How can i find a BF that is famous and that are not stupid, dumb, ugly, or mean?
im 19 years old
female
Well i'm not totally sure..though if you do an arts course at uni you tend to run into all sortsa people famous.
Though I suggest if you do strike lucky with anyone famous to not act like a gold digger-otherwise they could use their fame against you :)
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Why does my boyfriend not want to kiss me?
Ask him, but in a gentle way.
If it really upsets you, then he will want to tell you why. You never know, what he says could be a genuine problem.
If he doesn't tell you, then he's either being shy or waiting till the right moment to suprise you.
Guys kiss for sexual pleasure, but girls kiss for commitment. So maybe he's just not ready at the moment
Hope this helps :))
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BB cat started killing animals this March. Barb got him from the SPCA when he was a kitten 7 yrs ago, he spent most of his time in the closet, coming out only to eat. He has cleaned the hair from his nipples and wants to eat all the time. He has killed a bat, rats, mice, birds, and gofers. Earlier this week he dismembered a mouse and yesterday he killed a humming bird. If we try to keep him in he breaks things, claws the speakers, the doors,the windows, and cries loudly all night until we let him out. What's going on, why is he acting out!
Firstly, this cat is normal. Its a cats nature to kill things.
Although cats don't get as bored as dogs do, they still need to keep there mind active. When he's inside, if you play with him with string, he'll get tired, and so at night time he will sleep and not catch as many things.
Also, you may need to alter his diet. Some cat food can cause them to become hyperactive, as a well known brand did with my cat. I'm no vet, but what my vet suggested was to include more dry biscuits in his diet. This makes them less hyperactive. Also, if theres been any changes in the family or with other pets, this cat can detect it.
You must let him out, because otherwise he'll be bored out of his mind. If he comes back with multiple corpses, so be it for the time being-but cats don't hunt this much all their lives so its jsut a naughty spell.
Good luck :))
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how does it feel whenn your putting on your braces
Well when they put them on it doesn't hurt-it just takes a while ^^
About an hour after though it begins to sting, so i suggest trying to sleep throgh it and putting a hot water bottle near your mouth to ease the pain.
Then you may get ulsures a few days after, from the rubbing, so be prepared with wax and special cream.
After this its fine :)
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Hi. Im 18 and have never had a boyfriend or done anything with a guy. I just recently entered college and up until now i havent really ever been concerned with guys too much. Im straight i do know that, however it's never been a real concern of mine. Since im in college now, i kind of feel like somethings wrong with me. All my roomates are hooking up with guys all over the place. I really don't know if im weird or what. I like guys, im attracted to them but whenever i do end up talking to one for a while...something happens idk. Im so confused someone please help me straighten out my head.
Hi
Firstly it must be kinda hard in your situation because it must feel like everyone has had a boyfriend.
But actually, your in a good position. This is because most people your age and younger may have had a boyfriend, but they could be the desperate ones. Not many relationships last anyway because of this.
If you want a boyfriend, then I find the best way is to be mysterious. Don't every be in guys faces, or like say dirty jokes or anything, as then they'll see you as one of the boys and not girlfriend material. Also, when you speak to them the best thing to talk about is them-they love it. If you share a secret or a deep fact with a guy, then they'll take a shine to you as they'll trust you
And if you don't want one jsut yet then continue to be a single pringle. The right person will come when the time is right, trust me.
Take care :))
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why do I always have butterflies in my stomach or feeling like the need to throw upp every time i talk to this guy i like? is there a way i can just talk normal and not feel this feeling in my stomach?
Yes. But you need to understand that the reason you're feeling like this is because you feel un easy in his company, because you like him but he doesn't know. To adress the situation properly, you'll have to tell him that you like him. Because then you'll both know where you stand with each other, and you'll feel alot more comfortable in his company-and the butterflies will go.
Try telling him in a quick note or something. I fit's just as small crush, then tyr and think of someone else when you talk to this guy, like a celebrity, and you'll feel at ease.
