Q: 18/m

Alright, well for the past 4 months I have been completly.. (I don't think words can describe it? I don't want to say love, But I don't know) with this girl, but being me, I never said anything. Although, I'm fairly sure she knew. Well, last night I was talking to her, and she said that she wished she had dated me, Pathetically, my answer was "Thanks" I mean seriously wtf is that. Well, this couldn't have been better timing, because now she is moving 500 miles away, Tomorrow. Now, my question? well.. I don't know what I should do? Any ideas? This just sucks. I feel as though there is nothing I can do, which is killing me.

P.S This entire scenario is so out of character for me. Usually, I'd have asked her out straight away. She is just.. Different. (You know, that different which is just unexplainable?)

Q: So I am in love with my boyfriend. Its going to be 1 year this valentines day. Things are very good between us, and he is convinced were going to spend the rest of our lives together. I am 18 years old, he is 26. You see a problem there? At first I thought he was crazy when he said it but hes just so sure were gonna get married that hes starting to convince me of it.

Me, being the young, less experienced one want to believe that it will work out. I want to believe that everything will be perfect between us. Yet theres still so much I haven't experienced in life. He's doing his last 4 years of school, I'm starting my first 4 years. He's dated so much its almost ridiculous,and I've barely dated at all.
He says that because he's dated so much he KNOWS that I am all he ever wanted. He loves everything about me etc etc. He loves that I am pure. Well its my lack of experiences thats making me so.

Regardless of the fact, whats also true is I love him. I need him. I want to be the one for him. I am just so afraid that our age difference is going to tear us apart.

I'm very inquisitive all the time and curious because I love knowing what he thinks about everything. He says that I ask the same questions but thats because I get different answers all the time. He's more direct in his thinking. He says he doesn't see the point in me asking the same question when the answer is so plain obvious. Says its repetitive. I tell him it's because I think too much. Maybe it is, but I like getting him to think about things. He needs to understand me better in that way.

I guess my question is what do you guys think about this whole deal? I need some sort of opinion because I seem to be the only one who is thinking ahead and seeing both of us getting hurt. I am probably just scared, yet somehow, something doesn't feel right about this. However, I cannot even begin to finish that thought because we are both going to get hurt immensely if it doesn't work out. And hes been hurt so much before that I don't know if he can handle it. I know I barely can. Does anyone have any advice or thoughts on the matter? Sorry if it was really long...

Q: on school nights, i have a strict curfew of 9 o clock, 9:30 at the latest. and usually if i was a little late, my parents wouldn't mind, but i got into a bit of trouble recently, and now my parents are really hammering the whole "be home on time" thing. problem is, the person i hang out with the most, his dad has ADD to the max, and most of the time doesnt take his medication. whenever i'm over there, he takes absolutely NOTHING serious, and could care less about my curfew. i keep trying to tell him "i'm late, i need to be home NOW" but it just won't get through his thick skull. even my friend tries to tell him that i have to be home by a certain time, and when he'll act like he's fixing to walk out the door, he'll start watching TV or playing with his puppy or take FOREVER to put his shoes on, and this keeps getting me into trouble! i was supposed to be home at 9:15 tonight, and walked into the house at 9:48. this is getting ridiculous and i'm getting in trouble. what can i do to make him realize that he needs to get me home at a certain time or i'll have my head bitten off?

Q: Hannah is my bro's feiance. She is a bad situation at her house and when she turns 18 wants to move in with me. Im ok with her living with me but I will expect certain things from her like going to school and having a job. Do you think expections would be a bad thing and if not what should I expect out of her?

Q: I met my husband when I was 17 and just coming out of a really bad relationship. We ended up getting married and having children.

Since we have been married I have had two emotional affairs with male friends, one about 6 years ago and one about 4 years ago. Honestly at firt it was all about the attention. I crave the rush of knowing that someone is interested in me even though I love my husband and I don't want to leave him. I eventually told my husband about the affairs and he is being as supportive as he can be. I never had sex with either of them (I did kiss them however) and I never really had the intention of consumating the relationship but on the other hand I really believed I was in love with the second one. The problem is this happens with any close male friend I have. I think that I have a serious mental issue because no matter how much my husband adores me I still crave more (other people to be interested in me, etc..) I don't want to be like this and remembering what I did to my husband kills me inside. I constantly live with the guilt and the shame and even though I have been completely honest with him (I told him that I told the second one I loved him and we kissed and he forgives me) I am scared to death that it could happen again. I don't want to be unfaithful in any way and so far i've been doing ok since the last one ended but I really need help. I do not want to continue to hurt him. How can I stop this cycle? Therapy? Medication? I completely cut any male friends out of my life already and I have no desire to form any kind of bond with any guy. This is killing me inside. Please offer any advice you can.

