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me and my bf have been going out for 7 months and we are in love. for some reason i cannot get over the fact that he has gotten a bj before, one time [i think] from one girl. by the way i have never given a bj or aything before. idk what my problem is. we haven't done much sexually (were taking it slow pretty slow :] ) but i don't think i would be able to progress sexually with him until i am over this stupid issue. but like the whole thing kills me inside. he says he kinda feels the same way that ive gotten fingered before but besides him i've only gotten fingered once or twice by one other guy, and my bf has fingered numerous other girls before so its definetly not the same. idk does anyone understand how i feel or any advice of what i can do to get over this? by the way saying something like oh its in the past now and theres nothing you can do about it does not help :/ (link)
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aww =[ I know how heartbreaking it can feel. Honestly, sometimes thoughts like that will come and go throughout a relationship (one time I dated a guy that had a one night stand and it killed me inside) but the only thing you can do is realize it's in the past. It's a bj so at least he didn't go all the way with her. Just look at it like this.. it's his past and you are his future, when you two decide to take it farther just do it better than his past girl did ;] hehe ps - remember to use protection! (you're young so be extra careful)
Hope you feel better love, and if you still have a hard time feel free to send me a message
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do those un-tangling shampoos really make a difference to your hair? is it worth buying? (link)
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my hair gets reaaaaally tangled. what I do is leave a little conditioner in. shampoos don't help me at all but the conditioner smoothens the hair and makes it so much easier to brush.. also if you have a spray bottle use a water and some conditioner for times when you just want to touch up or if youre on the run =)
Hope I've helped!
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my boyfriends birthday is in less than one month. he spent like over 200 on me. i want to spend alot on him also. b ut the problem is i have no idea what to get him. he will be turning sixteen. hes not really into sports but hes an amazing boyfriend and i want to get something that no one else will be able to top & some thing that he will love and always use or have. any ideas ? (link)
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I don't know your boyfriend so it's hard to suggest a gift BUT as far as I know.. every guy likes to play video games. IF he's into video games get him a good one he doesn't have already and maybe some accessories (for game ratings according to gamers opinions you can go to ign.com) This gift would be good for 3 reasons
1. YAY A GAME - he can actually use this more than once.. and even with his friends
2. MY GFS COOL - what gf encourages gaming? only a cool one ;]
3. not 200 bucks! - you save some money but get something that means more to him.. guys are less about money and more about fun/uselfulness
hope I helped :D
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so me and my boyfriend finally did it like 2 weeks ago. he only went in once and he had a condom on. but i am late on my period. one of my friends said it was cuz he popped my cherry. and others say i might be pregnant. which one is more likly?? (link)
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Neither, I'm assuming you're young. When you're young your period is most likely not regulated. You're probably just late because of that. I'm glad you used protection (good job). =)
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ok so ive been hanging out with one of my friends a lot lately and she has this friend and hes really nice and really cute so i started to like him. then i found out from some people that he does pot and drinks and stuff like that which i am totally the opposite of because i know im better than all of that. and my friend that ive been hanging out with has like self esteem issues and is sometimes down on herself and life in general so sometimes she makes the wrong decisions. and lately shes become really good friends with that guy and talks to him a lot and she always talks to him about how he should invite her to go get drunk and stuff and i really worry about that because shes like my best friend and i dont want her to make a wrong decision about something. and about that guy i really like him now and i probably have a good chance with him because ive talked to him and we seem to have a connection. so my 2 questions are what should i do about my friend and should i take a chance with him because hes nice and i really like him, or should i skip it because he drinks and stuff.
thanks :) (link)
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while you can tell your friend to be careful, many people will make their own decisions and mistakes regardless, you can only be supportive and hope that she knows better than to fall into those bad habits (I agree, drugs and alkie are not cool).. As for the guy, know this.. If you start to date him while he is into this stuff you cannot expect him to change. You will have to live with his love of alkie and drugs and since that's not you no matter what I know it will lie in the back of your mind and bother you. I say there are millions of boys and men in the world, don't settle for less that you deserve!
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We have a little family bible worship service each Saturday, against my will. We just read through Proverbs and lately the chapters we've been reading have this "child discipline" things in them . Like " Spare the rod; spoil the child." It's friggin driving me CRAZY! My parents always choose those verses when we come to the part where we are supposed to share what we felt was the important verse to us out of the things we read. (we read one verse ech.) Each time my dad cracks some joke like "yeah, take out the rod!" and my mom babbles on about how it's right and every parent should discipline and BLAH BLAH BLAH!In front of me! And lots of time directed to me!My parents they I should always obey an do what they want.They actually SAY it like that." YOu should always obey no matter what because we're more experienced." I mean, don't get me wrong, I am christian but why do they force me to do things I don't wanna. Like days I'd rather not go to church. I'm even going to CHRISTIAN school. If I tell them I don't wanna go to THAT certain school they threaten to take me out of that school and put me in these very hard schools.. ( I go to an international school and I live in Asia. In the place I live, the country's schools are VERY difficult.) They also just go "God has't touched you yet. I was just as unfaithful and Godless as you when I was young" And those DISCIPLINE and sexual parts! Don't they think I'd be embarrassed! I mean, excuse me, I'm a kid! I don't wanna here about how I should get hit by a rod! (my parents don't hit me, btw.) Don't they think I'd be embarrassed?! I always get mad after these worhsip meetings and my annoying mom always shout " What's wrong with you? The devil provoked you right after the worhsip meeting!" What is she, a friggin priest? I mean the devil? What the freak? UGH! 13/f (link)
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sigh* this is difficult! I think you should go through your Bible and find some support for how you feel.. Obviously your parents only respond on Christian terms so you have to do things by their terms and still manage to win them over. It will take some work but who knows, maybe it'll help.
