Thank you (:

I just wanted to thank yo. I appreciate it from the bottom of my heart! I am taking your thoughts into consideration. It's great to receive a neutral point of view for a change. Thank you again

i had to go to an adult and he hates me now but like you said maybe his life will be saved? i think i did the right thing

Thanks!

thanks you made me feel a lot better! :)

Thank you so much for the support and advice. This is just what I needed and I highly appreciate it!!!

THANK YOU! You helped save me from the WORST decision of my life! He was 18 and getting with 4 other girls I know of. He said he would only love ME forever but he was trying to get all of us pregnant at the same time. He got two girls pregnant so far that I heard of and one girl has TWO babies by him! This is the second guy I dated that wanted me to have his baby and the second guy who was busy with a whole bunch of other girls at the same time! LAST BLACK GUY I DATE EVER!

so true.

Thanks for the advice :) I think I'll try that

I don't agree with you, but thanks. When she asked me for advice about losing her virginity how weird would it have been if I said to my life-long-friend: I can't talk about your virginity cause I have a girlfriend? See how stupid that would sound? You don't seem stupid, so I am guessing you thought I meant something else so I give you a 5 all the same. :)

Thanks. I don't think our marriage is going to survive this. I work 100 hours a week to pay for everything, including a housekeeper, a nanny and a cook so she doesn't have to life a single finger around the house, and she gives nothing in return. We had sex ONE TIME in a year, she gets pregnant, which is great, but she uses it as an excuse just like each of our other kids. This is the second time it has happened like this. We have sex once in a year or 18 months, and she is pregnant. We have been married 8 years and had sex less than 50 times. I can't deal with the selfish any more. she won't even talk with the kids. She is like: "Mommy's pregnant go play with the nanny." It is like we are all her servants! :(

Thanks for suggesting counseling. I thought about it, but I didn't know if it was the best idea. Thank you!

thank you! i hope he is better than the last guy and wont dump me cuz of someones prettier facebook pic

thank you but i am afraid to say anything. i will try but i feel so bad and dirty i cant say it out loud to anyone :'(

that is an interesting subject. and i would love to approach it.

true! (:

Thanks

Thank you so much! I was just worried that it was expected to get married within a year of being engaged. I just don't wanna rush it. I wanna continue to save money, and to even make sure we are okay with living each other a little while longer. To me, being engaged doesn't really mean anything serious. It's just showing that you are ready to make that commitment whenever your ready. I have talked to my dad, and he said that getting engaged will ruin my life, even though i told him that we aren't getting married anytime soon. but thank you.

Thanx :)

Actually, you bring up some other questions that make me feel a little more at ease... Thank you for the reply...

Yes thank you and I hope to get one when they allow me which they say in a year then they'll think about it.

Thank you and yr very right. Ha my boyfriend calls me a child too.

thanks!

Thank you

Yeah, no i dont think so :) thanks though!

Well, I know it's not pee lol but I know it's very expensive. Thanks for sharing :)

I am sorry for your loss. Thank you

good advice

Thanks

So to have confidence i have to pretend to have confidence? I will try! Thank you!

Thanks :)

No offense but that was some pretty immature advice. I'm not the kind of girl to break up with someone in hopes that they will "try to get back with me". If i break up with someone its forever.

thanks so much!

Thanks so much :) happy valentines day to you both!

it's not we're alcoholics -.- but thanks for the advice anyway.

thanks i think i will find the solutions to all of my problems! thanks.

SORRY; i wrote it wrong. i get migraines only at my ride side and chest pains arm pains on my left. what do i do!!??!

I'm def. Not about to go throw my mom under the bus just because she can't manage money.

that could also be the reason...i just wish i didnt like him so much, if i didnt, getting him out of my life would be easy

Thank youu(: ur absolutly right! turns out yesterday that i talked to her at school abd she said that it wasn't her talking that her friend that don't like me stole her phone and hat I am invited(:! so everything worked out!(:

That sounds good ! How do yu get it?

Thanks hun :D

Thank you

Thank you :) I hope so!

Thanks, and yeah it's not so much the age but he lives so far away and stuff it's just sketchy

thanks

Yes, it does itch. But I know it's not poison ivy. Haven't cleaned it out but I will now.

hi there, thank you for your good response. It turns out that I was only doing that because everybody around me was gay and they kept telling me how cool it was I just wanted to fit in. I had never slept with a woman before I slept with a guy so I didn't know what the heck was going on with me. You know how all they show on TV is how cool gay people are right? I guess I just wanted to be cool. I don't know about anybody else, but being gay wasn't very cool for me. I was miserable and unhappy all the time. I am getting married. I'm going to be a daddy. None of this would've happened if I had been gay, and I never would have been happy. Thank you again!

thank you anyway, we already kiss and make out I was asking how to initiate, you know, like sex. ;-)

ugh idk man im so sad thou i miss him terribally boo

Thanks (:

I know that

Thanks!

