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Hi my name is Lee Ann. I am 29 years old and Graduated from Bethany college obtaining a bachelors of music. I am a happily married woman with two kids, ages3 and 2. I currently have six books out on the market, all of which can be found on amazon. The first is called The Leaf: One fallen heart and a burning desire, my second is called Avengement of Glory, my third is called Spiral of Enlightenment, fourth one is called Prodigy of the Immortal, fifth one is called Augment in the Realm of Darkness, and my sixth novel is called Bond in the Spiritual Heart. I started this advice column to see if I could give good advice. Turns out I am pretty good, better than I thought actually. I enjoy seeing people smile when I give them good advice and they use it. It makes me feel better as a person to help people. I want to make the world a better place and I think that starting an advice column is the right way to begin. Writing is a huge part of my life, without it, I wouldn't be able to function properly. After seven years, I think I have done pretty well as an advice columnist.
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I have naturally curly hair. I strighten it all the time so its never curly. But now that school is almost here and ill have homework ill never have time to strighten it. So is there a shampoo and anything that will make my hair stright without me having to strighten it?
Usually if you wash it them blow dry it straight it stays that way. There is a bottle frizzes serum that will help to keep it from going curly. They also have shampoo products that work to and you can buy them usually in rite aid or walmart.
i have the most amazing bf in the world! i love him, but listen to this. ok, so i was having dinner with my bf's family and they are like high upper class people, and it was like a really nice diner and stuff. all of a sudden, i farted. nice and lound and long. i didn't know what to do so i was like "heh heh...the wind is quite loud tonight, eh?" in the fake brittish accent and they were like REALLY offended. so after dinner my bf was like cracking up but i was really embarressed! then he said it turned him on, and so i was like "hott!" and so we pulled the car over and started doing it, and then, the worst thing imaginable happened-his parent's drove by, saw our car, pulled over, and saw us going hott and heavy. now, they won't speak to us, and, because of that, my bf DUMPED ME. i wanna get him back, and i want to be able to confront his parents again. help!
The best way is to talk to him about it. The only way you will get him back is to explain it doesnt matter what his parents think you guys can still be together. If you show that you are willing to do anything for the relationship he will be willing to do the same. Send a note ior an email or call him to talk to him. If you wish things will change you have to make it happen it sounds like he is to afraid to do anything. And maybe have another dinner with or make diner for them this time and see how things go.
Im about to start school soon and im going to a new school.How do i deal with bullies?please answer this question.
Ok if you just go to school and make friends you wont have enemies. And starting high school isnt the way it shows on television. They dont stuff you in lockers or anything like that. Television has a tendacy to overexagerate things. Just relax and go to school with a positive attitude and you will be just fine. If you happen to accidentally make an enemy that wont leave you alone act like you dont care and they will leave you alone. Most bullies like to torture kids because they know it gets to them so they continue to do it. They will get bored if they see that it doesnt bother you.
I purchased a pair of socks for my brother's not-yet-born child and plan to give them as a gift at the baby shower, which is next month. These are really nice socks, made out of merino wool, and (for socks) they were kind of expensive.
However, I fear that if I just give a pair of socks at the baby shower, I will appear cheap and unwelcoming of the baby. Should I just give the socks but explain that they are 100% merino wool? Should I buy multiple pairs of merino wool socks? Should I buy an additional gift?
Incidentally, this baby will be the first full nephew I will have. My half-siblings have had seven children between them, but this is the first time a full sibling has had a child.
I am sure that whatever you give your nephew will be appreciated but if you feel like it isnt enough then you could go to the dollar store and get all kinds of stuff for babies like bibs or clothes or even diapers. they really have things that they could use that costs only about 3 dollars or so. That way you dont feel like what you got isnt good enough even though it is. Some people feel insecure about things like that but it is pefectly normal and if you just spend a couple more dollars on other things you will be fine. and if you tell them the details about the socks it would help them know.
