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okay i need some help pease....(it might be long if thats okay) its about math and English project...

Well ther is this project i am suppose to be doing with 3 of my friends and well that makes the 4 of us. so on of these 4 dose not want to do anything she dose not want to get involed with it and when she comes over she is like well i gatta life i dont want to be doing this project its stubid....So my 2 friends and i did the whole MATH project without her and we put her name on it becasue we had to say who it was from and we put her name on it and she did some of the english the only reason we put her name on there was becasue we did not want her to be like oh they kiked my out of the group n i did everything and stuff like that was that a good thing we put her name on it? should we take her name off i donno what to do. (she is my friend not best but a friend)

Take her name off. She does not deserve any of the credit for her laziness. Tell her first that you are not putting her name on it and she has her self to blame. Don't let her beg you into putting her name on it because she should have been there when you guys needed help. Maybe next time, she will stop being so selfish and will think about others rather than her self. Even if she is your friend, I wouldn't pick her to be in your group next time considering what she did on this project..(which is nothing)

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hi i have a 3 yearold daughter but latly she been out of control she dont listen she is very bossy she wont potty train she hits throws things around gets into everything what can i do to help with all of this everyone is getting mad cuz she is not potty trained yet ive tryed pottys and the adult toliet but nothing works ive tryed soap and spankings and took her toys away but nothing is working can someone help me

liz

Never ever, give your child a spanking. Maybe give her a little slap, but nothing too drastic. Always encouarage her with positivity and tell her "I know you can do it". You are the parent so you need to make her understand that you're in control. If you encourage her she will be more motivated to try harder.Let her know that temper tauntrums are just going to get her a Time Out. Good luck.
xO LiSA

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well, about a year ago, i got hit by a car and broke my thigh bone, the doctor put two screws in it.. recently, the doctor told me i had to go into day sergery to get them out, i asked what it was, i he sed that you had to be awake throughout the whole entire thing! i got so scared... should i go though it, cuz he sed i have a choice, does it hurt alot?? help!

i'm sure it won't hurt...they will probraly give you medicine to numb the pain. Trust me, they aren't going to torture you. If it's excpected to hurt they will put you on medication.

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i know its dumb, but i always get emotional on the last day of school. this year, im graduating 6th grade and im afraid ill cry and look dumb.

aw..its ok to cry. Trust me you won't be the only one. Everyone gets emotional on the last day of school, some people just don't show it. Think of it this way, you are still going to be in middle school with the same people so the only thing that will change is your teachers.

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my dad and my stepmom are havin a baby. should i feel sad or happy

why sad? happy!!! You are going to be the big sister!!(if you're a girl)now you'll have someone who will look up to you and love you no matter what.There's going to be more love in your house.You're so lucky!!!!I would be thrilled to have another sibling.

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here it goes, my friend has always been nice to me, but after she she got this new group of friends... every time i come ova her house it's "Wanta invite my friend ova".when eva her friends are ova she's not herself anymore. i tryed to talk her about it but,now she thinks i hate her friends(which I do). anyway how can i keep my friendship and stil get time alone with my friend?!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Tell her you barely even know her anymore because she's spending most of her time with her other friends. Tell her when you go to her house you go there to hang with her, not her friends. Tell her it's not fair for you and you just want to spend time with her without anyone else around. Maybe plan a day at the beach or something.When she asks you if you want her friends over say "no" and mean it and if she invites them over just go home and maybe she will think about what she's done. If she decides to stay with these group of people, make some new friends because if she's going to do that then you could do so much better.

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where online can i find job offerings? Cuz my moms friends lost her job and i want to help her out.. is there any websites?

aw that's so sweet that you're going to help her :) i never used this site because i never had to, but i'm pretty sure i heard of it before and it looks like a well made site.
http://www.careerbuilder.com
Good luck looking. Let me know if you find her a job, cause i'm here for you.
xO LISA*

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does anyone have any quotes about life or things like that to put in infos?

don't be afraid of death..be afraid of the unlived life...

if you don't know what this means just Email me and I will explain it.

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Hi, I am 13 going on 14 and i weigh about 106 lbs. give or take two. Is that fat? Bc i really feel fat and i feel like there is nothbing i can do.
What are some ways to lose like 10 lbs but staying healthy!
Ill rate high!
PLease Help!!!
*Overweight?*

It all depends on your height. That seems like an average weight though..depending on how tall you are.