Q: 17/F
Boyfriend is 17 also
We've been going out for 3 months

Ok, now that the introduction is over, let's move right along into the question!

Well, my boyfriend is an amazing guy and we get along beautifully. I could honestly see spending the rest of my life with a guy like him. However, he's SUPER shy. He never talks to anyone. He's just very quiet and focused. Sometimes I even have a hard time getting him to talk. When I do get him to talk, we usually talk about how much we love each other. Now, don't get me wrong, it's wonderful and he makes me feel like the luckiest girl in the world. I was just wondering... Is this normal? Like, do couples in healthy relationships basically only talk about how much they love each other? I mean, we do tlak about other things... Loving each other is just the most common topic.
Thank you so much!

Q: I have been good friends with this boy for 10 years. He is so great to me, I can count on him with anything. I could tell him I am having a bad day and he will call me and play a song on his guitar for me because he knows I love when he plays. I go to him with my problems because he is the one who is ALWAYS there to help me and when I tell him I feel bad for dumping my horrible life on his plate he tells me to not worry about it, that he wants to help me especially if he knows that the problem is bothering me. I have never really thought of him being anything more to me than just my best friend until my girl best friend brought it up to me. Everybody says we already act like a couple because of the way we treat each other, we "smile" at each other and give "googly eyes" I don't see any of it and neither does he but why does everyone else? I don't know if any of you guys know the 'silly bandz' the rubber bands that are shaped into animals and such, he took two of mine and he wears them everyday when this girl that likes him made him a bracelet and he said he isn't fond of things staying on his wrist. His best friend is the one who brought it up to him and my other best friend is the one who brought it up to me. So both of our friends started talking and they spread it around the whole school that we really need to go out. I just thought he was always being friendly playing songs for me and helping me. One last thing, he also attended a dance for me, he wasn't going to go but I had convinced him after two hours to come and he did for me. What's your view? Please and Thank You.

Q: Hey, so, I have this boyfriend who I've been going out with for about 3 months now. He's the sweetest guy I've ever met and a die hard Christian. I go to church with him every Wednesday night, and our friends tag along. I've been a Christian for most of my life, but there was this period during middle school where I wasn't exactly sure if it was really the right thing for me. I think I may still have a few doubts, but I go with him anyway because all our friends go to, and I figure it might change my mind eventually. However, my boyfriend keeps pressuring me to get saved and give my life to Christ, but I don't think I'm ready for it yet. I've told him multiple times that I feel like he's pushing me into it, but it doesn't seem to make a difference. Now it's gotten to the point where I either do it, or he breaks up with me. I don't think I'm ready for that kind of commitment. I love this boy, and I have no clue what to do. Any suggestions?

