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heartbroken again
Ok, so My boyfriend of 2 years dumped me 3 months ago because he said first it was because I was possesive and then he said he just wanted to be single. Well two weeks later he started dating a girl who was 15 and he is 17 and she lives 3 hours away. Well, they broke up a few days ago and NOW he is dating a girl from my school. It just hurt me so bad to find out that he found ANOTHER person and Im still by myself. I hate going to school because I don't want to see them together. I havent talked to him since we broke up and when he sees me at school he literally puts his head down and darts to the other side of the hall. I feel like I will never find anyone else. Things just get better for him and suck for me.
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What you should do is keep a positive attitude and see if there is anything that you are interested in doing. If you are interested in a club or sport I think that you should consider joining that way you mind won't be on your ex boyfriend anymore and who knows maybe sometime in the future you might meet someone new. But since you are not ready for that maybe you consider doing one of those things to keep you mind occupied on something else that might help you.
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What an ass!!! Look huni, if you ask me he dnt no what hes missin! he is jumpin from girl to girl, p[ossibly just a rebound. Just look on the brighside of the fact that non of those girls compare to you as he hasnt stayed with them for long. You do NOT need a boy to feel good about urself! please dont forget that. I no at the moment you may thinkt hat your never going to find anyone like him or your going to feel this way forever but trust me your not, you wil find someone ten times better and hopefully the hurt will go away in time. As for school, If it was me i would be out there showing him what hes missin and show him that your not missin him one little bit and he wil soon realise he made a big mistake letting you go. And as for him.... well boys will be boys, hes the one thats lost out sweetie nbot you! hope your feelin beta soon :)
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AW, well first of all you have to try to get yourself to get over him. Think, he's found someone else, so why cant you? You have to find another guy to take your mind off of him. There must be someone besides him that you have your eye on, right? If not, good places to meet guys are at SKATEPARKS, cause skaters are just orgasmic right? :), and then there are also some pretty good guys at concerts, too. Also, if you have any friends from other schools maybe they can introduce you to some of their guy friends. But trust me, once you get a boyfriend, (and it should be someone you actually like, not someone you can use to get back at your ex), then he will be jealous and see just how much he misses you.
If all else fails and you absolutely can NOT get over your ex, talk to him. Next time you see him in the hall, just say hi. You dont have to bring up anything about your past relationship, just say hi and see what he does. If he says hi back, next time you see him, have a small conversation. I know its easier said than done, but trust me, you dont even have to be friends. Just talk every once in a while and he'll soon realize that youve moved on.
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In my opinion people make their lives the way they want it. if you are convinced your life will be unhappy then it will because you believe it will but if you look at the positive instead of the negative then you will have better luck than him. Why not start a myspace and check some guys out that interest you become their friend at first then you will find someone. Everyone finds their special someone just not at the same time but if you dont give up then you wont have anything to be sad about. try looking at the guys that go to your school and see if there is someone else that catches your eye. He does it because he knows it bothers you but if you act like you dont care then he will stop doing it but it will also make you better inside. Take it one day at a time and everything will turn out for the best
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AWWWW... well maybe your just one of those people that doesn't go from person to person. I know that it hurts to see them together. whenever you do, pretend you dont seem them... look the other way. Act like it doesnt bother or effect you, keep this up and eventually it wont. Try to make sum new guy FRIENDS. Go hang out with the girls. Meet new people and keep yourself occupied. You dont have to move on just because he has. Take your time, you will know when you are ready and when the right person comes along. Good luck :)
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if your bf is going out with a bunch of gurls that just means that he isnt really looking for a serious relationship u'l find someone eventually. u shouldnt just go out with people cuz you dont have a bf or gf but because you like them.
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