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stuck in a clingy situation
i am a fourteen year old girl.
here's the deal. i like this guy (who i have talked to and he knows i like him and blah, blah, blah) he said that he didn't want a relationship because of what his cousin said.
but his ex girlfriend said that he was too clingy. that's why she broke up with him. and one of my absolute best friends is his ex ,ex girlfriend. and she also said he was too clingy.
i am going to talk to him monday and tell him that he can keep his girlfriends because he is too clingy, but i would still except him even though he has a clinging problem.
do you think that is a good idea? should i change anything or what else should i do? is he one of those guys who aren't worth it?
thanks to who answers this question.
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This isn't really answering your question i don't think, but i kinda wish that my boyfriend was more clengy, he dosn't ever seem to want to do anything with me. I personally wouldn't tell him unless he asked why he can't keep a girl friend. then i would say i have heard that it is cuz you are too clengy.
Some people are different, some like there space, others want to know that they are loved. i dunno maybe this did or didn't help, but i do hope that it did
~Ash
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why dont you stop relying on other peoples opinion and find out for your self if hes clingy
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It's one of those things you have to find out for yourself. You're only 14; most relationships your age aren't even serious. You'll be onto guy number 9 by the time you're 18. Just have fun & give the guy a chance. & if he happens to be too clingy & you don't like it? No big deal. There are plenty of other guys out there. :)
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Most girls get mad if they dont know where their boyfriend is so if you have a clinger then it is a good thing. maybe he didnt trust them so he felt he had to be with them all the time. But i am thinking he trusts you more so i think it is safe to say that you should go for it. Just because it didnt work out with the other two girls doesnt mean it wont for you. you are a different person than them. Follow your heart if you feel that you want to date him then you should but if you feel like you dont want to anymore then dont. Dont do what others want you to do just do what you want to do as a person
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It is alright for a guy to be clingy.If you just nicely tell him how you are feeling and he listens he is worth it. Dont worry about what his other girlfriends say. Even if it might be true. Just go out with him and see if everything works out. And if it doesnt just let him know how youre feeling and if it really has to come down to it you might have to let him go. Sooner or later he will get why girls break up with him and you might even be doing him a favor by sticking with him/ excepting him,like you said, for who is he.=]
good luck! :-)
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