who is my love life?
No one knows that but you. Unless this is a question about others then a more detailed description would be much more appreciated.
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What would you say to someone about how you feel about your bestfriend dieing?
Say what's on your mind. Say what you feel and think.
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Okay so the skin between my ring and bellybutton is about to tear so i took out the bellybutton ring. my question is can i ever put it back in or do i have to wait for it to completely heal and get it repierced? I am very stubborn and i really don't want to keep it out but i don't want it to rip out either. what should i do?
I'm a body piercer so I can tell you that you are not the only one that this has happened to. Some people experience infections, and others may experience migration, or even rejection. Although, navel piercings typically heal at a high rate, it is actually common for them to migrate or reject. Depending on your body, it can be hard to completely avoid migration or rejection, as some people can not heal belly button piercings successfully no matter what. You just don't know how your body will react. The important thing is to make sure that you keep up with proper aftercare and that you wear proper jewelry, as this will help improve the odds of avoiding migration and other complications.
Also, sometimes the body or even certain parts of your body will continue to refuse the piercing. If this is the first time it's been pierced I suggest let it fully heal, then try to get it re-done. If the same thing happens again then you know that you cannot have a piercing in that area. Also, It's not just belly button piercings, this goes for all piercings.
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So, on Tuesday I got my rook pierced. All very clean, professional, they used a hollow needle, I've been there before, blah blah blah. But on Wednesday, the bottom ball of my barbell fell off. I couldn't screw it back on because a) the rook is in a really awkward place and b) it was tender from JUST being pierced. I ended up going back to the piercers' the same day so they could fix it. My piercer screwed the ball back on but in the process had to twist my ear super painfully to get it tight and to make sure that it would stay on. Since that day (it is now Sunday)my ear has been red, puffy, and extremely tender. I'm terrified that I've gotten an infection. I'm doing all the recommended sea salt soaks and cleaning it. I've never seen any pus, nor has it bled. I just have the normal "crusties" that are light yellow. But it hurts worse than any piercing I've had. I would go back to my piercer and ask him to take a look at it, but the place is REALLY far away and sort of an inconvenience to drive to. So, do you guys think the piercer just irritated it (maybe tore it a bit)? Or could it be infected? :(
I'm a body piercing/tattooist so I hope my information can be of some help.
Your piercing is just irritated since your piercer had to be a little more "rough" to keep the ball from slipping off again. It's nothing to be worried about since it happens a lot (I have clients come in asking the same question(s) you are) To help relieve your piercing of the pain, try taking an anti-inflammatory/pain reliever such as Ibuprofen, as well as keep it clean using either ear care solutions, dial or proven soap (non scented). When cleaning your piercing with soap, lather your hands with the soap, and apply it to your piercing sliding your piercing in and out to work the soap into it, and rinse thoroughly under running water sliding the piercing in and out so the water "rinses" the soap out of the piercing. I hope I was able to help to some extent. :)
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so i did a piercing my self in my ear *cartilage* lyke 1 week ago i did it with a neddle i desinfect the needle and//all but when my dad found out he got pissed nd told me to take it off and so i did.i took my piercing out and slep with no piercin in my ear for 1 night.. then ma dad said it was ok so i put it back in and now that i put it back it hurts lyke hell and it iches soo bad!!! IS IT INFECTED OR WAT?
HELP!! and if is infected what should i do?
what should i do to stop iching?
what would happen if my piercing is infected?
OMG! I GOT LOTS OF QUESTIONS!!!
helllp!! pliiz!!
thankzz
I am a body piercer/tattooist.
The itching is quite normal. It is part of the healing process. To prevent infection, it is suggested that you use ear cleaning solution on the piercing 2-3 times daily. Infection is easy to spot as it will swell, and have a greenish+yellowish discharge. If you cannot get the ear cleaning solution, then I always suggest to my clients to use Non-scented (just plain) Dial or Proven soap on the piercing.