Good luck!
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Okay so I am 14 and I have never had a period. I use to think about it alot and then I fiugred it would come when it's ready. Latly I just want it to come! I k ow peoe say you don't want it but I just want to know. I have had discharge for like 2 or 3 years now! In the last year it has been heavier than before. People say it should start a year after! I am 14 and my mom and her mom starte there's when they were 12!!! When will I start mine? I have discharge EVERYDAY!!! I don't get cramps though. Pleaseeeee help me I'm so worried!!!
Aww i was like this when i was your age! I'd just say check if other things are changing. Like if you notice your breasts become tender, or if you develop pubic hair.
And actually when it does come, its only a little bit to start off with. It wont properly get into a monthly routine untill after a few months.
You're completely normal, all girls start at diferent ages. Every girl has started by the time they reach their seventeenth birthday, unless theres an underlying health issue.
So i'd not worry about it, because why worry about something that you can't change or contol?
Good luck :)
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so I'm 13 girl and i have had boyfriends and guys that I liked that liked me back. but I'm nervous to have my first kiss. I'm only nervous cause I don't want to be bad at it. does that make me prude? and there's a guy I like, were friends I heard he likes me but idk. i wanna kiss him but I'm too nervous. I'm even nervous talking to him. is there a way I can make myself not so nervous about having my first kiss? please help me:)
To be honest, if you feel nervous just talking to him maybe he's not the guy for you. After all, you have to communicate to make a relationship work.
I'd actually suggest tho not talking to him about kissing him-it could spoil the romance, which is why the first kiss is so special.
Just make sure you guys are alone somewhere-you don't want people staring. And take deep breaths. The thing is, if it's your first kiss, who's to say it's not his aswell?
Just give him a hug and when coming out from the hug kiss him. What could go wrong? Trust your instincts. If he likes you too, then he'll be glad you made the first move. Good Luck
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I want to talk to him but I'm scared. What should I do ?
You shouldn't be with him if you feel scared to talk to him about this sorta stuff.
if you honestly find it that hard-don't worry i would, then do what i did.
Send a note to him and explain. A note is better as its more personal than a text/email and if its handwritten he'll know you're serious.
Explain as well you wrote a note as you felt you couldn't talk to him face to face. Jsut explain exactly why he made you cry,how he made you feel and the distrees its caused you.
Best outcome: He'll read the note and feel guily what he's done. He'll put up a fight to work his way back into you're good books again.
Worst outcome: He'll knwo he hurt you, and he'll split up with you as you reacted in this way. But hey-do you really want to be with a guy who changes his mind like that? You deserve better.
Good luck :)
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i recently got a new boyfriend, and well its really awkward. how do i prevent this.. any tips?
Talk to each other. Also, compliment him on a few things, and this will put him at ease.
When you go on dates, go on dates that mean you're quite busy-NOT THE MOVIES,so that theres lots to talk about, and if theres nothing to discuss you guys wont notice as you're busy.If that makes sense?
Gotta say this is normal at the start of every single relationship-if you didn't feel awkward, then you wouldn't feel like you benifit from being in the relationship, as what you want is already there.
Don't meet up with each other every single weekend, as you may get bored, limit it at first, so he actually misses you. I'd also say that if it still feels awkward after a few months, talk to him about it. Don't dump if straight away, because you'll have to get to the bottom of the problem first. Good luck :)
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I dont know what to do, i just have no self confidence. I always fear the worst and am paranoid that people think bad of me. I'm not crazy or anything i just struggle to feel comfortable with what i look like and who i am. I really want to be someone who can jujst say to herself "your so preatty" but i cant. This is the reason i can never publically speak to people adn dont like taking photos. And when i do take one i just am so horified of how i look and delete it straight away. What should i do?
Yeh i had this a year ago now.
The thing is, if you don't love yourself how can you expect others to like you?