Ok, so My boyfriend of 2 years dumped me 3 months ago because he said first it was because I was possesive and then he said he just wanted to be single. Well two weeks later he started dating a girl who was 15 and he is 17 and she lives 3 hours away. Well, they broke up a few days ago and NOW he is dating a girl from my school. It just hurt me so bad to find out that he found ANOTHER person and Im still by myself. I hate going to school because I don't want to see them together. I havent talked to him since we broke up and when he sees me at school he literally puts his head down and darts to the other side of the hall. I feel like I will never find anyone else. Things just get better for him and suck for me.
In my opinion people make their lives the way they want it. if you are convinced your life will be unhappy then it will because you believe it will but if you look at the positive instead of the negative then you will have better luck than him. Why not start a myspace and check some guys out that interest you become their friend at first then you will find someone. Everyone finds their special someone just not at the same time but if you dont give up then you wont have anything to be sad about. try looking at the guys that go to your school and see if there is someone else that catches your eye. He does it because he knows it bothers you but if you act like you dont care then he will stop doing it but it will also make you better inside. Take it one day at a time and everything will turn out for the best
My wish is to go to an american college or university. I'm a swedih citizen and I live in sweden at the moment. What do you need to get into an american college or unviversity? I don't have that much money so can I apply for a scolarship? Please, tell me everything you know about applying to college! I need all the help I can get!
Thank you!
If you go to like a community college to start out with then they can help you get finacial aid that will help pay for you tuition and books and anything wlse you need. I go to Jcc because my family cannot afford to for me to go anywhere else right now. At JCC we qualified for the pell and ohio grant so that they pay for me to go to college i dont have any worries baout paying for my books. JCC is located in ohio if you wanted to check it out.
i play volleyball and i need a sports bra but my ? is there sports bras that are padded? if there are where @?
they dont sell sports bras with pads but in walmart you can buy pads and attach them to the bra to make them padded yourself that way you get it the way you want it without it being uncomfortable.
I'm 5'1 1/2 and I think 88-90 pounds..
See? That's how skinny I am. I've gone on these weight things on the computer and they all say I am underweight. All of my friends are about 100 and the same height as me and look normal weight.
Does anyone know of a good way to gain weight but still be able to exercise a little bit? I would prefer it to be a healthy way but either way would be fine. Also, how many more pounds do all of you think I should gain?
you probably dont need to gain weight by eating more but lifting weights will help you build muscle and when you weigh yourself you will have gained some. Lifting weights will help you gain weight in a healthy way and stay in shape. Maybe lifting those arm things that are about 15 pounds on each arm and build your leg muscles. This procedure will help you look still thin but not in a unhealthy way.
i've been goin out with my gf for about 6 months but latly she barly ever talks to me unless i talk to her first ad she never comes to be with me and i always end up haveing to go look for her how can i tell her in a nice way to be a better gf
Most girls when they act resentful something serious happened with them and then tend to shut people out. they dont talk to anyone because it hurts but they try to put on a happy face but you can see that they are acting differently. try asking her if everything is alright. maybe do something really special for her to show that its ok to open up to you and that you want to be with her more. sometimes girls dont l;ike to make the first move it usually has to be the boys.
What is the difference between a college and a university?
Oh, and what's the differece between a college and a community college?
Well a commmunity college is somewhere where you are eligible to go for free for two years if you have good grades. think of a community college as a place where everyone will get accepted at. at community colleges you can get just an associate degree but at universities you can get all kinds of things like bachelors or masters. at a community college they prepare you to go to a university. a university is alot bigger than community colleges.
if i drink a glass of water, before & after ever meal.. intill August 24th & walk 2-3 miles everyday... is it possible to lose atleast 5 pounds?
- i also, have like a weird metablism, i lose weight quickly.
so do you think its possible?
