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I i got the dancing game i wanted (DDR). I cant stop playing it. My mom says i acn lose a lot of weight playing it. Is losing a lot of weight good or bad? I need help.
i want that game so bad!! losing weight isn't bad depending on how much you weigh..but it's also helping to make your legs stronger..
Across the street from me, an elderly couple sold their house and the people that bought it have two young boys, ages 4 and 7 I believe. They have asked me if I'd like to babysit for them and that's fine with me. I've babysat before but normally I'd do it free of charge. It's come the time where I'm getting older and I need to get money. I'll be driving in a year and my parents aren't going to be paying for my gas and car insurance. What would be a good amout of money to ask for? I don't want to be asking for too much. I'm 15/ female.
im 13 almost 14 and i get paid 5 dollars. but then again, i'm only babysitting one kid and i'm younger than you. you should get at least 6 dollars....
Aright well im 14/f and me and my b/f have been together for almost a year...and he hasn't tried anything, I mean im not waiting for him to do something with me...but is it weird that he hasn't tried anything after almost a year or does it just mean that he really loves me? Like he's always all over me and touching me, but whenever im around me friends they just keep on askin me "have you guys done it yet?" and ill just be like "no" cause we havn't. And sometimes they just end up saying that he's stupid to not try doing it with me (i don't think that) and that they expect us to do it now that we've been together for almost a year! So I need to know does he really love me or is it just weird?
Thanx
he must love you because if he did have sex with you that means he could have been using you just so you can pleasure him...i think he realizes you are way too young for sex...
Well, my boyfriend and I are going to have sex for the first time on Tuesday.
I was just wondering if I should, like, shave you-know-where. I've tried shaving that hair before, but it didn't really go over so well... It was still stubbly and I couldn't get rid of that, and it was really just wierd.
I was wondering if the hair would gross him out or something... Would it?
you need the hair for protection against dirt....i think guys like hair over there because if you don't have hair it looks like you havent gone through puberty yet..
is this normal...
im ok with death, and i know heaven is more peaceful then earth..and i know heaven nothing can go wrong..
i sometimes want to die..but sometimes i fear that i dont want to dye...like i dont want my life to end i always want it to continue...and never end
im 14 and i know my death isnt till another 80 years or so...
when the topic of death comes up i think deeply about it and it scares me...just being alive is so wonderful being able to feel things..smell things...sometimes things are tough..sometimes almost unbearable but you gotta hang in if you dont know what its like to be hurt then you won't learn to appreciate good times....you jus gotta take the good with the bad..
i cry all the time. and im sick of it. i wish i could stop but i cant, i dont know what to do. i want it to be so that i dont cry at all. or not every day atleast. i feel so weak and helpless when i do. is there any way for me to stop or am i just stuck with it forever? i know this is a stupid question to ask but i really need help with this...
Do you have reasons for crying? If you don't know why you have been crying that is a sign of stress. If you do have reasons for crying that is normal drama of high school life. Now if you are not in high school then you might just have a lot of things going on in life that you need to let loose.
whats a good name for a female chihuahua? I rate 5s for really cool and creative names :)
Chiki
Hi i met this guy on a website and he keeps talking to me and sending me love smilies. Does he like me, i mean i don't even know him (i dont think so u cant ask who they are). I've only been talking to him for a day (not even) and apparently he plays football. I dont know anything about him i dont even know if hes a guy. I want to get his screenname but he wont go into the chat rooms. Someone please help me!
You can talk to him, but don't give out any personal stuff. I don't think he has a crush on you considering he knew you for a day..plus he doesnt reli "know" you. He could be a stalker so my best advice...don't talk to him much just talk to people you know in person.
A lot of people think I'm different, because I'm Jewish. Well, I consider it! And everyone else says, "Are you a catholic or christian?" ANd I say, "No. I'm way more on the jewish side." And they say, "Ooh, that's too bad." WHY CANT THEY MIND MY RELIGION? WHY DO THEY DO THIS? HOW CAN I MAKE THEM STOP? WHAT CAN I SAY BACK TO THEM?
Will rate high!
yah im jewish and the same stuff happens to me just be lyk ok...its my religion..respect it.
Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne
Contact her parents.. She shouldn't be doing that with someone so young. Talk to your son and tell him all the diseases that can spread and that he has to wait.
Does anybody know how to mix black? I don't know if there really is a way, but I have the following colors: red, yellow, blue, green, purple and orange. If anybody could tell me, I would appreciate it so much. I've tried blue and orange and I got a really dark brown, but I tried to add green and it only got more purplish. HELP!!
I dont think it is possible with those colors. You would need grey and white.