Try and complete something challenging once a day. For example, if you're shy about speaking to your neighbours, casually say hi when in passing.
Also, getting facebook helps. If you already have facebook, then maybe join groups where you can interact more.
Complimenting people is a big must. If you compliment them on something, they'll appriciate it and wont forget it. If you do it enough, they'll see you as a friend, and start complimenting/talking to you, and you'll feel confident.
Face it, theres always someone worse off than you. improve on anythign you like about yourself. One day, challenge yourself to walk down the street wearing something different-like a bright pair of trousers. People will accept you for who you are, and you'll have confidence.
Remember everyone is fabulous in some way :)
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well me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost nine months and he has two friends that are girls that i dont care if he has but the three of them are always whispering and keeping things away from me and i wanna know what i can do my boyfriend says he dont like them like the love kind of way that there only friends but i kinda dont believe that
This happened to me too-awful.
Whatever you do, don't speak about the girls in a bitchy/jealous way to your boyfriend. It's cute at first but he'll soon be tired of it.
Yes, you do need to talk to your bf, but don't make it a big deal, as jealousy is not attractive.
Instead, go the extra mile to show him exactly why he's with you and not them. Guys love suprises, and honestly by trying extra harder while these girls lay off, he'll soon realise what he has and lay off of them.
Hope this helps and good luck :)
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So i got bored of answering questions so i wanna know: what is an original name that you call your boyfriend for girls and for you guys what do you call your girlfriend...i want absolutely hilarious and original ones soooo if it's in a justin beiber song-sorry:/ lol also what would you like to be called? come one people make my day:)
lol. razzaldazzle (for ryan)
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What is the perfect place to go on a first date? I would like you opinion to know to ask my crush to go.
Yep defo bowling, and maybe followed by chilling with a drink.
I'm actually good at telling people where not to go.
Not the movies, because a)you guys can't talk b) they'll be other couples in there on like their 100th date, and you may feel uncomfortable and nervous
Not the park a)just because the park is a perfect setting for a private first kiss (not assuming anything here)
Not shopping a)okay, i did this once, and guys unsuprisingly don't like being dragged around ^^ my bad.
Good luck :)
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HI. im 13 and i have been in love with this guy 4 like 4 years.This is the first year i finally had the guts to talk to him. At first i thought he did like me! but when i asked him and his friends asked him he said he only sees me as a friend, and now its definet he doesnt like me. I want to get over him. i have exams and more important things to worry about. please help.
Well firstly its great that you want to get over this guy.
I bet theres been times in school where he's walked past and completely blanked you right?
You need to try and write down a list of things that he has done to you that hurt you, and everytime you think of him, read the list. Eventually, you'll know the list off by heart, and you'll see him in a different light.
However, if there havn't really been anytimes when he's hurt you, then think of this:
He hurt you how he told you he didn't like you. He hurt you how he told his friends he didn't like you. And he hurt you enough so that you had to come on here and actually ask for help.
You're only thirteen, there will be probobly numerous guys out there that would love to have you're attention, and feel the same way back.
Good luck-and inbox me if you need more help :)
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So before yesterday I pretty much knew exactly how I wanted my life. I would marry (hopefully) my crush, have a boy named Aaron Dean, and 3 years later, a girl named Riley Lucille. But last night, my old crush from another state friended me on facebook. And we were talking. Right now, I reaaaaaalllyyy like my old crush. But I know I cant date him since he's in another state. My other crush is here, but he doesnt really talk to me. I know in my heart that I like the guy from another state better, but my brain is saying NO. All because we are in different states. So what do you think I should do? Like the guy I really like in a different state, or the sensible guy I kinda like in my state. P.S. I am a 13 year old girl.
♥Thank you♥
Honestly? I think it's too early to tell yet. You're thirteen years old. I'd advice you not to waste away whats left of your childhood by planning to the year your future-you'll totally regret it.
Also, you have to remember that it takes two to take a relationship to work. When you talk to them, which do you feel likes you more? Also, imagine something terrible happened-who would be the first/best at comforting you?
