Q: Hello. :)
14/F ~ My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months now, and the other night he came over. We sat around and talked for a little while, but then he started to pull moves on me... It's not the first time or anything.. we started to make out then he put his hands up my shirt and down my pants..then we started making out more.. then he pulled me on top of him and we made out more. Is it wrong for me to let him put his hands in those places? I'm just wondering so I can tlel him weather he can again or not. Thank you :)

Q: i wrote a while ago i need to know how to get his atention even though i only met him once and havnt talked to him since. without all my friends trying to hook me up with him. should i talk to him on aim or when i see him. if i do go up to him what do i say to him. cause i get really nervous around guys that i dont know that good especially if i have a crysh on them. help!

Q: ok so a lot of my friends have been leaving me lately because they think i'm " annoying and i get in their business too much " and i think that i can be annoying to some of the friends i have now so we don't talk as much .. i don't want to end up friendless so what should i do ? p.s. i already tried to not be as annoying and it didn't work well.

Q: My moms new boyfriend has a 13 year old daughter and she is the only one in the household that I can talk to, even though she is 3 years younger than me, she is very mature for her age. She is a great person and I talked to her about everything and we shared some great moments together. Here lately she has thrown me away, its like she doesnt want to be around me anymore. i feel like an inconvienence. I feel like there is no reason to stay here anymore, she is the one that gave me the courage to go on living! Now I want to die, just thinking that for some reason she hates me. I am a cutter and have attempted suicide several times in the past. i feel like I am a failure now and have no reason to live!

Q: okay.. today.. we could leave school if we wanted to as long as we had rides.. and i didnt have one.. so i was asking everyone to take me home.. but nobody could.. so i asked this guy im *talking* to to take me home.. and he said no because he was going to his "cousins" house.. so.. i was like.. o well.. okay.. so.. i found a ride with this hot guy from my first period.. and as we were driving i saw the gy im *talking to* in his car.. not going towards his cousins house.. i dont know what i should do? and then when i got home.. his best friend called me and was talking.. and he was like.. " yo.. d.. you wanna talk to ur grl.. ?" and the guy im *talking* to was like.. "mayne.. you kno she aint my grl!" and then when he left his friends house.. he called me and was like.. heyy baby! so.. i have no clue what to do!

Q: okay.. today.. we could leave school if we wanted to as long as we had rides.. and i didnt have one.. so i was asking everyone to take me home.. but nobody could.. so i asked this guy im *talking* to to take me home.. and he said no because he was going to his "cousins" house.. so.. i was like.. o well.. okay.. so.. i found a ride with this hot guy from my first period.. and as we were driving i saw the gy im *talking to* in his car.. not going towards his cousins house.. i dont know what i should do?

Q: ok well this all stared when someone close to me passed away and i still haven't really gotten over it he pased away in october so you can imagine how much i loved him and now it seems like everyone is dealing with the same thing like have you ever had something happen to your family like a death or someone gets cancer and then it seems like more people are going through the same thing and u didn't even know it before well thats how it is and it is kinda stressful for me does ne one have ne ideas on how i can kinda get it off my mind thanks

Q: I have been friends with this girl named Emily since about second grade and this girl named Katie since fourth. We are in 9th grade now. One of my best friends whom I have been friends with since fifth grade is extreamly upset with those two other girls. The story is, My friend from 5th grade has liked this guy for a while and Emily knew about it. Saturday we had a Winter dance at my school and Chelsea (the one from 5th grade) Caught Emily making out with the guy that she liked. No more than 5 minutes later she started making out with a guy that really liked her. Chelsea got mad and left. I was on my way to the bathroom and I saw my friend Katie giving head to some guy that she isn't even dating. The next day we were all hanging out with a group of friends and Emily had one of those small containers of icecream. One of the guys we were hanging out with was horny (so he said) so Emily decided to give him head. The thing is, she put the icecream all over his penis before she did it because "it would taste better". To make things even nastier, Katie started doing it too. They were both giving him head at the same time with ICE CREAM. They've turned into complete sluts and I can't take how they are acting any more. Chelsea is not speaking to them and I can obviously understand why. I'm completely on my friend Chelsea's side because they've done the same thing to me as well not even 2 years before. Should I confront them or should I keep it quiet? I really don't want to start anything because even though we have a big school, things can get around quickly. They are also more of the "popular" type if you will. I don't know if I should say anything to them. They also act like five year olds when they are with eachother, they are so immature! What should I do? Please help. I apologize for the lenghth of this question.

