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18 and never had a boyfriend..........but should i really be worried?
Hi. Im 18 and have never had a boyfriend or done anything with a guy. I just recently entered college and up until now i havent really ever been concerned with guys too much. Im straight i do know that, however it's never been a real concern of mine. Since im in college now, i kind of feel like somethings wrong with me. All my roomates are hooking up with guys all over the place. I really don't know if im weird or what. I like guys, im attracted to them but whenever i do end up talking to one for a while...something happens idk. Im so confused someone please help me straighten out my head.
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Firstly it must be kinda hard in your situation because it must feel like everyone has had a boyfriend.
But actually, your in a good position. This is because most people your age and younger may have had a boyfriend, but they could be the desperate ones. Not many relationships last anyway because of this.
If you want a boyfriend, then I find the best way is to be mysterious. Don't every be in guys faces, or like say dirty jokes or anything, as then they'll see you as one of the boys and not girlfriend material. Also, when you speak to them the best thing to talk about is them-they love it. If you share a secret or a deep fact with a guy, then they'll take a shine to you as they'll trust you
And if you don't want one jsut yet then continue to be a single pringle. The right person will come when the time is right, trust me.
Take care :))
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first off,. your only!! 18.
Just because you haven't been with a guy doesn't mean there is something wrong with you. It just means you haven't found the right guy yet.
And honestly,. Do you really wanna be the person running around and doing random guys left right and center? .. Might be a bit slutty. no offence to these people if their your friends. I just think it doesn't matter who you have been with but who you are with.
You are still very young so just enjoy life and don't worry about when you will find a guy to make out with and what not. it will happen when the time is right.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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Hey, look nothing's wrong with you...you are the best among your frenz,you know sometimes we are on the right path but because not many are there on it we feel we are going the wrong way,
I wanna illustrate an example to you, if every body in the class or in the college fails and you pass out with good grades you would be kind off feeling odd... And this feeling would be awesome if all the others regret on their results,
but just think the other way round, what if they fail and they are happy for that,they think they have done a good job,they think you hav committed a mistake passing out, and they make fun of you, they tease you... But this does.nt mean that we should also become like them and fail, of course thoughts do come like, y b the odd one out.?
But just imagine by thinking about others(when they are wrong) if we change we would be like big time fools...
Similarly... The world around you is real bad, they are doing things they should do after marraiges(having sex).Don't feel even 1% bad... You should be an ideal to them.keep telling them to avoid what they are doing,and you'll be the first to avoid it.don't think some think's wrong by not dating guys.hope u understand,pls write to me on Cooldudeaqiab@gmail.com
if u think i was helpful... Thanking you... Bye
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