Q: Alright so.. I'm just gonna start right from the beginning :P
In general, I'm normally attracted to men bigger and taller than myself. And as a rule (not always the case but in my experience, pretty much :P) taller men have larger penises. Soo just by default, I have always been with men who are reasonably well-endowed.
But this Halloween I ended up getting thoroughly intoxicated & hooking up with a guy that was totally not my type. Short, cute but in a very boybandish kind of way (lol), smaller penis than what I was used to.
& the sex was the best I've ever had!
We hooked up a few more time and he was consistently great, so it wasn't a matter of just being too high&drunk the first time to judge accurately.
Eventually we stopped seeing eachother and I was left wondering, was it coincidence that the sex was so great? Soo I chose a new target, hahah :P
Also shorter than me, asian (half chinese), super handsome, and predictably - not a very large penis.
And the sex was BETTER STILL with this guy! I'm like completely addicted to him, his body is absolutely perfect
I've found that guys with small ones try harder because they're insecure, which makes them more thoughtful lovers
they also have to hit it harder to get the same amount of sensation as a guy with a larger one might naturally get, and the fact that they go at it so hard is definately not something I'm complaining about :)
furthermore, the oral sex is much better - they're more proficient, and also it's more fun to preform in return because there's no gagging on my end!
On top of that, I really just find a smaller one more aethestically pleasing to look at. There is something so ugly to me about a large, swinging, veiny piece of meat, which is essentially what a large penis is :P It never really occured to me that a small one would look any better until I actually saw one.
And furthermore, with well endowed guys there was always pain upon them entering me, and I just always chalked it up as part of life. But now I'm discovering that you don't have to exchange pain for pleasure and it's amazingly liberating.
So my question is simply - is there anyone else out there who feels this way? Seriously? Because I even tried googling things like "I prefer a small penis" and there just seems to be absolutely NO ONE sharing my sentiments! :P I'm not concerned if it's normal, because frankly I couldn't care less, as long as we're both enjoying ourselves normality isn't a huge worry for me. But seriously though, just for curiousities sake, are there ANY women who sincerely prefer small penises? Because it quickly developed from an acquired taste, to an obsessionn, to a full-blown fetish in my case. Just would like to know if there's anyone in this wide world who shares my tastes :P thanks in advance for your answers!

Q: I have a HP G50 Laptop and have Windows Vista, on jan. 22 my computer wouldn't let me log into any website such as : Hotmail,Facebook,Youtube,Amazon etc. Everytime I try it'll say : "internet explore cannot display the webpage" it's not my internet since my other computers are running fine. This problem only happens after I've enterd all my info. in and click sign/log in

Q: Not a big buff...didn't read the book, probably not going to...just curious. Why is it that Edward can't read Bella...he says that he can like read everyone but her...is this the main reason why he likes her and if so why? Thanks.

Q: i've never been in a relationship,but i am now for my first time.We haven't been together very long but my expectations were higher than I thought.My boyfriend isn't like most boyfriends I see or hear about. He doesn't call me to talk on the phone,we don't hangout everyday,he texts me a little bit but not that much and i usually have to make the plans when we hangout (since I drive).He is a very busy guy,but still he could atleast text me to say goodnight.whenever we text at night,it usually just results in him not answering because he fell asleep ,instead of him saying goodnight.He doesn't really say cute stuff often but before we were going out,he would offer to buy me lunch and be really nice and since we started going out and doing sexual things (not sex!) he's changed.Don't get me wrong,he IS a nice guy.He hasn't done anything mean to me ,i just kinda feel a little neglected at times ...but is this normal since it's a new building relationship?

Q: so me and my boyfriend have only been going out for 2 weeks and it will be three on valentine's day. Obviously im not expecting much and neither should he.I feel as though he isn't even going make me a card or get me flowers or anything ,because he hasn't said ONE thing about valentines day.I've mentioned it several times and he barely acknowledges.I wanted to get him this shirt that he picked out that he really likes and some home made cookies and a little card...but i have no clue if he's even going to the trouble to do anything for me .He doesn't drive but I do ,and if he came up with a cute idea for something for us to do on valentines day,i'd be happy to drive..i just don't know ! Do most guys recognize valentine's day ? I don't know what to do!

Q: Okay let's say you're having sex with a girl and she cums, can you still continue having sex with her? I know for guys it's different because after they cum they go soft and need some time to get it together again. So basically can you keep going or do you stop? Btw...I'm a girl and was wondering because my guy and I plan on having sex soon.

Q: I am fourteen/F and my boyfriend is sixteen/M...
Annnd he has mono. Hahaha. Yeah, so for about two weeks he had this sore throat that he neglected to tell me about... so on saturday I made out with him. Today, Monday, he goes to the doctor. Heyyy... he has mono. Soo. I think I'm screwed... Hahah i mean we made out... a lot... and yeah. So this is gonna be a little tricky. I have some questions:
1. Mono lasts a long time right? He's saying like a month. How can I help HIM through this? For a month??
2. How am III going to deal with this? He said we're not allowed to kiss... for a month!! :(
3. How are WE going to deal with this? Once people find out he (and maybe even me) have mono, I feel like we're gonna get teased... for a month! Hahah.
4. ... I'm gonna get mono aren't I?
All in all, this is gonna be a long time. How do I handle this?

