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i had sex two times in one week the boy came in me both times, how long would it take to find out if im pregnate? (link)
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Take a pregnancy test.
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how do you corn roll with weave. (link)
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It's Cornrows man, not corn rolls lmao!
Just go to a barber shop they do it for ya ;)
-BahaiMa22
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So last night i got fingered for the first time.. it didn't really feel good it almost hurt more than anything.. and it hurts to pee.. is that normal for the first time? (link)
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Yes it's normal, However I would suggest making sure he keeps his nails clipped. You don't want him to tear or rip you on the inside. It's sore now but it will get better I promise. :)
-BahaiMa22
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Hello from Canada, like your website! I got married two years ago, I was 36 and it is the first time I am married. He is 12 years older than me (not an issue) but had been married 23 years before his divorce. So he is used to the married life. Sometimes, I have a hard time with this, not used to having someone around all the time, kinda miss the privacy I used to have and I kinda miss my independence at times. Was used to making all the decisions in my life. I love my husband, but I find marriage kinda boring. We don't have much money right now to go on any exciting trips or anything to relieve the bordom. I wonder if it is normal for me to feel like this? (link)
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I have never been married before, However I believe what you are feeling is very normal. It's new to you, and it takes some time to adjust (even 2 years later) If the marriage seems "boring" try to spice it up! Try planning fun things to do with your husband. (Walk in the park, Dinner at the beach etc) Because you don't have much money doesn't mean you can't go out and enjoy yourselves. Try spending a few hours to yourself if you miss your privacy. Do what you used to love doing. Go out with friends etc. You may be stressed out and that might be what is causing you too drain out.
Your feelings are perfectly normal
Just try and relax!
-BahaiMa22
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17/f
I have been with my boyfriend about two years, and he's always been kind of a liar. we've been through a million fights about him lying (but they were never really huge lies worth leaving him over)and things always got better. Lately I thought we were doing really well, until I started going out of town to see my grandma and such. Everytime I left for the weekend, he did something shady then lied about it. Again, they weren't really huge lies, just annoying.
Lately I think he's hiding things from me, and I just want him to tell me so I can deal with it. I have no evidence or anything (that's the problem), so he just keeps on denying, but it's bothering the hell out of me. I'm just starting to realize how sneaky he is, and I REALLY feel like there's more going on than he's telling me. But I have no way of finding out, he hides EVERYTHING.
What should I do? What should I say???
p.s. I love him so much, an yes despite everything i do believe he loves me (he says he lies bc he doesn't want me to get mad, but i don't really understand that bc i NEVER get mad when he tells me the truth). I just want to know so we can work it out. I feel like I can't handle this lack of trust and if he doesn't tell me I'll leave him for good. I tried telling him that flat out and he just denied there was anything... it's really frustrating. (link)
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A big part of a relationship is honesty and trust.
1. If you can't trust the person then technically there is no relationship. If you believe you're boyfriend did something "shady" behind your back I think it's time to sit with the guy and let it out. Tell him how it makes you feel, Let him know it bothers you and how it makes you think and feel. Take some time to ask yourself, Is he REALLY worth the lie?
2. Although you love him, If he can't be honest with you, The best bet might be to try and move on. If he loves you enough he will be open and honest and respect your feelings no matter what or how bad it might be.
Best of Luck
-BahaiMa22
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Okay, I know this may sound stupid.
But is it possible for a guy to pee while he's releasing sperm?
Like basicly peeing in you?
Just wondering. (link)
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There is a valve that closes when a man has a erection that closes off the urinary tract during sex. The only way he could do that inside you is if he let the erection go away while still in you and then did it, but thats a damn good way to get one heck of a infection in your vagina.
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Out of all my friends I'm the ONLY ONE who hasn't kissed a boy. (13/f) It's so annoying hearing about everyones first kiss. I know it's suppose to be special and what ever. But honestly, I'm done caring. I just wanna get it over with. You know? I've tried truth or dare, Spin the bottle.. But not once have I been dare or chosen. It's like God doesn't want me kissin a dude. But it makes me feel SO stupid. Ha. I sound so pathetic.
But help?
Any help will work... (link)
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Trust me whatever you do, Don't rush it.
A first kiss is special, and it will happen when the time is right. If you force it or push it then when the real thing comes around it won't be as special for you.
Just relax the time will come trust me ;)
-BahaiMa22
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I know you aren't animal experts or veterinarians but maybe your dog does what mine does or has. I have two dogs and their both well trained. One is a 9-year-old Lab/Beagle and the other a 1-year-old Pug/Shitzu cross.
Every time the big dog and the little dog go out to the bathroom together the big dog comes back in soaking wet. I finally caught the little one urinating on the big dog even though there's a ton of places for him to go. I'm curious why does he do this to her?
We've since made them go outside separately as it's become quite the problem otherwise. Is it a territory thing? Not to be gross he also tends to go to the bathroom on top of what she left. I don't know. It's weird. (link)
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Marking it's territory?
-BahaiMa22
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what would a 13 year old guy look for in a 13 year old girl? my friend(who is a girl and im a guy) asked me what does a guy look for in a girl and im not completely sure what i look for
so some point of views from 13 year old guys or older would be helpful but i dont care whio answers this question (link)
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Every Guy is different and so is every Girl.
Different things attract different people. :)
-BahaiMa22
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Can birth control pills act as ECPs? For instance, if I were to have sex and I just started the pill about 8 days ago then had unprotected sex, does taking the pill mean I'm still safe? Or if there was a problem with the condom like it slipped off during say the 3rd day on the pill? Does the BCPs work that way? (link)
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The pill is only so effective, Whether you are on birth control or not you always have that 1% chance of getting or becoming pregnant. If the condom fell off that doesn't have anything to do with what the pill does. You should be safe yes, The pill is pretty protective. If you are still worried please take a test.
