to give him a picture of me in my bra, should I? (link)
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Definetly not. That is a form of cheating in my books.
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a guy just texted me asking me to prom and i dont know if anybody else will... But the thing is that this guy has kind of a stuttering prob, which isnt bad but my friends just kinda laughed and are like "well do you want to go?" And i dont really know. I want to go to prom, i really do!
But this is so complicated because people are gonna be talking and my friends will just laugh at me and i just feel bad.. i dont want to say no.
He isnt like "weird" he plays sports and has friends and stuff but still... idk. My OWN friends are kind of iffy about it.. HELP! (link)
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What do you want? Don't listen to what your friends want. Or what they will talk about. If you have fun with the guy,. then do it. Enjoy the prom :P
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Hello I am a 16 year old boy and I have been dating my girlfriend for about a month now. I know from a story I heard from her(when we were not dating) that she has had oral sex with a boy she met in Europe. Should I bet worried about STIs if I choose to have oral sex with her...or even making out do I need to be worried? (link)
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Yes. STF's Can both be transfered threw internal sex as well as oral sex. It would be a very very VERY good idea to both get tested. as her mouth was on some Random from Europe. You don't Know who that random has been with
*Hope This Helps
&&Any other Questions,.
Please Ask :)
^Jasmine;
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I'm very depressed. My mom died 8 months ago after being diagnosed with breast cancer. When she first found out, it was still at an early stage, so she could have cured it, but when she told my dad to go to the doctor with her, he said 'I don't give a fuck', so she ended up just living with the cancer for 3 more months or so till it reached the last stage and spread through her entire body, and she died. You see my dad hates my mom, and he's been abusing her since before I was even born. And I hate him because of that, I truly hate him, and I also hate him because he hates me and hates my sisters and he physically and emotionally abuses us all the time, but I can't send him to jail because where I live and in my religion, the father does not go to jail or is not punished for abusing his children. So i came up with a plan of leaving home, and I've been saving up ever since I was young, and I'm going to leave home at the last day of college, because I don't want to leave my sister alone, and by the time I finish college, hopefully she would've started her own life away from the house. So I still have 3 more years in college, and I also can't leave now, because I have to finish college and my studies, and I need money from him to do be able to do that. But the thing is, I can't take it anymore, I wanna leave now, but if I leave now, I won't be able to go to college, because then he'll find me, and bring me back and abuse me again and more. I keep having all those thoughts of killing him and stabbing him and I pray to god all the time that he dies, because I've been miserable since I was born, and he made my mom miserable and my whole family, and now my mom is dead, and he killed her because he wouldn't take her to the doctor when she first told him. Me and my sisters are the ones who took her to the doctor when she finally told us, but it was too late. And I am mad at her, I am mad at my mom, because she had the chance to divorce him so many times, and yet she didn't, and when she got sick, she knew that she was going to die and she knew he'd abuse us and make our lives miserable, and yet she didn't do anything about it. I just want to leave, I want it all to end, I am so depressed. (link)
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You And your siblings DO NOT ! I repeat DO NOT have to live with that. If you look into abuse centers online ,. for centers or help lines around your area there are many. I tried looking for you but the search is so wide because location is unknown.
You do need to talk to some one. Even though your beliefs provide the facts that he isn't judged or consequenced because of his actions what he is doing is NOT OK.
Please talk to some one sweetie.
My prayers are for you!
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How to stay on diet and not give up ?
When I first started my diet I was eating right and everything and I lost 40 pounds. Now Im starting my diet again because I keep cheating. I dont feel bad until after I eat the junk food. I weigh 144 and I want to lose 20 pounds . I always give up in 2,3 days when I'm on diet and I start eating junk food and everything again. How do I to stay on my diet? :/
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DOn't Go full diet right away,. i few treats are good,. but not overly much,.
Try talking it one step at a time. and Going slowely to ween out the bad foods you eat.
*Hope This Helps
&&Any other Questions,.
