Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
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Last night me and my boyfriend had our first kiss. Honestly i didn't feel anything. Is that normal? I like him so much but i just didn't feel anything. When I'm in his arms, that's the only place I want to be and when I'm not with him I miss him so much. Also to be honest the kiss wasn't even all that good. When I kissed other guys I felt something and they weren't even my boyfriends. What do I do? (link)
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It is normal. It could've been anything, it could've been he was nervous, or you were nervous. I know that he's your boyfriend, and I know the first kiss is supposed to be wonderful, but think of those other guys you were talking about. Did THEY seem nervous? Was it their first kiss at all? Did you two spend more time together? Because even though you two are dating, you might've had more time with the other guys to get to know them and like them and everything.
I think you should just stay with him and see where it progresses. I mean the way you talk of missing him and wanting to be in his arms ( which I think is so cute ) shows that you really like this guy, and just because the first kiss you two shared wasn't that great, doesn't mean everything else is going to be great, and he isn't going to be great. :)
And who knows?
The next one might be great. :)
I hope I helped!
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I have a freind named harly and her brother david is also one of my best freinds. well me and this guy i like, russell, well me and him are good freinds, and david and harly know that i like him, well me and russell were talking on the fone one night and harly was there and what me and him were talking about was very very private, in my right mind i shouldnt have let harly listen to the coversation but i was stupid and i did. well she ended up telling a couple of my freinds, though i know of she told 1, and she told her brother david what me and russel were talking about and he told a bunch of other people what we were talking about and its really personal and now like alot of people know about it. and then russell found out that other people knew what we were talking about, and today he asked me if i had told any1 what we had talked about and i said, no and so he probably thinks that im lying, which im not cause i didnt, and the conversation was like 2 weeks ago, and every 1 r just starting to talk about it now. what should i say to russell to make him understand that it wasnt my fault, and what should i say to david and harly? (link)
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I would talk to Harly and David and ask them why they would go spreading your private conversation around like that. And let them know that they really hurt your feelings whenever they did that, not to mention embarass you and had no respect for your privacy.
I would also just go up to Russell or call him, (whatever makes you feel comfortable) and just let him know that you honestly did NOT tell everyone the conversation you two shared, and why would you? You're just as embarassed as he is and offended everyone's talking about it. And let him know that while you were talking on the phone with him, you were hanging out with Harley and she overheard and knew what you two were talking about, and told her brother David, and it suddenly got spread around, and you're really sorry that it did.
And just remember the next time you go to have private conversations, make sure nobodys around, because you really can't trust nobody with ANYTHING nowadays, sadly.
I hope I helped.
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Ok so this is really a question but also advice.
So there’s this boy in my Church group and I think he likes me but I’m not sure.
This one time (the first time I laid eyes on him) he kept smiling at me. And even when he knew I was looking he was still smiling for a few moments and I did too. But then looked away. Then later he asked if he could trade spots with the guy next to me so he could “talk to the other guy next to him” the guy said no though. But anyway, today I came in and I all the seats were rounded in a circle and so I walked in and there was a seat right infrount of me. It looked like all the other seats were taken. And it was right by him. I don’t know if he was saving a seat for me because his stuff was there and he moved them when he saw me come in. But I’m not sure. So then I sat down. And he actually started talking to me. and he asked me "Is that liipgloss?" he was mentining my keychain that had lipgloss on it. and I answered "Maaaabey" beacuse I thought yes sounded to cheesy and no sounded well rude and whatever. he smiled and said "can I use some? I need some" he said joking ly. He was smiling I could tell he was joking.so I'm like "yea...sure!" I said sarcasticly with a smile. at that moment I liked him. also his full attenetion was on me smiling. Then the teacher told me I got to go o the trip friady. "your going?" he asked. then said cool. he put his hand up for a high five So i highfived him. He asked me questions and asked if he could see my phone. Then I cought him once or twice lookling at me. And I’m not sure but I THINK I saw him put his foot near mine. But I was looking up, but I think I saw it at the end of my eye but I’m not sure. So mabee that doesn’t count.later when I was bored I forgot about the lipgloss convo and put some on. "So it is lipgloss!" he said jokeingly. I smiled. " you know I still need some." he said then laughed. I laughed too. So does he like me??? (link)
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It sounds to me like he likes you alot, but with the high-five thing, that sounds just sort of friendly. But I mean, I've never seen a guy save seats like that for just girls who are friends or stare at them a few times and keep on smiling.