Q: well me and my boyfriend are both virgins. and well hes 18 and im 17 going to be 18 in september. well he says i have to wait til i turn 18 to have sex or a baby. cuz he dusnt wnt to hear crap from my mom. and if im an dult then i can do it. well also that way we can both make sure we are ready. we both love eachother very much. and we have been together for over a year already. well i really dont have a question but im scared that once we do have a baby that something will happen and i wont be able to have one. is there any way that i can make sure everything inside my body will work right once i get to 18 cause i want a baby..his baby more then anything. and i dotn want something to happen and like we cant have a baby. you know?! like for example i eat hot cheetos like all the time. is there any way that can ruin my things on the inside that will keep me from getting pregnant.? someone please answer this i know i have time but if theres any adviceid really like to start watching out for it now. that way there is no problems when i get there. so please and thankyou soo much!! xoxo

Q: my younger sister is 16 years old. now, i'm not on the greatest terms with her because we have pretty much nothing in common; she follows the crowd 100%, i ahve a mind of my own.

BUT her following the crowd is getting seriously out of hand. she smokes (she even stole my ID once to buy cigarettes), drinks, does drugs (yes, i know this is pretty much typical high school behavior >_< don't lecture me ont hat part), does graffiti, constantly lies to my parents about where she's going, and is pretty much a slut. I know this may be harsh, but she hooks up with a new guy every other day, wears VERY inappropriate clothing (doing everything she can to show off her boobs / ass), etc. and she doesn't even know most of the people she hangs otu with; she meets them on myspace or something and THEN hangs out with them. and she does all of this because she thinks it's the COOOL thing to do :\

anyway, moving on. nothing my parents seem to do WORKS. she's been caught with almost everything I listed above, but nothing's changed her ways. the thing is, they'll come down on her harshly the day theyf ind out, but in two or three days, she's back to normal and they leave her alone. sometimes they actually REMEMBER she's punished, but that doesn't work, either. after the punishment's over, she reverts back to her old self. (she's been caught shoplifting once, and police involvement pretty much stopped her from stealing)

So, recently, I've been thinking of "telling on her" to the police. (Not for ALL the shit she does, maybe the least serious one) I just feel that if the cops were involved, the scare might actually make her rethink things. I feel it may be the ONLY way for her to learn her lesson.

But of course, this'd have some serious ramifications.
1) negative impact on her future (colleges / jobs dont' really want a criminal there)... but then again, the stuff she does now can definitely impact her future (STDs, addictions, etc.)
2) kill my family's reputation. we'd all be judged because she's been arrested or something. my parents would be seen as bad parents for not being able to curb her behavior themselves, for raising such a child, etc. and i'd be known as the criminal's sister.
3) etc.


anyway, i know this is a CRAZY idea. without insulting me, please, just tell me what you think of my idea or if there's ANY other possible solution out there. my sister and i aren't on good terms, btu really. her behavior has to stop.

Q: I'm head over heels with a guy that has a serious girlfriend. Him & me are good friends, but I don't know the girlfriend that well. I don't want to be a 'homewrecker' but I truly like him more and more everyday. I haven't felt this way in years, so when I feel it, it's real. We basically act like bf/gf, and other people are noticing it. I know that if I had a boyfriend, I wouldn't want some girl being all over him, so I don't cross any lines. I flirt and I just want him to know that there's other options out there. He's a genuine good guy that would never cheat. I think he's getting tired of his relationship, and I can't avoid him because we see eachother almost every other day, and I honestly don't want to. What am I supposed to do about all this? [19/f]

Q: Me and my family fight...a lot. How do I not get so angry at them??? What are some good ways to cool down??

Q: My daughter is 13. She has been playing soccer since she was 5. We have a tournament this weekend and the last game of the day is at 5:30pm. It will be over at apprx. 7pm. The tournament is about 1 and a half hours away from our home. If she plays the game we won't be home until about 9pm. She has her first school/Valentines dance on Saturday which starts at 7pm until 10pm. She is very good at soccer, attendance is key and her position may be comprimised if she doesn't play. But, this is her first dance and she really wants to go. Her dad says play the game and forget the dance. I say forget the game and go to the dance. What do we do?

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