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Long story short, I'm from Los Angeles, went to an amazing school, left the US and moved to the Middle East. I've been backpacking around Europe and the Middle East on and off since August 2013.

Would you like to converse? Here's my Forum

Quite frankly, I'm sarcastic way more than I should be. Read a few of my answers, and you'll see that I am not totally mean to anyone.

Type correctly or go home. Yes, that is an ultimatum.

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what do you think makes someone classy, sophisticated, or elegant?

what about their apperance or attitude makes them seem that way?

i want to be classy.

im talking jennifer aniston/kelly rowan classy.

so what do you guys think?

APPEARANCE;;

Straight, or otherwise tamed hair.
Impeccable posture.
An eye is always kept on fashion.
"Pretty."
Straiight teeth and a pretty smile.
Pretty writing/

ATTITUDE;;
Eloquent speech.
Politeness.
Friendliness.
Sexiness.

i'm 13. i love shopping and i'm not just saying that. i use my dads credit card when he takes me shopping but sometimes they say "can i see your lisence" and my dad shows them his. but i was wondering am i old enough to have a credit card? if not, when am i old enough?

I have a debit card, in my name from US Bank.

It's not a real debit card, though because it isn't connected to any accounts. It's kind of like a Visa or MAstercard giftcard.

Speaking of the giftcards, you could get a Visa giftcard for like $1000, or wahtever. It's like the same thing as what I have, except mine is through a bank.

I got mine right after I turned 14.

this isn't a question, it's a request-but please don't delete it.
Can people please stop finishing every answer with "hope i helped" obviously you hope you helped, and whether you say that or not doesn't change whether you actually DID help. please, for everyones sake just answer the question!

If it bothers you THAT much, then go away.

We don't change for people. We like the site how it is.

YOU obviously didn't read the FAQ. Putting "please don't delete" won't save your question.

Don't worry so much about what everyone else is doing. There is no law mandating that you say it, so just don't say it.

Big freaking deal.

me a social service person, conducting medical camps, eye camps and many more awareness camps to rural india in south part of the county where i am living. i heard that a govenment department is having collection of all health awareness program vcds- i want to use that to create awarness among rural people, not only that the other aspects of life to educate them for better future. can any body guide me where can i get these freely

What is a VCD?

UNICEF has a lot of programs.

NFTY does, too. NFTY is the North American Federation of Temple Youth. This means that the programs are Jewish, but you can make them different to make it work in your situation.

Can you give more details?

Does anyone know where I can download free music for an ipod besides Limewire?

On a lot of MySpace and truevolume pages, you can download selected songs.

ok well my boyfriend went away for christmas to L.A and is even staying for da new years and isnt coming back until the 3rd so today i went late christmas shopping because i still hadnt bought him anything which isnt a big deal because he doesnt have to know but i really couldnt find anything that i thought he mightve liked i wouldve bought him cologne but i didnt because i bought that for him on his birthday so i ended up buying him a really expensive hat its his favorite colors and all but the only problem is he dont wear hats at all he doesnt even own a hat and i just recently talked to him on the phone like not even an hour ago and told him how i really cant wait to give him his gift and i just found out he got me a reallly expensive gold necklace and winnie the pooh ring ! and now i look back at what im going to give him and im not going to lie im embarrased ! what would any1 do in my situation????

If you feel that you gift is inadequate, get him a watch or something. If he isn't coming back until the third, then what difference does it make?

hey, well im 13/f and im only 4`11. i weigh about 97-98. my whole entire family is short and about half of my family is very skinny. the doctor said that im only going to be about 5`3 at the most. im only about a low A cup and my butt is barely even there. i heard that the more body fat you have the bigger your boobs and butt will get. is that true? im starting to get chubby and since im so short im worrying that i might become obsese. im getting a lot of extra fat in my stomach area and my thighs. im also starting to get love handles. i dont want to try to get thinner because i dont want to loose the chance of getting bigger boobs and a bigger butt. the women in my family are very big busted. usually a c-d cup. what should i do?

