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The names Julie. i`m 15 years old and love too give advice so just ask me a question and i`ll try to help [:
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So I got offered this easy babysitting job from a rich family down the street, and they are going to pay me 50 dollars an hour, BUT at the same time my BFFs birthday party is going on. She said it was OK if i went to go babysit.i don't want her to think i don't care but I really need the money!!!!!!!!!!!
*Im 14 by the way and female*
what if you visit you friend earier or see her the day before or something and babysit
in two weeks im going to florida and we'll be gone for 17 days. I have a cat and i was thinking about asking a friend to come by and take care of him. (for money of course) I was wondering would the cat get too lonely being that we wont be around for so long and my friend will only be in the house for five minutes to feed him and change his litter box? Another option is the kennel..but i hear they are very expensive. Do you know about how expensive they are? Should i have my friend come by or take my cat to a kennel? Thanks and i'll rate you guys because i appreciate your time and advice..i too am a columnist. Thanks again..
-melissa-
i dont have a cat but i have a dog and i never really like leaving her there, id say let ur friend watch her
14/f...theres a girl in one of my classes and she'll sit there the whole class period and talk about me loud enuff for me to hear..so she obviously wants me to. Shes so mean and i've told her to stop and shes just like "I'll do what i want" and the thing is...she seems like a nice person but for NO REASON she hates me..when i asked her y she hates me so much shes like "the question is why wouldn't i" so she doesn't have a reason..theres this one guy thats her friend and always sticks up for me whenever she talks about me and its really nice and i think it'll eventually stop bc he always tells her too and she'll get bored saying everything when he just tells her to stop talking about me. but the stuff she says is mean and sometimes she IMs me outta no where to say how weird i am or i have no friends (which is not true) any advice on thing is can say bak to her when shes talking about me?? I RATE 5'S SORRY SO LONG!!
ignore her and if she ims u block her
Alright, this is sort of a random question, but I'm cleaning out my closet today, because I have WAY too many clothes. It's hard to find anything to wear because I have so much STUFF that I simply never wear...does anyone have a solution to this problem? Like, can you list out what a good amount of clothing to have is? For example, how many jeans you should have, how many tee-shirts, how many skirts, etc. Also, what's the remedy to this? I have so much clothing-but nothing to wear! Should I limit where I shop to like...2 or 3 certain clothing stores? HELP!
go through all your clothes, anything that doesnt fit you right or you dont like giveaway or dontate. then just limit how much you buy, not where you shop
Lately my hair has been extremely dry. I don't know wether its that I straighten it everyday or that I wash my hair everyday. Are there any products that your suggest to make my hair not dry?
buy a shampoo that helps dry hair like garnia or pantein and straightening isnt good for your hair either
i have eaten really healthily lately, and cut back on fats and sweets and all that and I lost 18 pounds! WOOHOO! Anyways, I have also been exercising and all that jazz...I DON'T want to gain the weight back! But...tonight we might order pizza from Pizza Hut...will having pizza this once hurt my diet?
oh coarse not! a couple pieces of pizza wont hurt at all
i need to know stuff about having boobs. i'm 15 years old and i need to know stuff. like should i wear one at night? what kinds of bras are right? and they hurt sometimes, so what can i do?
dont wear them at night, if they hurt then it may be the metal wiring so get one without it... no offense but i think you should know this by now
I have an issue; I want to lose some weight, but my stomach grumbles like crazy!!!!! It's so annoying, I mean, I have a strong willl to lose the weight, but its so embarresing, I sit in math class and suddenly I hear my stomach, is there anything I can take or do to make my stomach not so vocal? Please and thank yous!
dont starve yourself just eat healthier and exercise
13/m
ok so i am supposed to go to a sleepover next weekend, only there will be some guys there that my parents really don't like, and so they won't let me go. thing is, there is really nothing bad about them but they won't listen, and still refuse to let me go. what should i do? because i really want to go, and i'm afraid they won't be friends with me anymore if i tell them.
talk to your parents, sit them down and talk
ive been going out with my boyfriend for a long time. he never pressures me or disrespects me. but the other day in the movies he started touching my boobs which is really unlike him. then apologized throughout the whole movie for doing it. we went out to dinner and i flipped out on him and he started CRYING. this morning at school he decorated my locker saying "im so sorry i love you" with hearts all over it. i found out that he stayed up all night making it. he was crying all day in school, and he wrote me a long apology letter. everyone says im overreacting. should i get back with him because i really want to...
yea!