1- Take the soap and lather your hands with it.
2- use the lather on your piercing sliding it in and out so to work the soap into the piercing.
3- Most importantly, under running water, repeat the sliding in and out with the piercing to ensure that all soap is then removed from the inside so that the soap does not cause infection (due to it sitting and festering inside of your piercing)
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The past two or three times I have gone to the bathroom, I have filled at least half of the toilet bowl with air poop. What is wrong with me?? What should I eat to make it stop??
I'm going to assume you are saying that each time you use the restroom instead of making a bowel movement you pass gas. If this be the case, try eating a healthier diet, or try taking a gas relief supplement before/after eating.
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So I don't believe inlove or any emotionally attachment to a person.. Lust is lust so therefore sex is sex to me even though I'm a female. I'm 16 years old. My first time wasn't exactly sex and wasn't exactly long ago, it was couple of months ago. It was a guy and in the heat of the moment that idiot slipped his penis in a bit but I stopped him before it go any further even though I do know that means I lost my virginity. 2 days ago I was with another guy, let's say a bit under the influence of alcohol and I left him slip it in couple of times though I don't remember him cuming at all and also h slipped his fingers in there an I remember him touching his penis or in other words giving himself a handjob.. I'm supposed to get my period in these days, my period is never accurate, also I have been having period pain for a berif second and when I go to the bathroom there is a but of brownish substance of such but no period (no bad smell, no pain, no itching, no burning, nothing of such things) what could this be?! Could this be dangerous? Also if I did get my period today or tomorrow, Is there still a chance of pregnancy like period stopping free getting it, you see I heard a sperm stays in for 7 days so I need to make sure If I get my period today or tomorrow I should be completely relaxed
1- That "brownish substance" is old blood leaving your system. It's nothing to be alarmed about.
2- He doesn't need to actually climax into you to get you pregnant, pre-cum can also cause pregnancy.
3- Has anything changed in your life that could cause a missed period? Such as stress?
If you are truly worried about pregnancy, your best bet would be to take a pregnancy test or go to a women's health center for a proper testing.
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i need a nickname for my new boyfriend (a cool one though)
I feel that if you want to give someone close to you a nickname it should be one that you come up with, because then it's special. I can't give you a nickname nor can anyone else, but we can give you ideas on how to choose one. In order to come up with a nickname, think about your boyfriend.
What type of characteristics stand out? What's his personality like? What does he enjoy most? (Pirates? Vampires? Ghosts? Werewolves? things like that) once you've thought of all those, trying reading a bit into them as well. Perhaps you will get your inspiration from his hobbies/likes. A nickname is something you should come up with yourself, this way it's more special.
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I attend a nearly all white academy, but, me being black, I have never fit in. Every day, being teased because I'm no good at sports, because of my race, anything. My teacher had stopped me after class and asked if things were okay because he had been worried about me. I was too afraid to tell him anything. I also had lacrosse practice (they require you to play sports at school) and I spent twenty minutes sobbing in the bathroom because I was being made fun of. I'm also confused because I don't see why I am treated differently from everyone else. I'm always the one by myself. I just don't want to deal with this anymore. The only person (well, thing) I have to talk to is an old teddy bear. I can't talk to my teachers, my dad won't listen and my mom doesn't have the time to listen. Please help...
I know how you feel. Growing up I was the only colored person in my school, and I grew up talking only to my dolls. I never found a way to get people to get over my different skin tone. I ended up getting to a point during my high school years that I ended up attempting suicide. In the end, I realized that those people aren't worth hating myself over. I still talk to my dolls (because even if they are inanimate they are still my best friends) But as I graduated, I left where I grew up and found that there are places out there that accept people for who they are. I don't have any great advice to give you on this subject other than to do what I did. Keep strong, and forget what others think about you. The only opinion about yourself that matters is what you think. And if it gets to a point where you NEED to talk to someone, go to the school counselor. There are also social networking sites as well, such as fb, ms, and plenty of forums out there.