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I think I have self-image problems. I hate my stomach. I'm always worried it is preventing me from finding a boyfriend. I know people sometimes comment about my weight behind my back. In school when we had our physicals I felt extremely self-consious because the nurse put the chart down and a few people could see my weight (I'm not sure they care though). I just don't want to hurt myself. I've thought about nt eating and becoming aneroxic and when I did I honestly didn't care what it would do to my body as long as my stomach look thinner. I do exercise usually but I never see results. I just want to know how I can have a better self-image. Any help?

it doesn't matter if you have a big belly. All that matters is that you have a big heart. If you have a positive aditude on things people will start to take notice. To some, yes weight it important, but the people that matter really won't care. Becoming aneroxic isn't the answer. You'll most likely just end up going to rehab.There's people in this world that could see the beauty within and not the superficial version of "beautiful"

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i just got a new rabbit and i have never had one before so i know nothing about them! i know that they have to be kepy in shade but thats about it! i need to know how big the cage should be and what you need in the cage. what do they eat? i am also kinda afraid that everytime i pick it up it will bit me....i guess i think that cause my cat bits me...do rabbits even bit? i guess i pretty much need to know everything about them....so if you have the time, please tell me! thanks! i'll rate!

they eat carrots of course lol also, you can buy rabbit food at a pet store and i'm pretty sure they have toys and cages there. ask someone who works there and they can tell you everything you need to know.

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im doing an essay and im stuck, how does flight and stuff like that relate to science?

without science people would have never discovered how to keep such a heavy object in the air.

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Ok so im 15 and i live in Concord Pleasant Hill, walnut Creek California area does anyone know where i can get a job that hires 15 year olds?

publix...winn dixie...if you have those stores..b/c i live in florida and we have it.

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ok i need a serious answer on this because i am really confused. i want to shave "down there" but i don't know how because last time i did i got major razor burn and itched forever and it was soooo uncofortable so i don't know how to do it and how much to take off... do you shave all of it off? please help

don't shave it all off because that hair down there protects you from dirt. If anything shave your bikini line, so that when you wear a bathing suit nothing is sticking out.

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ok im startin to like a gurl and i want to get to kno her more wat r sume good convo starters and things to ask and talk about?

tell her that her shirt looks really nice (unless you wear uniforms at your school lol) or say something about her hair.

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OK i have to do a health poster about how smoking,drugs,drinking, is bad for you. Its countywide and there are 5 grand prizes of $200 and other prizes of $100,$75, and $50. I reeally wanna win ! Any ideas of what i could do? I think the same old picture of someone smoking and the other person sayingg "its bad for you" is getting kind of old. Any new and creative ideas out there? Thank you so much to anyone who answers..i'll rate well!

i know you need help, but this is your project and you should come up with the idea. Just be creative!!!

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ok, so my best friend's boyfriend raped her, and i don't know what to do. i know i should tell someone, but she's being dumb, and saying it was her fault, but when you get down to the point SHE WAS RAPED. i don't want her to be mad at me, but i should tell someone right? either that, or i could kill him, but i wouldn't do that. so help????!!!!! please. thanks everyone
Sincerely,
Confused concerned friend

Tell her you care about her and if she won't tell someone you will. I know it may seem hard to tell someone because she doesn't want you to, but if she gets the help she needs she will thank you.

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ok my friend is only 12 and she was sleeping at my house and was talking to this boy on my computer about doing drugs (pot, ciggarettes, alcohol) and now i don't feel right when talking to her should i still be her friend?
thanks, ~lost n confused~

only 12!!! that's crazy. You really have to talk to her. I would feel uncomfortable too because i'm really against drugs, but she needs your help. Definetly, take some time to tell her you are conserned.

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Is a teacher allowed to bring down your grade because you forgot a book or a packet that you need for that class?

Yes they are. If you needed it to learn and you are told to bring it to school, then the grading is up to them.

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ok i wrote like last month about this boy who called me fat and said he hated me and everything... but he IMed the other day and he said sorry and that he would never do it again and i dont know what i should do because i really like him but i dont wanna get hurt again. i told him i would think about forgiving him but i seriously dont know what to do... help! i rate good! *unless its a stupid answer*

That's harsh. I know forgiving him will seem like the answer, but let him know after what he said, he has to earn back your trust.

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