Q: well theres this guy that ive been dating for like the past 2 months or so and we both really like each other and we liked that we were dating but not officially b/f and g/f.. well ive decided that i like him enough to be with him but he says he still doesnt want a g/f and see im 14 and hes about to turn 18 ( tomorrow actually ) and about to graduate so i mean for one im jailbate or whatever you wanna call it and hes about to move on and i can kinda understand why he doesnt want a g/f but then at the same time he always says he doesnt care if i go on a date with another guy but whenever he even thinks i might like a diff guy he gets jealous and he calls me his baby and everyone associates us together so i dont know what to do -- ive talked to him about it before and hes just said he doesnt have the answers.. all he knows is that hes really grown to care for me and trust me but he isnt sure he wants a g/f right now.. what should i do? wait around or give up?

Q: I have been friends with this guy since the end of October.. We talk a lot, and at first I didn't like him "that way" but every day I begin to like him more and more. He has told people that he doesn't know who he likes, or he likes 3 people and I'm at the top of the list. My friend told him that I like him (with my permission) and he sort of just blushed and wouldn't answer any of her questions. If I am at the top of his list, and he knows I like him, why doesn't he just ask me out? What should I say to him? Or should I just wait patiently for him to make a move? Thanks

Q: plz dont delete this question i need answeres fast!! okay..today is wednesday and next wednesday im going to make an appointment to get highlights...but saturday im leaving to go to hawaii and i was wondering if i can swim with my new highlights and them not get discolored or faded?? i REALLY want to get highlights over christmas break and im busy everyday except wednesday..help!!

Q: What's the step below going out? This guy said he likes me and wants to be the step below going out, because he doesn't think "going out" at this age is a good idea. We're more than friends though, I know that.. Any ideas on what it could be?

Q: Well..My ex boyfriend Daniel and I broke up about 3 months ago..we had dated for over a year. He broke up w/ me cause it was a 25 min. drive to come see me. Well I will always have feelings for him..but a month after we broke up after I could sob no longer.. I decided to move on to someone else cause I guess you could say A LOT of guys like me. So me and my new boyfriend Ben have been dating 2 months, and I`m happy with him. But now and then I still talk to Daniel at times. Like on Thanksgiving I called his house and wished his parents a happy thanksgiving and everything. The other night he called me out of no where just to talk about his day and how he still had feelings for me, but the story there is.. he is dating someone too. When I first found out I was so upset but I`m okay w/ it now. Its like everytime I talk to him I want to date him again even though I know that won`t happen. Should I just stay with my current boyfriend which I do care for a lot, or just break up and wait for him?

Q: I havent seen my best friend in less then a week and already I miss him sooo much. we only live about 20 mins away from eachother but i wish that I could see him more often.I heard that last weekend when i saw him i was supposed to get asked our by him and he didnt ask me out? why not.I really want to go out with him really bad but I dont want to ask him about it. I love him soo much!And I kno that he loves me. We always make out and shit when we see eachother but it has never gotten past that.I want to go farther with him bc I think that it is right too do. I think that he would but I dont want him to turn me down. We used to talk about doing more but we never have actually done more. I used to think about having sex with him and to be honest I really want to. He isnt a virgin and I am. I just want to be alone with him so that we can talk and be more serious with eachother. What should I do? How do I bring it up to him ?

*thanks sami

Q: is it bad to be white and have a crush on someone who's black or darker skinned than you? im not racist but ive always wondered! thanks in advance!

Q: I am a 13 year old girl. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while and we are both completely devoted to each other, trust each other and love each other very much. We are thinking about having sex with each other but I am not totally sure whether I should. It isn't my age that is worrying me, it's more the fact that I'm worried about him seeing my body and if I get it wrong or something. What should I do? Should I sleep with him?

Q: Hey where do you get your icons at? there really cute. Thanks!

Q: okay..theres this 1 spot on my head thats hurting like really badly!! its swollen and hurts whenever i touch it just like when my hair hits it, it starts to hurt. Any 1 have any idea what it might be??And should i ask my mom to take me to the doctor? thanx
--Alexa--

Q: i get horrible cramps right before and during my period. what can i do to make them not hurt so much. i have had to stay home from school like every 2 months when it comes.

Q: I really like this kid. His name is Aden. He is the cutest boy I have ever seen! He has had a lot of girlfriends and is really "popular". I don't think I can get a chance with him because I am "unpopular" but I love him to death. I don't see what most girls see. I don't really care about how much money he has. I love him! Also I keep catching him staring at me. It could be the girl in front of me ,because people are saying that the might be going out, but also in another class (in which she is not in) he stares at me constantly. How do I know if he likes me? I really need to know! I hope you can help!!

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