I suppose the reason why people treat others differently is because a lot of people, I have noticed, have a hard time accepting things that are different from what they think is "normal". If you like anime, I can refer you to a great website where everyone there is kind and fun ( http://www.animecrazy.net/forums ) Perhaps you'll meet someone on there near you and what not. I did and we became best of friends :)
But like I said previously, I have no good advice to give in this situation other than talk to a school counselor or a teacher, be strong, and remember that no one else's opinion of you matters. What matters most is what you think of yourself.
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what kind of jobs can i get at the age of 15-15 1/2?
You could always get a paper route.
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I have a misdemeanor on my record for escorting without a license is there any job that will hire me... I have been looking for a job since 2009 and no luck i am really stressed out and i also have 2 children. Do you know anywhere that would still hire me.
It's not because of your Misdemeanor that you are unable to get a job. In today's economy, finding a job is quite difficult, even for one who has a clean record. Just keep looking, even if it's a job you know you won't like, you know you need to do it for your children. Having a misdemeanor can make it difficult with some jobs. (Not all, just depends on what they require) But many other places hiring will take you without worry.
I often deal with interviews, it may not be because of your misdemeanor that they are not accepting your employee, but because of how you may be presenting yourself. Here's some tips to help give you that higher chance.
Be clean, and dressed nicely. No one wants to hire someone who looks as though they don't care about how they look/smell. Mainly because it could be bad for business.
Keep calm. Fidgeting or nervous behavior can give one a wrong impression.
Practice what you're going to say. Use proper grammar as well as look directly into the persons eyes, not enough to make them uncomfortable but enough to let them know you are listening.
Don't show up more than 10 minutes early to an interview. You could make the interviewer feel as though you have no care or respect for time, making them irritable, and feel rushed. If you don't know where it is right off the bat, go a day or even a few hours in advance to find where it is and how long it will take you to get there.
After the interview (In my opinion this is important, mainly because it shows that this person is willing to work hard and is eager to start working without difficulties) Follow up. Call the next day or if you worry, 2 days after. and continue to call (Not in a harassing way. at least 1 every 2 days.)
I hope these can help you out and keep trying. Good Luck.
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So i have lost alot of weight ,and suddenly my legs and hands are getting stretch marks and on my hiips.
I use CoCoa butter with a special cream (whitfield's cream)And the stretch marks on my hips are fading but not on my legs and hands and it makes me feel reallly uncomfortable.
I never had stretch marks on my hand or legs until i started losing weight :\
Also on my thighs :(
UGH
is there anyway to get rid of these or is it because my legs have to be shaped up because i lost weight,Is there a home remedy/Way to do that?:(
Well, considering you are losing weight (when you lose weight drastically, you are bound to get stretch marks) I suggest if you are still losing weight, start exercising to help prevent stretch future stretch marks, as well as continue using your cocoa butter. Healthy eating, regular exercise as well as applying cocoa butter should help you lose those stretch marks within time.
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OK i have a huge stomach ,I hate it .My mom says if you stand up straight and look down and you dont see your toes you are to big.I have dun it and i see my toes most of my foot.
When my dad was working before he retired he was a health inspector so he used to bring home losts of fruits and vegetables.
I lost loads of weight from not eating junk fod but just the fruits and vegetables.Now that there is no more i just started eatting JUnk food (chocolates and loads of food)and my tummy is gettingbig again:(How do i get rid of it (Im 13/f)
Eat healthy balanced meals and limit your sugar intake as well as exercise. Plus, you're still growing, so you will lose it as you grow. As long as you exercise regularly and eat healthy meals.
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Hey everyone! I have a beautiful black short haired cat who's turning 3 in two weeks. She's very happy, very healthy, very loved, and I brush her fur almost daily, and pet and scritch and cuddle her, like, constantly. She's kind of really spoiled...but it's just me and her here, so we're both okay with that. ^_^
Anyway.