When you answer these questions then you'll know, but I can't say who you should be with because obviously i don't know what each is like.
Good luck :)
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I have a friend I've know for about a year. I was attracted to him instantly. But I didn't think he liked because I don't seem like his type and he doesn't seem like the relationship type. So I tried to get over my feelings. But then last night I had a dream that we out with 2 of mutual friends and when they weren't around he kissed me on the lips and we started making out and then when they came back we stopped right away so we wouldn't get caught. What do u think it means?
This could mean a few things. It depends, i'd say if he's the kinda guy you talk to about anything and everything, then i'd say you just dreamt about it as you feel you can trust him/rely on him.
If you guys are just mates but he's not like a best mate, then i'd say it means something. Maybe not that you want to be in a relationship with him, but that by being with him you feel at ease and like him more than any other guy.
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Why are some girls flat chested? What makes them flat chested?
Theres a few reasons.
As mentioned already here genetics causes you to be.
Also, if girls drink lots of caffene products,they're likely to be flat chested. This is because caffeine inhibits growth-including chest growth.
Also, if girls are super active and/or skinny it can stop chest growth, as the food eaten is used to give you enough energy to make you respire, and theres none left to put into growing a chest.
Hope this helps :)
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me and my boyfriend have been together for half a year now and things are changing a bit. usually we only see eachother over the weekend cause he lives far away but recently we've been seeing eachother every day and ever since we dont get along too much anymore and it seems like he doesnt care about me as much cause things got "boring" so we decided to only see eachother over the weekend again but what else can i do to spice the relationship up a bit and make it more exciting like it was in the beginning?
Theres lots of things to make it more interesting!
Buy a present now and again, reduce contact so theres more to talk about when you do speak.
You could join clubs so he can see you being succesful and he'll want you more.
You could visit him by suprise sometime or send him a text if he's about to have a really important meeting.
You could (if you're at this stage yet) kiss him suddenly when your shopping or something, or suprise him with theatre/concert tickets.
One thing I would say though, is that if you do all this and he's having the time of his life with you-but you're not getting anything back from him, i'd THEN talk to him about the relationship. Talking first prevents many breakups from occuring. Good Luck :)
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Ugh. The same old A+ staring back at me. No one to talk to except a stray piece of paper, or a napkin; something that will listen. As a kid I would talk to a ragged teddy bear, which got lost. Everyone hates me. If I start a conversation or try to join one, they move away, wrinkling their noses. Is it really my fault that at eleven-almost-twelve I have the worst complexion in the world, along with the facts that I'm twice their height, can't play sports, and am just a failure. I can't even swim! Everyone believes that I'm not getting picked on just because I'm tall! Tall people can get picked on just as much as short people. I've been so stressed lately, and my dad wants me to be perfect. And then last week I got a C-! I've been too afraid to tell anyone. My life is a train wreck.
I'm 15 and just getting to the end of my school career.
When i was your age, about 12, I too found it hard to fit in.
I think the big thing you could be experiencing is insecurity. I had it to.
It occurs commonly in people during their adolencent years, and it's because loads of changes are happening. And you feel like everyone hates you, you feel like you'll never fit in.
The thing is, if you feel this way then you clearly don't like yourself. And how can you expect people to like you, when you don't even like yourself?
You need time to find out who you really are. Just think, what do you want to become/do with your life, and what aprts of you do you LIKE? Write down also anything anyone has said to you thats nice, and read it when you have a bad day. Seriously though, school is a short part of your life.
I spent the years from being 11 to being 14 really hating school, hating the people, hating the teachers blah blah blah. But now, with one month left, i actually am sad to leave. The point of that was to say that don't waste away your younger years CARING what people think of you. you'll regret it.
If the worst comes to the worst, make friends with any new people that join the school, that way you'll be popular, as you'll appear to be welcoming and approachable. Good luck :)
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