okay so i have friend named "sally" and she has been talking and messing around with this guy we will call "joe". joe and sally hung out with eachother atleast once a week in the summer. sometimems with friends. sometimes without. okay so at the end of summer joe tells sallly we cant do this anymore because i guess joe likes some girl named carry and joe thinks his friends dont know sally even though they hang out with some of the same people.so its not gonna work. well joe still texts sally and says what r u doing come over and sallly does all the time but joe makes sures nobody is home at his house and joe tells sally not to tell anyone about them and sally doesnt want joe to tell anyone about them. but it sucks for sally because at school she sees joe and carry messing around and it makes her feel like shit. but the other day when they were hanging out joe said to sally he liked her more but you know. okay so whats going on with this? what should sally do? and what is joes explanation?
I think Sally should talk to Joe about how he wouldn't let her tell anybody they hung out and whatnot, and why he exactly did that, and how he made Sally feel like shit whenever he sat there and messed around with that Carry girl in school.
I think that if Joe really does like Sally, he wouldn't be sitting there with Carry and telling Sally not to tell anybody they're hanging out and whatever, it sounds like he's .. ashamed of them hanging out or whatever, so if I were Sally I wouldn't want to pursue a relationship with this guy if it's going to have to be all secretive and everything. He sounds like a jerk to me.
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