As the subject says, she keeps getting these flakes of dry skin all over her back, like a human with dandruff. Her hair is slightly coarser there. The rest of her is, like, ridiculously soft (hence all the cuddling). I have eczema, so my brain automatically goes, "Is there some kind of cat-zema?"
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Is there?
Has anyone else's cat has this problem? How did you treat/fix the flakiness?
If you regularly give your cat baths to keep either fleas ticks or just keep her clean, it could be the shampoo you are using causing this. I have a gorgeous cat, who had the same problem, dandruff, flaky messy gross. I changed to a different shampoo/conditioner (yes they have those for pets! Cool huh? XD) and it cleared it right up. It could be a possibility what you use to keep her clean is just drying her skin out ;/ Try looking into other products until you find the one that's right for her :)
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if there is blood in my poop, could that be a sign of me getting my period?
No, it means you may have some kind of infection. I suggest you go to the hospital or talk to your parents and have them set up an appointment (the blood could get worse and be accompanied by pain)
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Are men gay when they pierce their penis in weard places?
Of course NOT! I'm a body piercer and tattooist, have been for 4-5 years. I've seen more straight men with genital piercings than a homosexual male honestly (and I live in the city) But it doesn't matter what sexual preference you are, a genital piercing stimulates your partner. and it doesn't look to bad either :) But like ANY piercing, No piercing is specific for sexual orientation or gender.
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A friend recently bought me a voodoo doll from New Orleans. I live in New Zealand. How do I safely get rid of it? I don't want to throw it in the bin incase something bad happens. I was thinking of just putting it in the post and sending it somewhere but I am scared of something happening too. What should I do? Please help.
Lol, receiving a voodoo doll as a gift gives it no effect, you could just throw it away, but coming from your friend it would be cruel. But if you do not want it anymore and fear of the repercussions, Just send it to your friend with a letter explaining why. It is the best bet :) I hope this has put an ease on you.
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Does ambulance charge just to come check a person at home and see whats wrong
Everywhere is different. Just look up online or perhaps go to the local hospital or police station and ask questions.
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Hey im a 19 year old female and for the past 3-4 months my heart would start beating out of my chest for no reason. It usually happens when i'm at work and i'm a shift supervisor at a local fast food place. It doesnt even have to be busy but all of a sudden out of no where my heart will start racing like crazy. I know how to read pulse's so i read mine and it was around 130 bpm. Thats the highest i've counted it before. I dont have chest pain when this happens. It does get a slight bit more difficult to breathe and i get a little light headed but its never severe. I've talked to family and friends and they suggested that i may be having a panic or anxiety attack. Does anybody have any idea whats going on? Thanks and i do rate!
I suggest going to the doctors and having them look at that. I had the same problem last year and I didn't get it looked at, eventually it caused me a heart attack (and I'm only 24!) and eventually they found out what it was. I say better safe than sorry. It could just be due to stress or whatever.. But you don't want to end up with complications later should it not be.
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18/f
I used to be best friends with this girl, all through high school, ad even middle school. Well, she had developed some
severe mental disorders, and I didn't think it was right to just ditch her because she was a little unstable sometimes. Over the years, she has gotten much worse. Were really not friends at all anymore. We used to hang out every week, and I haven't for a few months, and i haven't even talked to her in like a week. But, I'm FINE with this. I was trying tompushbher away, however I am a little nervous. She knows many secrets about me. And in afraid if I don't stay friends with her she will get angry, and tell them to people.
How do I handle this?!
I'm sorry to say, but because of her mental disorder you should be there for her. If you ever truly considered yourself a good person or even a good friend, in my opinion you are horribly wrong. Who cares about your secrets? Your friend is probably feeling alone and deserted. Someone who was once close to her and important to her just up and pushed her away because she was to heartless to care. How would it make you feel if it was the other way around? You developed this mental disorder and she pushed you away. Before you worry about what she will tell people, worry about what kind of a person you are.
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