Please Ask :)
^Jasmine;
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So I have had 6 different sex partners. No need to judge I'm a freshmen in college, but anyways I thought that after awhile sex would stop being so painful for me but it hasn't at all. When I'm on bottom it probably hurts the most and it feels like I'm going to pee. Sex just never feels good for me but I still enjoy it for some reason. I want to stop having painful sex. My recent sex partner and I always have to stop because it hurts so much and than keep going, slow down or change positions. It's just so frustrating because I just want to have pleasurable sex. And I popped my cherry over a year ago so I know that's not the problem.. Any suggestions? (link)
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You might want to see a doctor about that?
You may be infected with something or there might be some issues with this.
*Hope This Helps
&&Any other Questions,.
Please Ask :)
^Jasmine;
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Hi my name is Kat. I am an 18 year old and i have a couple questions.. my boyfreind and i have been dating for almost a year and his band is going on tour soon. How do i cope with the fact that he will be leaving me?? (link)
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First off.,
Is he breaking up with you?
Or just going on tour?
Either way lonng distance is a hard thing to over come,. You should talk to him about how you are feeling,. and what your fears and concerns are and ask him what his fears and concerns are.
You two should talk about the 'us' Thing.
Does he expect you to wait around till he is done his thing?
Or is he thinking something else.
*Hope This Helps
&&Any other Questions,.
Please Ask :)
^Jasmine;
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16/f
I feel so stressed out. I haven't felt like this in a year. I think it's mostly school. I'm so horrible at math and I've been trying to understand and tutoring and all that but it stresses me out. I'm afraid that if I can't do good in it, that I won't do good when I get out of high school and go to college because I'm not too great at math.
Then being able to afford college because I'll be a senior in a few months. The college I'll most likely end up going to is thousands, like maybe $9,000 including room and board, and all that. I'm afraid if I don't get enough money by that time then I won't leave.
I could wait a year but there are reasons why I don't want to but if it comes down to it, then I will.
We haven't had many family problems recently. Awhile ago it was really tough but now I don't think any of that is the problem.
I've been taking what people say pretty seriously. My friend will ask me what I'm good at and he'll say I'm not good at really anything. He said I was good at cleaning and cooking. I don't suck at school but I'm not amazing. My friends point out random things that are wrong with me. I usually just ignore it and it really didn't bother me. Lately I've been taking everything so seriously and I don't know how to stop. I tell myself positive things but it's so hard.
Anyway, sorry about how long this was but any help would be great. Thanks! (link)
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A. Those friends are bitches.
NEVER should your friends put you down or say things wrong with you. True friends will accept you for who you are.
As far as schooling,. You can get student loans so don't worry too too much sweetie,. you will make your self sick,.
As far as math.,
Some tutors suck really hard. so try out different tutors. it will become easier with time
*Hope this helps
!Jasmine
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I have to say right now that I am deathly afraid of anything that has to do with needles or blood tests or needles going in my mouth...
Well, today at the dentist they found three cavities they need fill and one they're sealing. They said they can use a laser, instead of the drill and needle to numb to the tooth. If so, is it all right if I have braces and ask for the laser instead? Please say so because I freak out at the thought of them numbing my tooth and drilling into it! It's got me into freak out mode!
Also, please don't tell me to grow up, I know I need to and stuff. I can't help it. It just terrifies me and it doesn't help that I'm sensitive to pain. (link)
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Ive had the drill done to my teeth,. its really not that bad,. they freeze everything so you can't feel a thing.
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he stares at me in school and things and follows me looks in my class that im in .. in the window or trys to figure out a way to see me also my friedn put him ina chat room and she said do him do you like my friend he said not more than a friend also he has a gf do you think he likes me? (link)
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He might find you attractive or he might not be at a level of comfort to be able to openly admit his feelings.
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what does like
i got layed
or lay me
or something like that mean (link)
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I got layed:
Translation
I had sex.
Lay me:
Translation
I want to have sex with you.
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