I would start flirting with him more and seeing how he reacts and if he flirts back. And just compliment him and everything and like I said be flirty, and just see where it goes. If he starts showing you alot of attention and hugging you and sitting close to you, and paying you compliments and flirting back, then I'd definetely say he likes you!
I hope I helped.
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This week is school spirt week at my school. One day is decade day and my class has the 70's. What are some things i can wear? (link)
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Just wear a pair of flare jeans and some sandals and a tye-dye t-shirt and then maybe even take a scarf or a headband and wear it around your head. And maybe even go to a few stores and go looking for a few necklaces that have a peace symbol on it or a smiley face on it.
I had a 70s day and that's what I did, and I also took eyeliner or marker or something and I drew a peace symbol on my cheek.
Also since it's Halloween coming up soon, I'm sure since people love being hippies, you can find a vest with things dangling from it and patches on it or those pair of rounded glasses and such, so maybe even go around to a halloween store and check some stuff out.
I hope I helped.
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I was on my boyfriends myspace account and reading the messages that nobody else can read and there was one to a gay guy saying...
"im not gay but i think your wicked cute we should hang out sometime"
i dont know what to think.
i mean i think hes gay but i dont want to.
if he was than why would he be dating me?
Anyone help pleaseee! (link)
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Well, obviously if he says he's not gay, he's not gay then, but he may be bisexual. If you don't know what bisexual means, that's whenever someone both likes females and males.
Younggrandma is right. If you really want to find out what it means, you're going to have to confess to him that you went snooping through his messages and everything, but if I were you, I'd confess cause I'd want to know.
Or he seriously just might be straight. I mean, girls can be straight, and still call eachother pretty and cute and whatnot, and sure, it does sound a little weird if a guy does that to another guy, but they can tell eachother they look good too.
Like I said, I would just talk to him about it and find out exactly what's going on.
I hope I helped.
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Good afternoon,
Okay..in the begining it was all about him what he wanted too do what he wanted he cheated on me a coupple of times with various girls one being a stripper...ah mean after a year i turned too the only other person i cud trust my ex ..and then well we kissed and thats all and my boyfriend found out...oo well and well too realease his anger he choked me off in town ..ah mean it was a bit embarssing at the time and i forgave him ..but then as time passed he began too tell me more hurtfull things when he got mad and so i turned too another friend but this time the realtionship was different we werent intimate but if i alloweed it it would goo there
bascially my bf doesnt trust me for varyin reasons some i may have given himm,, he says i lie to my parents but the only reaason i lie to them is beacause that the only way i go and lime with him ..soo now i rly dont kno what too doo need ur advice!!!shud i move on and forget abouthim and what should i do about the other guy.. lost in love
CaribbeanQueen
Age:20
Female
St.Vincent and the Grenadines (link)
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I would totally forget about your boyfriend! He sounds like a major jerk and doesn't treat you right, and doesn't sound like a good boyfriend at all, and I'd get out of it now. And if you're cheating on him anyways, that shows the relationship isn't doing on good, and you'd rather be with other people anyways. And why would YOU want to be with a guy thats cheated on you anyways? Him not trusting YOU? Please, you're the one who can't trust HIM. If he really loved you, he wouldn't have cheated on you, so why be in a relationship with someone who doesn't have mutual feelings or isn't a good boyfriend?
As for this guy, why not give it a shot? He could be a great boyfriend, you never know. I'm sure any guy sounds better than your current boyfriend.
I hope I helped.
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i have terrible breath and brushing doesnt seem to get it to go away. what can i do to get rid of it? (link)
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It may be morning breath ( which is what alot of people get and can also be caused whenever someone sleeps with their mouth open ).
I suggest just brushing your teeth AND your tongue at night before you go to bed and drinking some water to hydrate your mouth, and then just go to sleep, and whenever you wake up in the morning, do the same exact thing and drink some more water and swish it around in your mouth too, and then swish around some mouth wash for however long you're supposed to, and then pop in a few breath mints in the morning. That should work.
If it STILL doesn't work, then the next time you go to your dentist, I would suggest telling them about your breath, and what they recommend that you should do, cause they could always let you know of a stronger mouth wash or some sort of thing you can take.
I hope I helped.
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this boy named kevin broke up with me two weeks ago friday and i still like him very much today was different usually he doesnt talk to me or nothin but today he did i was so happy and i want it to be like this everyday but anyways i just want to hook up with him but i dont want to do it quickly slow and steady would be nice also after lunch i was talking 2 tevin and kevin came behind me and poked me and whispered ravin and tevin then ran behind some girl to hide from me was that good or bad if i want him back
1.how do you get a guy back? would it be a good idea to make him jelous
2.how to start a conversation with him?