Thankss . . Really qOod adviice . . Buht ii really Do Thiink iim Ready Nd Trust me ii Will Use ProTectiiOn . . Bye ! Thankss For Your Tiime And CoOperatiiOn

Thanks!

thankyou.... I made an appointment to get assitance with my meds so I can get back on them!

ok thanks

that's what im worried about. i would die if i lose him. thanks for your time.

mmm interesting. Thanks

Thanks for the advice :)

thanks:)

Thank you so much! I feel better! :)

I don't want her to get in trouble I just want to win her back.. I want my mom back.

thanks.

thank you (:

thanks, i have an appointment with my gyno in 2 weeks

I've tried Google, WebMD, and nothing comes even remotely close to this. I took a pregnancy test and the results were negative. And if I was pregnant, I think I would've been showing by now because I'd probably be 6 months along.

thanks reassured me a bit :)

thankkyouu!

ahh im not friggen 10.! i said i sound like i am hah..ew what kinda 210 yr old would do thats effed. and im not planning on sex fer a while and ahh ill worry about the stds which you cant really get from fingering so im not sure why you mentioned it i know it leads to sex bu tleave that to me

THANKS SO MUCH I TRIED TO TELL HER BUT THEY STILL WONT LISTEN. NATE IS A JERK IM STILL HURT and i dont know if ill get over it. but thanks for ur advice and for reading the whole thing. (btw sry for the caps it was a mistake.

aw im sorry. idk if i can thought i really love him and hes saved my life a few times..

Thanks so much! I was freaking it would be a long legal process and junk. Thanks again!

thank you :)

Thank you so much. Did you have any of these symptoms during your pregnancy?

OKay thank you! But here's the thing, I don't exactly know how to do that stuff! I'm only 13! lolz,. we have a farmers market which I'm trying to book now..Hmm..any other suggestions?

Thanks so much....but what if this continues??

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Thanks, hope everything falls into place soon....thanks for your support and advice, it's appreciated!

It's not about my punishment.. I really just want to gain their trust back! I do dishes twice a day, and am always cleaning the house. That doesn't make them trust me anymore.

thankyou so much! =]=] ill totally give it a try =]

thanks

i love ur advice--we are actually toning down our relationship and are doing the whole dating scenario over again! thank u :)

Thanks, but i actually wanted you to give more detail. But thank you anyway

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thanks <3

Thank you... and nope, not a smoker :)

Thanks

thank you iv tried to tell her to go to the police but shes scared what his family might do to her..iv put some updates up if youd like to read it

Thank you & I hope you're doing wellll:)

thank you! hugs

The problem is more the fact that despite all this, my parents are still more concerned with my sister and not the fact that I have alot of important things going on right now.

I have but, well guys are...blah! =-=; But thanks anyways.

Thank you for your advice! This made me feel comforted, and a little better. You are very kind. And I went today with my friend, but couldn't get through the door, I just had a panic attack right there, that sinking feeling and tightening around my throat. So my friend took me home. I just wasn't ready to see him. But I think that writing a note to him would make it easier. Then I can get all my thoughts out on paper and collect myself. And then I'll deliver it in person. Just not right now. =\ But thank you so very very much!

ok thx i will try to do that

thanks :)

Thank you for your wonderful insight =)

thank you so much! it feels good to know that there is someone who understands

thank you so much that was very halpful, iv asked you another question if you dont mind :)

I have had different jobs. I started working when I was 14, at our local grocery store, then this summer I worked at a park, and I got a new job just recently at a different grocery store. I am hoping that I may meet more new people there. Yeah, I know what you mean about hanging with people that smoke and that you don't have to do it yourself. Sorry to hear about your parents.. you shouldn't blame yourself. It is no ones fault, just a decision. I hope you still get to be with both of them (if you want that to happen). I hope your brother learns right from wrong, and doesn't start doing all that bad stuff. I also hope your child is doing well :) And exactly as you said... keep staying strong. <3 <3 <3 thanks

My name is Ashley. I am 22 years old. Ill be celebrating my 3rd 21st birthday June :) . I had my first child at 15. I got married at 18 and had another child shortly after. They have two different fathers. I am currently going threw a divorce. I moves states after we seperated ( ugly seperation) but I had no family in that state. I left everything except my beautiful babies and our clothes. I found a job up north and things are going good. I am dating. I have been in abusive situations. I am going to college for psychology and sociaology. Im here to listen help and give you advice ive been in alot of different situations and can relate to a lot.

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