My twin sister and I argue about 40% of the day. I don't like fighting with her, and lately I've been getting so mad at her I get destructive. I used to cut myself- (embarrassing, but true)- and I can't help but think that may be problem- destruction makes me feel better. I'm not sure. Can anyone give me ideas on how to channel my anger differently?
try write down your angry, scream in a pillow, punch a pillow or if its really bad call the youth crisis hotline at 800-448-4663
What are the administators going to do about the bad adivce people? I mean peopel like... The Cardboard Samurai or the Russian Mailman person? these people obviously aren't even trying and feel many people feel even worse. They may think its funny but their advice can lead to peopel doing stupid things. Any one else worried? Are they going to be banned? There seems to be more of them everyday.
i kno wat you mean like somthingprincess.... until they are gone just ignore them
okay i have a guy friend...hes nice and sweet but not liked very much at school...tonight he threatened to kill himself. im really scared b/c im not around him much at school and never after school...i care about him alot but sometimes dont show it very well. Should i bring our IM conversation to the councelor tomorow or something else...talking to him doesnt help...he doesnt listen.
please help...i rate hight
-x0x-
i kno you got a lot of answers but here are some numbers that you could have him call: 800-784-2433, befrienders international at www.befrienders.org 0r call 800-488-3000
does any one know how to lose like 10 pounds in like a week...i have a party comming up and i want to look a little "less" in my dress...thanks..
(i rate 5s!)
EXERCISE... and eat healthier
i'm 13/f and i weigh 115, but i really want to lose 15 lbs. I'm not sure if it's like unhealthy because ive never used them and don't know anyone who has. I know diet pills aren't healthy and don't work, but are diet patches the same way? and how would i be able to get them, cuse i can't just ask my parents to buy me diet patches, they deffinatly wouldn't do that. and i don't want to use them if it's not compleatly safe. help please? thanks -*jeanine
you dont need to lose weigh, you already thin
okay well i moved to Arizona a month ago, and I was 130 pounds when i moved here, I got depressed and sick and I lost enough weight to get down to 115 in just 3 months...just a week ago I was 113, and now im 105..I eat like a PIG and i dont excersize at ALL...is there something wrong with me? Is this normal??
I rate 5's
i would go to the doctor SOON
My boyfriend and I are always fighting about the same old stuff ... we made an agreement in the beginning of our relationship that he would give up smoking and I would give up using drugs! The only time I have ever taken drugs is when he has consented and used with me !!! Yet he has difficulty giving up smoking especially when he has had something to drink ... am I being irrational or is he just being unfair saying that smoking is more difficult to give up than drugs ??????????????
woh cares, u should want to give up drugs for YOURSELF not your boyfriend, help him out, buy patches, gum... whatever it takes it you want him to quit
Okay, this may sound really stupid, but I'm serious about asking this question. I'm a girl, I'm thirteen, weigh 105 pounds and I'm 5 foot seven. I'm so tall, and I HATE it! I wish I could stop growing! No offense to tall females, but I think that tall isn't really that flattering for me. My mom is always complimenting me on how tall I am, and I hate it so much! I don't want to be tall! She won't even let me drink coffee to stunt my growth! My doctor said that I might even grow to six feet! I don't want to be that tall! I hate my height already! I'd be happy to be 5 foot four! ARGHH please, is there anything I could do to 'appear shorter' or to stop growing??
try not to wear high-heeled shoes and i cant remeber exactly but i remember something about when you bug clothes.... sry i cant remember
I'm 13/f from Florida. I have really curly hair and the humidity doesn't help. I hate my hair and it seems like I have NO self confidence because I can never do cute hairstyles like girls with straight hair. This really bugs me and makes it hard. Does anyone know of any cute hairstyles for curly hair that are easy to do and won't leave my hair frizzy and poofy?
I will rate high for those who answer this because I desperately need help!
xOx
you could always straighten your hair or blow dry it straight and then do the hair styles. or when your hair is damp you can scrunch it
This may seem like a random and completely dumb question to some, but I'm actually quite serious in asking this. My question is that why is it that young girls ages 12-14 and some even younger, feel that they NEED to have a boyfriend just to fit in? You girls don't understand, when your time comes to have a boyfriend, you'll find someone who will like you for you. Also, my other question is why do you feel the need to dress provocitavely, exposing your breasts, butt, and stomach just to look "sexy"? You don't need to be showing all of that to look sexy. You can be completely covered up and still look gorgeous as ever! That was just my random question for today. Any young girl that feels that way, you can feel free to answer.Thanks.
that was tru but not a question