3.how to make him want me? (link)
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1. To get him back, I would just flirt with him and everything and show him more attention then you do with other people to make him feel special and just let him know later in the day that you still like him and want to give your relationship another shot and try and work out the reason why you guys broke up. I don't think it's such a good idea to make him jealous, cause that's only going to linger on, and then he'll probably want to start trying to make YOU jealous and everything, I would just go up to him and let him know.
2. Just go up to him and be like,"Hey, whats up?" and just start asking him about what hes been up to lately and how you miss you guys talking and everything. And just talk about the recent movies that came out or are coming out, and talk to him about halloween and what his plans are, and what your plans are, and maybe all the good haunted houses did he hear that are coming. ( Maybe even invite him to go to one with you, which is a good way to flirt with him and be all scared and cling to him ).
3. Like I said, just flirt with him and hug him and show him alot of attention and compliment him and just wear cute clothes and show him what a great person you are, and how pretty you are and everything. Just don't go overboard and like pounce him or do anything like that cause then that'll come off slutty, haha. Just remind him again of what he's missing.
It sounds to me like he might like you back with all the whispering and poking and whatnot, so it might not even be that hard to get him liking you again or trying to win him back.
I hope I helped.
(EDIT: aw, your welcome! ahahaha, thanks so much. :D )
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So this guy that I don't know friended me on facebook, but I have quite a few mutual friends with him. I'm assuming cuz he thought I was hot perhaps? haha anyways, I want to ask him who he is, but through a message, so how could I do that in a non dorky way, instead of just saying "Who are you?"
What are some other ways? (link)
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Just casually message him and be like,"Hey, I noticed you friended me on facebook and you know a few of my friends. Have we met before? :)" And if he says no, then casually just responded. "Oh, who are you?" And then he'll just answer back with his name. Trust me, you won't sound dorky.
I hope I helped.
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I am 17 years old i have a 2 month old daughter but i am married and have been for a year to the babys father. Well i have just come across a very serious problem. My husband i have been sleeping together but we used protection but i think i might be pregnant again is that possible. I am very scared. I know if i am everyone is going to say i am a slut and im so worried but wwe both have jobs and stuff but i am scared of what a=our families wil say what do i do. (link)
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It IS possible that you're pregnant again, but that's only really if the condom broke ; which they can do sometimes. But I suggest purchasing some home pregnancy tests just in case, and wait to see if your period comes, if it doesn't, then take a couple of tests over that week and see what they come up as.
People should have no right to call you a slut. You're a married woman, and you both have good jobs and you're giving your baby a good life and supporting her and you guys are happy. And what do married couples do in life? Well, most? They have children, so they can't really call you a slut for bringing life into the world. Besides, millions of teenagers out there are having sex all the time, so they really don't even have the RIGHT to call you anything. If they do they're just immature jerks, and you should just ignore them.
As for your family, I don't think you really need to worry that much. If they supported you before, I'm sure they'll support you again! And I'm sure they won't react as badly as they might've before because whenever a parent FIRST finds out, tehy're thinking where are they gonna live, here? What are they gonna do, how are they gonna go to school, and millions of those thoughts run through their minds, but they know now you guys are getting good jobs, you're trying to support and raise your baby and they know you're happy and responsible parents and you guys are giving your baby a good enviroment to grow up in, so I'm sure they'll know the same treatment is going to come to the second baby ( if there is one ).
I'm real proud though you two got married and are getting jobs and being such good parents. Some teenagers just fully depend on their parents to take care of the baby the whole entire time and not get a job or anything and support the baby and become responsible.
I hope I helped, and I hope everything works out for you guys.
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okay well im going to start modeling in january so in these next few months i really need to perk up. do u have any ideas what i should do to be ready for this? please any tips will be excepted !!! (link)
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Well, since I'm not a model or anything ( haha I WISH ), I can't be of TOO much help, but why not go straight to a model yourself?
I suggest going to YouTube or Google Video, or even going out to be the season tapes of Americas Next Top Model, and just study all their movements and how they work the camera and everything and sell whatever product they're holding and just take mental notes of it and remember it for whenever you're standing infront of the camera.
Here is a site to check out too if you want:
http://www.glamourmodels.com/resources/tips.html
I hope I helped.
