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Which Guy?
So before yesterday I pretty much knew exactly how I wanted my life. I would marry (hopefully) my crush, have a boy named Aaron Dean, and 3 years later, a girl named Riley Lucille. But last night, my old crush from another state friended me on facebook. And we were talking. Right now, I reaaaaaalllyyy like my old crush. But I know I cant date him since he's in another state. My other crush is here, but he doesnt really talk to me. I know in my heart that I like the guy from another state better, but my brain is saying NO. All because we are in different states. So what do you think I should do? Like the guy I really like in a different state, or the sensible guy I kinda like in my state. P.S. I am a 13 year old girl.
♥Thank you♥
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Honestly? I think it's too early to tell yet. You're thirteen years old. I'd advice you not to waste away whats left of your childhood by planning to the year your future-you'll totally regret it.
Also, you have to remember that it takes two to take a relationship to work. When you talk to them, which do you feel likes you more? Also, imagine something terrible happened-who would be the first/best at comforting you?
When you answer these questions then you'll know, but I can't say who you should be with because obviously i don't know what each is like.
Good luck :)
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Well to start off with, I wouldn't be planning your life with either of these guys, your 13! I'm 18 and still not even giving my future family a second thought, fact is people will come and go until you really settle down and that's not for a while yet.
As for your decision, its not impossible to have a long-distance relationship if you like the guy from the other state and it may be possible to take holidays to see him if both your parents know each other and are fine with it, equally, the guy who lives near you seem's to not have a strong relationship built up and therefore I'm assuming this was a "love-at-first-sight" crush, In my opinion keeping friends with the furthest away and building up a friendship with the one that lives close by will sort out your problem for you :)
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