-Bahaima22
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heyy. i was looking through some stuff & found ur site.& i needed advice..
i manage to get mad at people very easily-if they mess w/ my friends. ive even gone after a few people, but ive only hit them..and i had a girl, who doesnt ever talk to me & does not know me at all call me phsyco..so what do you think? =/ (link)
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No, I would never say you are "phsyco"
However, You may just have an anger problem.
-BahaiMa22
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how much does it cost to get your belly botton peirced?plus do you have to have certain weight to get it done? thank you (link)
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No you don't have to be a certain weight to get a peircing ;) It all depends on what kind of jewlery you go for. However, I believe the price starts around 50 dollars.
-BahaiMa22
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"If I liked you, would you like back? If I kissed you, would you kiss back? If you know me, you should know that I'd never let you go, but if I do, would you miss me? Remind me when you kiss me. Now lie here if you fall back. Back into my arms>"
Its acoustic
and sang by a guy
I'll probably NEVER find this page again
so if its not too much trouble
if you find it
can you send it to my email?
frenchfrysalad@aol.com (link)
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Striving for better - My Exception
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Well, I have somewhat of bad acne. It's really not that bad. And I don't really care that I have some, my problem is that it's really red. Is there anything I can do to make it less red?
Thanks in advance(: (link)
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Try Proactive. I heard it's great stuff ;)
Bahaima22
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I'm a female and is 22yrs of age.
Well I've been talking to this guy for 7mos now and I really don't know if he's ready to be serious. He always introduce me as his lady friend. How tell him that i want more than just a good friend with benefits and how do i know if he really wants to be with me like that? (link)
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You may want to sit down and have a talk with your guy friend. Tell him that you are ready to take the relationship to the next level. Let him know that you don't want to be introduced as his "lady friend" and that you would perfer to be introduced as his Girlfriend. Let him know what you want and how you feel. As him what he wants in the future and ask him how he feels about taking the relationship to the next level. You should pretty much tell if he wants to be serious but his reaction and his response.
Best of Luck
-BahaiMa22
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Ok so like im not skinny at all but im not completly fat either. Ive tried exercising and all that stuff but nothing works. Ive thought about becoming anorexic because everytime i eat im afraid that im just gonna keep getting bigger and bigger. I need help what should I do (link)
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Anorexic, Is a bad idea! Not eatting will only make your body starve and it might only make you actually gain weight from lack of nutrition. Please, If you want too loose weight do it the right and healthy way. Try putting your hands behind your head and lifting your legs till your knees just barley touch your chest and do that a few times a day. Also, I don't know how much you drink (water) that is, but make sure you don't over do it water builds water fat. Just make sure you drink at least 8 glasses of water a day though!
-BahaiMa22
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16/f
im bisexual and i admitt im not a virgin
i have different feelings for guys and girls
Guys: it feels better to do it with a guy than a girl
Girls:im more attracted to a girl than a guy and they turn me on more than a guy does
for the past 3 yrs ive been bi and for the past 1ish years its been getting awkward for me, lately everytime i see a naked guy i have to cough out the gag so i wont affend the guy. AND its been getting harder and harder to be turned on enough for a guy even to get in me in the first place...
the question is am i a future lesbo?
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I can't answer if you are a into woman for the future. However, I can suggest and give you my best advice ;)
1. You are sixteen years old and you may just be exsploring your sexual side.
2. You could be into woman, but if you are it's not a bad thing.
3. Don't get it get awkward for you, We are who we are and if people don't except that it's nobody's problem but theres.
-BahaiMa22
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Me and my boyfriend had sex last week, it was only for two minutes and he noticed weird white stuff on me , we checked the condom. and it didnt break whatsoever their werent any holes in it at all because we really checked and he was also really dry and didnt bust at all. should i be worried, was the white stuff from me? (link)
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If you used a condom you should be pretty much on the safe side. However, It is not impossible to get pregnant even with a condom. If you are worried you are or may become pregnant then maybe it's time you try a pregnancy test. As far as the "white stuff" You would need to be a little specific I'm not sure what you mean by that.
Anyway, I hope my advice helped somewhat!
Take care
-BahaiMa22
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im not a young child im 18 ok so please dont give me stupid answers ive just been curious lately.. ive had some sexual relations with guys and stuff and lately i was thinking.. i mean ive never seen other girls vaginas so i wonder if everyones feels the same... like say you finger yourself what do you feel because i know many women think theres are abnormal.. and im starting to get those thoughs.. although i hear everyones are different.. idk im just curious what everyone else has to say about their vaginas.. i know weird question haha (link)
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Well,
It is perfectly normal to have questions and exsplore your body. As weird as we all think we are in some sort of way, We are who we are and we are what god made us. Many woman think a vagina is weird lol, Too be honest, I'm not all that comfortable with mine either. It's messy all the time etc lol. However, Na you're feelings are completely normal ;) There is nothing to be ashamed about.
BahaiMa22
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I was told that once I began my period that I could come in and get my Depo Provera shot. I had very light pink/brown discharge and a day later I noticed that it seemed somewhat red. The next day it was still red, but light and there was a clot. I asked the nurse if this was my period and she said that it sounded like it was so I went in and got my Depo shot. The very next day I noticed that I had light pink/brown discharge and my "period" stopped. I was wondering if this was normal with a Depo shot, if that was really my period and if it wasn't, was it okay for me to get that shot. Also, I was wondering how long after the shot should I wait to have sex? (link)
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Spotting is very common when people are on the Depo-Provera shot. The period fades away, and becomes very light. Spotting will happen about once a month. Don't panic! Sometimes the spotting will turn a light pink color or a light pink/brownish color. It's very common :)
BahaiMa22
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