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okay so i have friend named "sally" and she has been talking and messing around with this guy we will call "joe". joe and sally hung out with eachother atleast once a week in the summer. sometimems with friends. sometimes without. okay so at the end of summer joe tells sallly we cant do this anymore because i guess joe likes some girl named carry and joe thinks his friends dont know sally even though they hang out with some of the same people.so its not gonna work. well joe still texts sally and says what r u doing come over and sallly does all the time but joe makes sures nobody is home at his house and joe tells sally not to tell anyone about them and sally doesnt want joe to tell anyone about them. but it sucks for sally because at school she sees joe and carry messing around and it makes her feel like shit. but the other day when they were hanging out joe said to sally he liked her more but you know. okay so whats going on with this? what should sally do? and what is joes explanation?
THANKS!! (link)
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Joe it sounds to me like he is being the typical guy, and it sounds to me like he might want to juggle a few girls around at once ; but that's just an assumption, don't go instantly thinking he's a player just yet.
I think Sally should talk to Joe about how he wouldn't let her tell anybody they hung out and whatnot, and why he exactly did that, and how he made Sally feel like shit whenever he sat there and messed around with that Carry girl in school.
I think that if Joe really does like Sally, he wouldn't be sitting there with Carry and telling Sally not to tell anybody they're hanging out and whatever, it sounds like he's .. ashamed of them hanging out or whatever, so if I were Sally I wouldn't want to pursue a relationship with this guy if it's going to have to be all secretive and everything. He sounds like a jerk to me.
I hope I helped.
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Hi! I'm seventeen and I'm a girl. I'm in a little bit of a pickle. I was with this guy who I've known for about two years now nd I'm soo in love with him. We have everything in common and we are so alike. The thing is that we've never met. We met through a website and just started talking from there. I would talk to him everyday nd about everything. I feel in love with his personality. Some people don't understand how I can love someone I've never met but its possible. We live in the same state but about 40 minutes away from each other. Which is not too bad. Why haven't we met yet? Good question. Everytime we tried to meet up, something would come up or happen that he couldn't make it. Now two weeks ago we planned to meet at a mall. I went nd he called nd told me that he didn't have a ride. I was devistated. What do u think this means? I have put a lot of effort in trying to see him but it seems like he hasn't put enough. I can't take the heartaches anymore so I told him we should see other people. He hung up on me. I cryed for hours. But now I've found a better guy who I can see nd spend time with. Someone who actually appriciates me nd doesn't take me for granted. Do u think I made the right choice? (link)
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I think the reason he wasn't put such for an effort is because he could've been majorly nervous. I know I was when I was in a similiar situation like this. If me and him were ever going to meet I was sitting there thinking,"Oh my god, what if he thinks I'm ugly in person? What if he hates me? What if it's awkward? What are we going to talk about, what am I going to do? Hug him? Is that too weird?" And I was FREAKING OUT. So he could've just been extremely nervous to meet you and was afraid something might go wrong, or something might be said and you'd never want to see him again or talk to him. Meeting someone you really like that you've never even met for 2 years CAN be extremely nerve wracking.
If you really love him and still want to meet him, I suggest calling him up though and asking if he wants to give it one more try and meet up one final time and see what happens. I mean if you two are meant to be together, then this is the perfect opportunity to prove it and see where it takes you. If you really love him, you can't just give up like that. But if it falls through once again and he doesn't make effort, I suggest sticking with the guy you got.
But to answer the final quesiton, I do think you made a somewhat right choice. Like I said I don't think it's the right choice to give up so easily ( hence the suggestion I made of giving it another shot ) but I do think it was the right choice to sort of stop yourself from getting hurt anymore and going through more heartbreak and finding someone who'll be there for you and make an effort and everything.
So, think about if you really still want to meet this guy or not, and just see where everything takes you. If you and this guy are meant to be together again, you will be. But if nothing happens, it wasn't meant to be with him, and maybe you're supposed to be with your current guy.
( Sorry if I sound confusing, lol. Sometimes when I answer with long advice, I tend to ramble after awhile, haha. )
I hope I helped.
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If you had a choice. If you had to choose between studying for a really important test or helping out a friend in need. What would you do? (link)
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Well if it was me, if my friend really needed help with something and needed me, I would choose them over studying. There's always time later to study for a test, but a friend needs their friend sooner and needs their help.
I hope I helped.
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I'm not going to ask how do you find your bra size question...I'm 14/f and I wear a 34 B (Kid size ones) The adult 34 A's are too big for me and face it, I have no boobs. Is this normal or what? Will my boobs ever get bigger? I don't do sports by the way (link)
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Yes, this is perfectly normal. I can't tell you for sure if you're boobs are going to grow or not, it depends on how your body is going to grow, and I can't tell you that obviously, haha. But they still have a really good chance of doing so. The body doesn't stop developing and maturing until you're 18 years old, so you still have a good 4 years left to grow and everything. If you want to check on how big you might get, just see what size your mother wears, because you might get her genetics in that department. Also, if you haven't had your period yet, wait until that happens, and you might grow and develop more.
