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My boyfriend made me cry ?
I want to talk to him but I'm scared. What should I do ?
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You shouldn't be with him if you feel scared to talk to him about this sorta stuff.
if you honestly find it that hard-don't worry i would, then do what i did.
Send a note to him and explain. A note is better as its more personal than a text/email and if its handwritten he'll know you're serious.
Explain as well you wrote a note as you felt you couldn't talk to him face to face. Jsut explain exactly why he made you cry,how he made you feel and the distrees its caused you.
Best outcome: He'll read the note and feel guily what he's done. He'll put up a fight to work his way back into you're good books again.
Worst outcome: He'll knwo he hurt you, and he'll split up with you as you reacted in this way. But hey-do you really want to be with a guy who changes his mind like that? You deserve better.
Good luck :)
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Its not okay if your boyfriend is inflicting any sort of malicious behaviours towards you and you have every right to call him on it. A relationship is an equal partnership.Exactly what is it that you're scared of in confronting him?
Communication and trust are key components in any relationship and if you're lacking in these things then it's time to re evaluate your relationship with him. While we are all guilty of making mistakes and hurting people we care for in some form, it is essential that you talk to each other about your relationship and how you interact with one another.
Tell him you need to talk with him and tell him from the heart of how he upset you, how you're feeling and that it wasn't acceptable.
If he doesn't treat you with the respect a partner should then you should acknowledge that you deserve much better.
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you have to talk to him. comunication is the key thing in a relationship so if your boyfriend made you cry you have to let him know tell him what it was that he did that made you cry. you shouldn't be scared iof your boyfriend unless he gave you a reason to be and if he did then you shouldn't be in that relationship. hope i helped, let me know if you need any more help.
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