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how can you tell when you should break up with someone?
ive been with my guy for 3-4 months, and i do love him.. but idk if i love him enough to be with him in a bf/gf sense. yesterday when we hung out it felt like a just friends thing [also tho we were w/ his brother and this girl who hes has been cheatin on his gf with for a couple days soo idk if maybe that put ideas into my head about bein hurt? but my guy promises he'd never cheat because hes been cheated on too many times.]
soo basically things arent the same as they used to be... but is that normal? i dont wanna break up with him and then regret it because i realize i really do wanna be with him!! i dont kno what to do =[
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Stay with him. Do you trust him? If you trust him, then you know he's not lieing. He's telling the truth. He would never cheat on you.
Now about that "just friends" feeling.... It probably felt that way because you guys were getting along so well.... Dont worry about....
You guys should stay together. You guys have a good thing going on. ;)
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That could be it ; the thought of him cheating on you made you worry and whatnot, but I don't think that would cause you to feel like just friends whenever you guys hang out.
Sometimes after a relationship has been going on for awhile, it doesn't seem as romantic or sweet as it used to be whenever it first started ; and that's because it's not as brand new, and you guys don't feel the need to always flirt and impress eachother cause you guys already have eachother, so that may be the cause of the friendly feeling you guys only get when you hang out together.
I suggest just giving it another chance and hang out with him some more and flirt more and show him more attention and see where it takes from there. If you do really want to be with him ; I wouldn't suggest breaking up with him at all, cause that'll only make you unhappy in the end, and you should be happy.
Haha, I sound corny probably.
But, I hope I helped!
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Feelings change so fast, that it is probably good to not do anything rash. Give each other a few days apart to hang out with friends and see how much you miss him or not. That should hold your answer.
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