Yor butt and boobs are the first places that you lose weight from, and the last that you gain weight to. Sorry, kiddo. I'm in the same boat as you are. :/

I was wondering who sings the song that talks about Ladies and Gentleman.

I can think of several. Care to elaborate?

Or, care to google:

I really don't even know where to begin. My boyfriend found out two months ago that he was potentially the father of a two year old girl. He took the DNA test and he is the father. We have been together since a couple of months after the child was conceived. I have a 6 year old and we have a ten month old together.

The mother of the little girl was arrested for drug use and the child was put in temporary custody of the grandmother.
My boyfriend wasn't even in a relationship with this girl, it was just a very stupid mistake he made. Now they are trying to get him for back child support, as well as current support and medical bills since she got assistance from the state. Our children currently get medical coverage from the state so I don't see why he should be responsible for this other kids medical bills.

He has wanted to give up his rights to the child since we first found out about it. At first I tried to get him to do the right thing and try and get custody, but the more I think about it the more angry I get. I feel betrayed and hurt about this and it has me very depressed. I am trying to be strong for my children but I don't know what we should do. I love my boyfriend very much but I don't know if I can deal with him having a child with someone else. Just the thought of it makes me want to strangle him. If he had known about this child before I entered into a relationship with him I probably wouldn't ever been with him.

I sometimes think it would be best for him to try for custody for the sake of the child, but at the same time I feel I would have a strong hatred for her. Besides the emotional issues I'm not sure we could financially. I'm so tired of feeling like I am being torn apart inside. I just don't know what to do.

I'm really not a bad person, but I just can't figure out if I should stay with him or just leave. If I stay I don't know what we should do about this whole mess. Should I let him try and sign over his rights to her and just forget about it? He wants our lives the way they were before we found out any of this. I do too, but should we try and get custody of her even though it could ruin our relationship?

I really need some advice first of all to help myself feel better and not be so angry at him and the child(even though I know it isn't her fault, I feel like it is because she was born) Then I need advice about what we should do as a family. I would really appreciate some unbiased advice. Thanks

Take the child in. No child should ever have to go through a day not knowing either of their biological parents.

It is selfish for you to not want to take the child in because of issues with the child's biological mother, or even with your boyfriend.

I don't understand why you have such a problem with him having this other child since it happened before you two were together. Regardless, everyone deserves a second chance. If there are other reasons to break up, then I don't know.

I'm only fifteen, so I'm sorry if this doesn't help much. I wish you all the best, and I hope that this turns out for the better. :)

Ok soo my best friend has two hot relatives. One..is a year younger and the other is 2 years older. Well i like the one 2 years older than me..he goes to college..and plays baseball for college. Its soo attractive to me. Like..i basically want to run over to him and just makeout! This is the first guy ive ever like..had these feelings for. Its not like "love" feelings more like i jsut wanna makeout with him. I dont like him..i jsut wanna makeout. Is this weird? cuz this feeling sure is weird

Lust. You're a teen. Toooootttaaallllyyyy normal. :)

i'm getting 2 teeth pulled in the back, but they are not far back they are the the first 2 teeth in the front of the back of my mouth on opposite sides on the bottom.

yeah, i was wondering how much will the novicane shot hurt? my friend said she didn't feel it, my other friend said it hurt the worst but like on a scale of 1-10 how bad is it really?

and i'm really scared for tomorrow. is it that bad?

kay,thanks

When I got my wisdom teeth out, they put me under. One of my friends just got a shot, and she said that it wasn't that bad.

Last Friday, when I got mine done, I was crying so much until I was knocked out. It's normal to be scared.

Good luck. I hope all goes well. :)

ive been taking a shower once a day washing my face 2wice a day and all that happens is i brake out more and im getting sick of it and i baught face wash and im starting to use proactive but ive been washing my face for a year and its still not working what should i do

It is possible to wash your face too much. Try just doing it once daily. Also, you might want to try to switch face washes.

i am trying to make a username on itunes because i got an ipod nano for christmas. I am planning on using only giftcards for itunes, so i will not use a credit card. But to make a username, along with the name and address and stuff, it has credit card. I dont know what to put there because we dont have credit cards. I tried leaving it blank and it came back up saying it must be answered. Is there anyway that i could get an itunes username without the credit card?
Please answer!! I will rate.