& if its not.. what are some good diets? That you lose weight quickly?
kthnxs for yerr help
Actually drinking nothing but water would help you lose 5 pounds in no time. Exercising by walking does help the proceess so it is very possible to lose in the amount of time you want.
i am a fourteen year old girl.
here's the deal. i like this guy (who i have talked to and he knows i like him and blah, blah, blah) he said that he didn't want a relationship because of what his cousin said.
but his ex girlfriend said that he was too clingy. that's why she broke up with him. and one of my absolute best friends is his ex ,ex girlfriend. and she also said he was too clingy.
i am going to talk to him monday and tell him that he can keep his girlfriends because he is too clingy, but i would still except him even though he has a clinging problem.
do you think that is a good idea? should i change anything or what else should i do? is he one of those guys who aren't worth it?
thanks to who answers this question.
Most girls get mad if they dont know where their boyfriend is so if you have a clinger then it is a good thing. maybe he didnt trust them so he felt he had to be with them all the time. But i am thinking he trusts you more so i think it is safe to say that you should go for it. Just because it didnt work out with the other two girls doesnt mean it wont for you. you are a different person than them. Follow your heart if you feel that you want to date him then you should but if you feel like you dont want to anymore then dont. Dont do what others want you to do just do what you want to do as a person
okay so this guy thinks that i have kissed a guy before. i havent. he is much more experienced then i am sexually. will he know that i havent kissed someone before when we do kiss. should i let him make the first move and do the kissing. i want to be a good kisser. any tips would be great. and i know that i shouldnt lie to him. but. i already have. so any help would be greatly appreciated. thank you
ok the part that makes you a really good kisser is if you relax and let it just happen. if you think about it to much then you wont be able to kiss him at all. And they can only tell that you have never kissed before is if you pull away or start shaking but if you stay calm then he will never know the difference.
I am finnaly getting a cell phone!! but.. it is my Mom's old one :( but y'know it is something. I am going into High School and they say like 100 minutes is enough, but i am afraid that when i get new friends i will be talking to them alot, and i cannot convince my parents that i NEED more minutes... what should i do???
well use your cell phone for when you are not at home and use your house phone for when you are at home. Or you could get your own plan with your own minutes and only have to pay the bill once a month. Show them that you are responsible enough to have more minutes and they will give you more once you have shown them that you can handle it and if you go over they will know that they were wrong not to do what you asked.
Hey i am going to be a freshman this year and i am starting in a week i know there are a bunch of other questions like this but... i am really scared, when we had orientation i made like only 1 friend not even really... i have no friends going to the school i am going to! i do not know how to open my locker! and i have no clue where or when my classes are.... junior high was SO much easier!!! I came from a catholic school before this so it is WAYYYY different from classes to no uniforms and more!!! i am soo afraid of getting on the bus and sitting with no one and also very very very afraid of going to lunch and sitting by myself eating!!! i am terrified and i know i will get trampled in the hall ways... are there that many people in the hall way? like seriously is it full?? Ahhhh i am sooooo nervous not to mention i had a bad memory wif the boy across tha street and we will be getiing on the same bus! and he will be seeing me for like the first time up close in like 3 years!!! PLZ HELP and plz tell it like it is don't lie to make it feel better i need the TRUTH!
sorry it was long
Dont worry so much. high school is not as bad as they say. if you are worried you will get lost maybe you should practice ging to your classes and finding them so you know where to go. And as for making friends when you go to class talk to some people when you go to your classes. Or start going out for a sport or even band or something you can always make friends doing activities like those. or there is cheerleading or drama or something like that. If you relax and say everything will be fine then it will but if you constantly think of the worst then the worst will happen
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Im getting contacts in a couple days (monday) and i was just wondering if anyone can tell me anything about them. IS it hard to put them in? Can they actually like slip down in your eye where you cant get them out? how long can you wear them? What will I have to do when i go to get them? Any tips or anything would be greatly appreciated. Thank you. :)
When you go into the office they show you how to put them in properly. you can wear them all day but you have to take them out when you go to bed. they only slip behind your eyes when you fall asleep with them in still. they will give you solution so you can clean them before putting them in your eyes. if you are able to touch your eye without moving then you should be able to get them in because thats exactly what you do.
