i've been goin out with my gf for about 6 months but latly she barly ever talks to me unless i talk to her first ad she never comes to be with me and i always end up haveing to go look for her how can i tell her in a nice way to be a better gf
merecedesxlove answered Saturday August 19 2006, 5:58 pm: Well you could sit down and talk to her about how shes been acting lately and how come she never does that.Im sure she'll understand.But you cant always expect someone to change that right away.Try to spend more time with her and get to know her and let her know you really care about her.Go on a little date to start get her talking =)
Alexandkendra answered Saturday August 19 2006, 2:54 pm: Hmm, most girls like that.
They kind of like it when the guy makes the first move but they just dont show it.
A way you might want you approach it , if you are with her, tell HER to call you later.
Try that and tell me how it works.
charli answered Saturday August 19 2006, 1:40 pm: wow! this is very close to home sometimes i can be like it with my boyfriend n he is often like ti with me. Thing is you have been together for 6 months and you ur gf may be wonderin if your bored of her or dont want to be with her anymore (u no wt sum boys r like) she wont want to cum ova to you if your with friends cos she might feel like shes been clingy and nt givin u much space. Have a chat with her and tell her how you feel and ask her how she feels and if theres anything causin this problem. In the meantime try sendin her a cute text or sumthin tellin her how loved she is and make sure she knows shes appriciated cos girls suffer badly from paranoia best of luk! :D [ charli's advice column | Ask charli A Question ]
Cux answered Saturday August 19 2006, 12:46 pm: Hey-
What you need to do is tell your girlfriend that you need to talk about something (no.. you're not going to break up with her- assure her of that)
Sit down and tell her how you feel- that you think she doesn't want to talk to you and that you always have to start a conversation to get her to talk to you...
Tell her that you want to talk to her more, and you would appreciate her starting the conversation once in a while
Advicelady6798 answered Saturday August 19 2006, 11:52 am: Most girls when they act resentful something serious happened with them and then tend to shut people out. they dont talk to anyone because it hurts but they try to put on a happy face but you can see that they are acting differently. try asking her if everything is alright. maybe do something really special for her to show that its ok to open up to you and that you want to be with her more. sometimes girls dont l;ike to make the first move it usually has to be the boys. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
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