Call 1 800 MY APPLE. It IS possible (mine, up until recently, was like that), but I'm not sure how to do it. The people at MyApple will be happy to help you!!

hi can anyone help im looking for tuition in maori wood carving, preferably in ch ch area. thanks

Can you rephrase this? I think that people are very perplexed.

last night i was raped by my ex boyfriend, we were at a party and i was upstairs talking to my friend, then she left, he came up and pinned me down on the bed, split my legs open, and dug deep inside my pussy and raped me. the thing is, when we were together and fucked, i never really enjoyed it or had an orgasm. but last night, even though i didn't want to fuck him, it felt soo good, i had four orgasms in a row, literally, i'm notkidding, this is a true story, i haven't told anyone, cuz even though it was wrong for him to do it, i liked it. what should i do?

p.s. he's really hot

Take Emergency Contraceptive, and file charges.

How can you tell if a person you were dating for 10 months is not over you.. hes 15 years old

I found a quote from below funny: "...about a million guys out there."

There are billions of males on the planet. Only a few are right for you. :)

Well, if he still talks to you, hugs you, and it still feels like you're in the relationship, then he is most likely still in like with you.

If he doesn't really talk to you, doesn't hug/kiss you, etc., he is probably over you.

Hi, I am doing GCSE art and our unit one topic is bends and folds. I am really stuck as to what to do for my main piece! I know interpretation should be personal and I may want to look at folds of skin but please please help! thank you...

Maybe some adobe housing. It is very bendy and foldy. Many buildings of this style are found in New Mexico. :]

Good luck!

in like a week or so i'm getting 2 teeth pulled in the back of my mouth. im scared shit because i don't know what to expect. when i'm under the anethesia will i feel any pain? will i feel pain after it's done? is there any way that the anethesia will wear off while they are pulling my teeth out? WHAT IF I DONT WAKE UP FROM THE ANATHESIA??

im sooooo scared i need to know these answers. if you had teeth pulled out tell me EVERYTHING.

Well, I'm getting all four of my wisom teeth out in a couple of hours. Eeeek. I only know the answers to a couple of the questions.
Unnder anesthisia, you are unconcious. It's like you're sleeping, but you won't wake up feeling refreshed, and you won't dream.

Apparently, your mouth swells up a lot, and and yes, you will be in some pain afterwards. Make sure your doctor gives you both antibiotics and also painkillers. The anesthesia caould, potentially, wear off, but they have someone who is paid just to watch you and make sure the anesthesia is going okay.

Also, I think that they also give you a local painkiller, like a shot of novaciane in your mouth once you are put under for the anesthesia. You will NOT fel this shot, if they choose to give it to you.

Good luck. If you want, ask this same quesiton in my inbox, and I'll give you a play-by-play in a couple days, when I have recovered.

My entire AP Environmental Science class is filled with slackers [it is known to be a slack class] but we all found out that it isn't. Everyone has an 80 or lower, and only about 3 people have an 80. So basically most of the class doesn't even have a B. We took a test today, and like every other test, everyone failed it.

The final is going to have old test questions on it, which will be really hard because our teacher doesn't make the tests. She uses the college textbook for the questions.

My question is, how likely is it that she would let us all pass with an A or B? It seems like she would curve the grades so we would get A's and B's, but she hasn't curved any test/quiz grades all semester.

Ask her to curve the grades.

Ok..i know this might be werid but i dont think so..iam in 8th gr. ((13 yrs old)) and my bf is in 7th gr. ((but 13))((only 3 months apart)) we have been going out for 3 weeks and what i wanna know is how do we get to talk more like actually talk about something. he really shy around gurls he likes and i really want him to be himself..how do i get that????
--confused

Well, I'm always myself. Ask him about school-that has started some of my best conversations. Some say religion and politics are touchy, but the politics conversations I have had have been so much fun.

Go on a date where he can teach you something.

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