*All my friends say I'm cute, but I think I'm ugly. They've all had boyfriends and I haven't. I'm 13 and in 7th grade, I've never been kissed or anything my little 11 year old brother already had his first kiss and he was making-out with the girl. I don't know what to do. I sort of guess I'm just ugly. But I can't take it. What can I do? It's tearing me apart it makes me feel unwanted.*
Nobody is ugly. There's beauty inside everyone. Maybe you just haven't found the perfect someone. Trust me, I'm in 8th grade. We're too young to actually fall in love. A boyfriend we have now is most likely not going to be with us till we are married. The real dating starts in high school, so don't be in any rush.
my dad doesn't trust me... he has this thing in my computer that saves my IM's so he can see what i am saying... he says he will only give me 30 minutes out of mon - thurs. to talk to my friends on IM because thats what my aunt does to my cuzin... is there any way that i can get rid of this... my dad said there isn't but i no that there is... i can't talk to my dad about anything because he won't listen... its his way or no way... going for help is not an option i will take... what should i do
Try writing a letter to him. Maybe he doesn't like talking face to face with people. Be more responsible around the house. (Cook dinner,Clean for no reason) Just be really mature so he'll come to realize you are old enough to trust. Respect him and what he says, even if you don't agree.Talk calmly with him and show patience.
okay well im going out with this guy for a year ( im 14 he's 15) and like we've never had sex or anything but like his PARENTS bought him condoms and said "i know what you kids do now " SHouldn't i take that offensivley..because IM not that kind of girl I aint going to have sex till im about 18 or something. I dont know what should I do? I feel weird around his parents now, and he's mad at them for doing that hes ignoring them. What should I do please help!
He shouldn't ignore them. Try talking to them and let them no you had no intentions of doing any of that stuff. Say they shouldn't assume you would be like that and what they did hurt you.
I got a nipple ring about 2 years ago, boy did it hurt!! haha, I followed the directions of the piercer and did everything properly and as often as you were suppose to, but basically ever since then on and off I keep getting this gross crusty stuff, its like a yellowish color.. and sometimes when i move my ring i can see white sutff on the ring, ha i know this is totally gross!! Well yea my boyfriend got a nipple ring about a year ago and his did that too, but then it went away and it never gets crusty's anymore! I dont get it, why is mine still doing it? Do i have to clean it more? I was wondering if anyone knew what I have to do to fix it without going to the piercing place cause I got it pierced once i dont want them to see my boob a second time! haha SO anyone have any tips or experienced the same thing that can help me?
Whoa...Definetly go to the doctor...don't be emberassed about showing your boob. It's something you gotta do if you don't want it to get worse.
Ok well im going to paint my room a light green and im wondering if i should get a different shade of green for my bedspread and stuff or should i get a light orange one? please help me out! Thanx!! :o)
I think an orange one will be perfect. When decorating use should use many colors..it's shows you're a really fun person. Whatever you do with your room just have fun with it.
abercrombie and fitch was the most popular store pretty much to shop at. now hollister is..its just like abercrombie practically but i guess u could say thier pants are cheaper..anyone who doesnt know..abercrombie pants are 70.00 and up while hollister is 40.00 .. anyways everyone is now wearing hollister and i havent gotten around to going yet. when i go to hollister i dont want to buy all this stuff and have people coming up to me saying i have that u copied me..and so on. should i care ..or should i just be up to date?
Wear what you want. Who cares what other people have to say. I would reccomend buying whatever fits your style;Be unique! :)
I am 16/f and my boyfriedn and I are planning to get married when I am 18, My bf is 21, but my mother said she wont except this marriage as i am too young and have to finish my education first. I dont want to hurt my mother as she is very upset. But i am absolutely in love with my bf and so is he. We are totally sure about this marriage. What should I do?
Seriously, finish school first. There is a future ahead of you...You will need to support your family. You need a good education to get a well paying job. What's the rush to get married? You can still go on dates..a certificate is not going to change much at 18.
I'm 14 and after changing schools so many times I've never gotten to know guys well enough to ever get to really like them. And I've just discovered that I like one of my close guy friends as more than a friend. I'd already known him for years and I think he likes me back. But what should I do about it? I'm lost and I REALLY like him, Help. (i rate)
Talk to him. Don't get another person involved because that will just ruin things. Don't say something like you LOVE him just say you really LIKE him and want to be more than friends.
ok well my name is ashlee.. and im in the big junior high my first year and it sucks beacuase there are so much gossip and yesterday i was tied down with a bigg roomer..and i skipped school today i know it sounds weird but i did bc i like lost all my friends yesterday bc this boy named alex wrote a note saying i said bad stuff bout my 2 so called best friends..maddy and sonisha and its gotten worse and we were all suppose to go to the movies today and im just feelin rele bad.. AND I DIDNT DO ANYTHING and i swore up and down i didnt it sucks i dont know what to do..bc i have like no friends cause they're all believeing sonisha and maddy and alex..i need some help on what to do i mean im crying cause of this=( and i skipped school today cause of this... i need some help please help me=(
signed..lonesome child
Get in touch with your friends. If they won't answer your phone calls tell their parents what's going on because they'll probraly talk to them. Write them individual letters and tell them how much you value their friendships and how you would never do those things to them.