Hi my name is Kat. I am an 18 year old and i have a couple questions.. my boyfreind and i have been dating for almost a year and his band is going on tour soon. How do i cope with the fact that he will be leaving me??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? Fornorina answered Tuesday March 22 2011, 12:48 pm: Like Jasmine23 said, is he breaking up with you completely of JUST going on tour?
Because they are two very different things.
For me, I wouldn't worry about him going on tour because he's going to be playing his music with his band/friends. Of course it's going to be hard for you because he'll be far away, but there is texting, phone calls and skype so I wouldn't worry too much.
Definitely talk to him about it. Communication is key. If you don't speak to him about how you feel and what you are nervous about, then you will be just left hanging on the edge when he leaves.
Be careful and good luck!
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Jasmine23 answered Monday March 21 2011, 11:45 pm: First off.,
Is he breaking up with you?
Or just going on tour?
Either way lonng distance is a hard thing to over come,. You should talk to him about how you are feeling,. and what your fears and concerns are and ask him what his fears and concerns are.
You two should talk about the 'us' Thing.
Does he expect you to wait around till he is done his thing?
Or is he thinking something else.
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