I hope I helped.
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15/f
i really really like my best friend. We have been really good friends for about a year. We are both 15. One problem is he says he says he is gay. we hang out alot and we r very close and everywhere we go everyone always thinks we r goin out. and everytime we hang out i like him even more ... WHAT DO I DO .... i no this is probly a really hard question to answer becuz theres nothing i can do about his sexuality but i really need help (link)
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Well, that's good you realize there's really nothing you can do to change his sexuality or anything. Most girls think they can do something about that.
The most you can really do is just continuing to be his best friend, I mean, best to have him in your life as a best friend, then nothing at all, right?
I know it's going to be hard, but whenever you two hang out just keep reminding yourself he's not available and just keep thinking of eachother as friends and try your best to push it from your mind. And even though you like him, try focusing on some other guys, it might help you focus less on liking him a bit, and you can direct your attention elsewhere and maybe even find a boyfriend!
I hope I helped, and I hope everything goes good with you.
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how can you tell when you should break up with someone?
ive been with my guy for 3-4 months, and i do love him.. but idk if i love him enough to be with him in a bf/gf sense. yesterday when we hung out it felt like a just friends thing [also tho we were w/ his brother and this girl who hes has been cheatin on his gf with for a couple days soo idk if maybe that put ideas into my head about bein hurt? but my guy promises he'd never cheat because hes been cheated on too many times.]
soo basically things arent the same as they used to be... but is that normal? i dont wanna break up with him and then regret it because i realize i really do wanna be with him!! i dont kno what to do =[ (link)
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That could be it ; the thought of him cheating on you made you worry and whatnot, but I don't think that would cause you to feel like just friends whenever you guys hang out.
Sometimes after a relationship has been going on for awhile, it doesn't seem as romantic or sweet as it used to be whenever it first started ; and that's because it's not as brand new, and you guys don't feel the need to always flirt and impress eachother cause you guys already have eachother, so that may be the cause of the friendly feeling you guys only get when you hang out together.
I suggest just giving it another chance and hang out with him some more and flirt more and show him more attention and see where it takes from there. If you do really want to be with him ; I wouldn't suggest breaking up with him at all, cause that'll only make you unhappy in the end, and you should be happy.
Haha, I sound corny probably.
But, I hope I helped!
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this halloween i planned on going trick or treating with my mates at eton wick which is about 20 minutes away, but the thing is no adult will come with us so my mum wont let me go all bcoz she carnt trust me!! so my question is how can i get my mum 2 trust me? nd no one say do chores etc etc coz i allready do!!
plz help!! (link)
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Maybe have your friends come over someday to your house and explain to your mom exactly where you're going, give them their numbers so she can call you and all of your friends to check up on you guys ( so she won't be worried ), and just let her know where you guys are all going and what time you'll be back and whatnot.
Also just talk to her about why she doesn't trust you enough to go somewhere ; is it because of something you previously did that made her lose trust in you? And ask her what you can do to make her understand you can be trusted and it's only running around with a few friends, getting some candy and she could call you any time she needs to to check up on you and see how you're doing.
I hope I helped.
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Um I'm super shy around everyone and everything. My face just automatically turns red and my voice gets shakey when I read outloud or even when attention focusses on me for one minute when I answer a question in class. And when I talk to anyone(girl or boy or even teacher) for more than 2 minutes my face gets red and my voice gets shakey. If I stay in front of the class for a long period then I feel like fainting (I was so close one time too..). This is like something serious it isn't like one of those things when people say your just shy because this is like EXTREME!
Is this some medical condition I should be worrying about? (link)
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I don't think it's a sort of medical condition you should have to worry about, it just might be something your body does.
I tried to find something similiar to what you're saying on Google, and this site came up:
http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20060928133743AAl9wpO
This person randomly gets red in the face and everything, so maybe some of those people's answers can help you out.
But like the one person on the site suggests, if you're still really worried about and curious, the next time you go visit your doctor, tell him what happens to you and if anything's going on with your body that you might have to be worried about.
But like I said, I don't think it's a medical condition.
I hope I helped.
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dog throwing up blood (link)
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Your dog needs immediate medical attention, and you should take her to the vet right away. It's not normal at all for dogs to be puking blood up, something could be seriously wrong. If the bleeding in them is bad enough, I hear they could possibly bleed to death. So like I said, take your dog to the vet NOW.
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