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Bullies


Question Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 8:38 am

Im about to start school soon and im going to a new school.How do i deal with bullies?please answer this question.

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KristinaMariexo answered Friday August 25 2006, 1:06 am:
Starting at a new school is exciting and scary at the same time but if u just act yourself and make yourself stand out you`ll be fine. bullies are mean but everyone has them even if its your parents. You find away to forget about things quick and move on. don`t let them bring you down! they`re just cocky little shits! haha

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twistedteen25 answered Monday August 21 2006, 9:04 pm:
How to stay away from Bullies by Me.
1. Never show-off
2. Always be kind
3. Always stay positive
4. Stay away from bullies
5. If bullies are still bothering just go to your couselor. I know this may be a sissy kind of thing to do but it's not. It's better to get help than be bullied around. Trust me it's not fun.

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xhollister_babex answered Sunday August 20 2006, 8:12 pm:
highschool doesnt have very much bullies they dont do anything to ya as long as u stay positive and dont act like your all that and never start crap with the upper classmans and you'll be fine. hope i helped! =]

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kristen22 answered Sunday August 20 2006, 1:22 am:
Believe in yourself. Have confidence that you can deal with bullies in a peaceful manner.
If a bully is in your class, try to pick a time when you ask for their help in doing school work, Remember, most bullies don't feel very good about themselves.
If you are concerned about a bully at recess time at school, play close to the teacher on yard duty.
Inviting a bully to join a game that you and your friends are playing is a good idea.
If the bully's harmful behaviour continues, tell your parent, teacher, principal or another adult that you trust. They are there to help!

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Lalagurl answered Sunday August 20 2006, 12:35 am:
ignore them, and tell a teacher.
hope i helped :) (p.s. and good luck)

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Igotamonopoly answered Saturday August 19 2006, 7:46 pm:
Many schools don't have bullies. Mine doesn't, for the most part.

Ignoring them always works.

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Advicelady6798 answered Saturday August 19 2006, 2:53 pm:
Ok if you just go to school and make friends you wont have enemies. And starting high school isnt the way it shows on television. They dont stuff you in lockers or anything like that. Television has a tendacy to overexagerate things. Just relax and go to school with a positive attitude and you will be just fine. If you happen to accidentally make an enemy that wont leave you alone act like you dont care and they will leave you alone. Most bullies like to torture kids because they know it gets to them so they continue to do it. They will get bored if they see that it doesnt bother you.

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FALL_0UT_B0ii_x33 answered Saturday August 19 2006, 1:46 pm:
ugh i moved soo many times and all i can say is be polite and make friends. if you make friends easy, be sure they're good friends. then they'll help you out with bullies. dont worry and you'll do fine! hope i helped. please rate high!

(: Rachel

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lsconiersorg answered Saturday August 19 2006, 1:45 pm:
The only way to avoid bullies is to just keep on going, when you see them don't stop and talk just keep going avoid them as much as possible.

If you pass by a bullie and they ask you a question answer respectfully and keep moving or if you do not know the answer direct them to who can answer their question and that is it.

The bottom line let your words be few around them therefore it's possible that they will not bother you because you do not give them much of a conversation .

God Bless

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MissStephanieAnne answered Saturday August 19 2006, 12:19 pm:
Hey, ahh starting a new school is harsh, but i have been to many, i move around constantly... and i have never had a problem with people picking on me, or anything. just remember things on TV are exagerated, also just be poite.
you will do fine. goodluck [[[:

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Elcee answered Saturday August 19 2006, 12:00 pm:
The bullies will pick on anyone who appears different or gives an air of being a victim.

I suggest that you walk around with your head up and not be afraid to meet peoples eyes. Give out an air of confidence (even if you are quaking in your shoes - pretend to be someone else if you have to) and if anyone does anything to you don't be afraid to tell them to back off.

You will all be measuring each other up and it is first impressions that count unfortunately.

If you feel that you will become a victim of bullies, take a martial arts course to give yourself some courage. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself either.

I wish you well. Good luck.

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holahayley56 answered Saturday August 19 2006, 11:54 am:
Stick up to them. Bullies only pick on people, that are weak. & easy to push around. I know this because, I usta be mean to people. & my whole group is still, though. So, I know for a fact, thats why they do it. So stick up to them, just give it right back to them. & they'll leave you alone. I gurantee it. Also, make some friends in your new school. & it will be fine.

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