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should i have sex with him?


Question Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 2:35 pm

I am a 13 year old girl. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while and we are both completely devoted to each other, trust each other and love each other very much. We are thinking about having sex with each other but I am not totally sure whether I should. It isn't my age that is worrying me, it's more the fact that I'm worried about him seeing my body and if I get it wrong or something. What should I do? Should I sleep with him?

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BeFABULOUSxo answered Wednesday December 15 2004, 3:12 pm:
first sentence should answer ur own question.. 13 is wayyyyyy too young to have sex... its great that you guys r devoted to each other.. but no.. just dont.. cuz sumthin cud go terribly wrong n ud end up with a kid n ya dont wanna even take the CHANCE of that happening. sry if its not wut u wanted to hear but sry its the truth *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is appreciated!*

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gUeSsHoO278 answered Wednesday December 15 2004, 3:10 pm:
I really strongly suggest NOT TO. Your only 13, it may seem like you have knowledge on all that but trust me, you don't until you grow older.

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pinayprodigy answered Wednesday December 15 2004, 2:52 pm:
No even if you love him it isn't the right thing to do when you're 13. I know you're not concerned about it but if you get pregnant or something you could die cuz of it. I know it isn't very positive but that's the truth. sex at you're age really isn't good for you...I'm sorry if I'm hurtin you're feelings but this is the advice I would give to you.Oh and Merry X-mas

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FernGully answered Wednesday December 15 2004, 2:46 pm:
If you are concerned about having sex, then simply wait. I know age doesn't play much of a role her, but you do have a lot of time. If you are completely devoted to each other, you'll be able to wait until you are completely ready.

A pretty good indicator that you aren't ready is still feeling uncomfortable. I would say you give it more time.

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dancinqueen08 answered Wednesday December 15 2004, 2:44 pm:
I don't think you should. You are too young and your body isn't ready for it. Besides the emotional attachment that is involved, is too much for someone as young as you are. As I've said to people before, if you have any doubt, then don't do it. It'll probably lead to regret later.

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