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Should I tell the Truth?
So last thursday 3/17/11; me and this guy darryl walked home and we ended up in a small field..and had sex plain and simple,
i got home really REALLY late(4:15)..of course im not going to tell my mom..
but she took away everything until i told 'the truth'..should i tell the truth if not...i really good excuse??
15/f
16/m
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You're better off telling the truth. Imagine if she found the truth out from someone else. That would get you in bigger trouble than you're already in. Don't be childish about it, act like an adult. I figure if you think you're old enough to have sex, you should also be old enough to deal with the consequences.
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If I were in your place I would have never told my mom what happened.
But I surely would have told her I was out with a friend and we were just talking and got into some serious discussion or something.
It is but natural for me not to tell cause I know my mom would kill me..
Do what you feel you should do.
Yese telling the truth is always the right thing but at the end you have to think about the consequences too.
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It's not that I condone lying but I can understand that you don't want your mother knowing about your sex life. I don't tell my Mum everytime I sleep with someone, although she knows I am sexually active.
I suggest you tell her you were with a boy, but not that you had sex. Apologise for getting home so late and for not telling her where you were.
If you didn't use a condom and you're not on contraception then you need to get pregnancy and STI tests. I'm not going to tell you not to have underage sex because if you want to do it, you'll do it anyway but in future, don't be so irresponsible.
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you should just tell her the truth.. hope you used pertection if not then you might deffinitly tell her cause if your pregnant then she can help u and get you what you need. This is something big to go threw i went threw the same thing on friday the 18th and i told my mom cause if im prego them my mom will help me threw it..so you might want to tell your mom just to be safe... let me know how it goes... ok.. dont be scared to tell her she will understand she was there at one point oviously.. just tell her and dont be scared it is ok...
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i don't think that you should tell her the truth just yet as you are still young and this would really dissapoint her, so tell her that you got into a fight and were too ashamed to tell her or that you had detention for not doing your homework something like that but at a later stage when things cool off you should tell her
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Tell the truth, You were well aware of your actions now be mature enough to except consequences.
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