Well see... today I went to meet a friend and do something with her (laycieee) so i was like 5 minutes away from my other friends house so i rode there just to say hi. Anyway i wrote this song and i really wanted Lindsay to hear it. Now everyone knows im a HORRIBLE singer but i really loved the lyrics to my song. So I told her to listen to it on my mp3 player. She started and she started laughing uncontrollably in my face. I felt horrible after that. I mean; yes i know im a bad singer but its like with her laughing in my face like that i felt really bad. Then i feelt bad because i felt like later when i met my other frined (laycieee) i was like wicked out of it and idk i dont think i was my self because of what happened with Lindsay earlier that day.
(just for the record; Lindsay and Laycie hate eachother so i couldnt tell Laycie cuz she'd badmouth lindsay and i'd start alot of shit)
Age:15 Sex:Female
You know some people laugh at songs they like. I laugh at songs i like because sometimes the lyrics to me are funny but i love the song. It doesnt matter what people think if you like it then thats good enough. Usually when you like your own work it is the best. i play in a band and some people laugh at our stuff and some love it. it depends on the person. show it to a different person to listen to or get a person with a really good voice to record it so it sounds the way you want it to
I'm Italian-American and my family is pretty old fashion when it comes to dating. They're not in anyway racists at all but they don't exactly believe in dating outside our race (like any guy that isn't white).
Well I've meet this guy since school started (I've actually met him at parties and stuff before but never really had a chance to get to know him) and he asked me out on a date.
I like him and all and I know my dad would love him (my parents always meet my dates when they come pick me up :/ ). He's Mr. all star football running back, he's smart (top 10% of our class, actually), and he's oh so respectful. But one problem, he's black. And like I said before, my parents aren't into that.
So I'm not exactly sure what to do. I've tried talking to them about the situation in the past, but no luck.
Maybe you should tell them about his personality first. He has good qualities as a person that they would love to meet him. If you dont have a problem with dating him then they shoudlnt either. it is your choice who you want to date dont let your parents choose for you. There is a chance once they get to know him they would be fine with it. Maybe if you made sure that they understand this is what you want then they will back you up. Do what you heart tells you and believe that everything will be fine. If you constantly think of the negative all the negative wll happen because you believe it will. try to stay positive and strong.
My boyfriend is younger than me. We've been together for a little longer than 4 months and we couldn't be more perfect for eachother. He treats me more like a lady than I have ever been treated before..and he always is so sweet no matter who he is around. He'll tell me face to face how he really feels and how nothing can come between us. (I know it sounds phony, but it's really cute.) We both don't care if people deny we're in love or not, and I couldn't ask for a better boyfriend. But lately, its just little things that are making me feel like he doesn't like me as much anymore. He's just kind of lifeless when I talk to him ... and I'm not sure if it has to do with our friend moving away or if he just doesn't love me as much. help?
Alot of guys go through a depression stage when someone close to them is going away. Its not that he doesnt still love its just that when his friend moves everything will change for him. Most guys dont like to deal with change so they shut themselves out. Some people mistake it for hate but it just them trying to convince themselves that they dont care. Maybe if you did something for him to make him feel better. Maybe take him out for a movie or dinner or something like that. Maybe all he needs is knowing you will be by his side no matter what happens.
ok like i have big bags or circles i dont know what there called under my eyes. and people say to get rid of them you have to get some more sleep. but all i do is sleep. like i go to bed around 10 pm or 11 pm then i wake up the next day at like 11 am. i get like 12 hours asleep per nite or even more. so i was just wonderin how do i get them to go away? i eman there not bg but there dark. it makes me look like bad or like im on drugs or whatever so it like changes my appearance. sorry if this is in the rong category. so... does anyone know like what to do?? thanks
Ok they are right you can get rid of them by getting more sleep but you can make them worse by getting to much sleep. I suggest trying to get only maybe 9 hours of sleep per day and that should get rid of them. In the mean time they sell stuff for your eyes to make it blend with the rest of your face. I had the same problem, I look like I was on drugs but I got 9 hours of sleep a day, they started to get lighter.