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I love to dance. I have only been dancing for two years, and next year want to really start improving and everything. My dance studio is half an hour away from my house, and my parents have agreed with me that they will drive out twice a week. Well lucky me, everything I want to do ( which is 6 dance classes ) are all on two days and they are one after another with no breaks. But one day a week, everything I want to take 3 classes, which is 3 hours striaght, and I know my mom won't wait for me to dance for 3 hours. I am taking two of them most likely but I really want to take the third dance class. I want to ask my dad if he will pick me up after my dance class, but he already has a long drive to work there and back everyday. What should I do? (link)
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I know how passionate us dancers can be about doing what we love so I'm sure you'll do whatever it takes to get that extra class ;] Instead of asking your parents, find out who else is taking the class and maybe they can help you out with a ride. If that doesn't work then maybe you can get a bike and ride it, it's only 2 days a week ;]
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I have these scabs on my legs that, I'm embarassed to say, I've picked at. I know that this is a disgusting habit that I need to stop. I usually picked while I was waiting for something, like an internet page to load, even while I was driving. They could've started from a bugbite, a scratch, anything. I've tried to do my nails nicely to keep myself from ruining them, but it never worked. I tried simply resisting my urge, but I can only handle it for a day or so.I need to know how I can break my habit, get my skin to heal, and make the scars fade. It's so embarassing to wear shorts! Any help would be much appreciated. And please don't just tell me my habit is gross, I know that already. Just help me to stop it! (link)
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I used to have the scabs on my face! One thing that helped me stop picking was thinking about the horrible scars they're going to leave. Another thing was wearing bandaids. Have a support system. Every time I picked at it my family or friends would tell me to stop (most of the time you don't realize what you're doing til the damage is done). Lastly, keep fingernails short. It helps slightly.
Hope you heal up, from one scab picker to another ;D
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Hello Everyone:
I would to ask all of you something. Why does it seem like it's hard for good guys like me who dosen't, smoke, drink or do any of that bad stuff to find a right girl for him? It seems like there are a lot of girls out there who are nothing but trouble and always want want want all the time. I do not like girls who are always wanting stuff all the time. And it seems like all the good nice looking girls already have boyfriends. What is up with this? (link)
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I guess there is some appeal in a "bad boy" but honestly don't change a thing because once the girls are out of that "bad boy" phase they'll be looking for their potential husbands and they'll seek the qualities you have. Also some girls find it hard to believe there are guys like you around so they settle for less. ..... The nice girls are taken cause they're nice! haha that's obvious I'm sure
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Hey, im 14/f and Im Thinking about getting hair extensions, I mean my hair isnt that short It's like on my shoulders, But I would like it to be longer, Like Middle of my back/a little bit above my butt.
But I just need to know 1) Where do you get them. 2) If I should get clip in or glue on 3) If they do it at hair salons
Thanks so much (link)
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You can purchase them at a beauty store (a store that sells items such as professional brushes, hair dryers, etc) or even at your salon (not all salons have them). === I recommend the clip ins but if you do it professionally they have a way of braiding the extensions in, it looks really nice. === and of course they do it at salons ;]
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Why do boys like boobs? (link)
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A female body in general is appealing to the eye (as art would be) because of it's curves and softness. Perhaps it's the curvature of the breast which draws in the males.
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I think I may have aniexty but my dad doesn't seem to think or take it very seriously.
I'd like to see a doctor to check it out,what kind of doctor would I go to? (link)
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=/ I have the same problem - I think. See sometimes I feel like I suffer from anxiety but since it's so hard to really diagnose it yourself it's hard for others to take it seriously. Perhaps visit your doctor and bring up your concerns. WebMD may also help you to find symptoms. As for your father, sit him down and tell him adult to adult that you want to have this taken care of.
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well im the definition of "loner" i only have about 3 or 4 friends in this whole world. my boyfriend used to be my best friend, but he cant be my friend anymore because everything has changed since we started dating. im really happy with him, but i miss our friendship. i have another close friend, Nona, but she has so many friends besides me and shes always busy so im left alone. My boyfriend lives 20 minutes away and im not driving yet, so we only see eachother on fridays. and my other 1 or 2 friends i only talk to every now and again. like maybe once or twice a month. so they are more aquantince(sp) then anything. i always say that im happy where i am because i dont like being surrounded by people because im uptaining closterphobia(sp). but i just want a few more friends that i can talk to and hang out with and stuff. im fixing to try to get a lifeguard job, and that should add to my friend status, but im really shy. and i never start conversations. and see, all the time when i try to get friends? we become friends and then i get excited and just annoy them to death without even knowing it. or i do something wrong and they dump me. im just confused and lonely and bored and im already out of school so i have NOTHING to suck up the time with! and the lifeguard classes dont start until june...and i have nothing to do till then. any advice on how to get friends?? (link)
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haha, I went through this (and I still sort of do). Basically, real friends are hard to come by so don't be surprised that you only have a few close ones. Have a bunch of aquaintances, it's as simple as smiling at someone who looks at you. Just show them you are approachable and when you build up the nerve talk about something you might have in common (it helps). Also there are websites like meetup.com where you can look for groups of people who have the same interests as you =) hope it helps!
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so my boyfriend fingered me last friday and he was kinda ruff, but i got home a i had blood on my underwear and i woke up on monday and it hurt to pee.
well it only hurts at the end when i'm almost done.
but what could it be.
i thought it was a Urinary Tract Infection..
but i have noo idea.
anything would be extra great.
thanks.
f/16 (link)
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It might be. The best idea is to go to a gyno though. You can never be too safe with your vagina.
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i'm very confused at the moment, i have this boyfriend and we keep going on and off. and i'm getting so sick of it! so this one time, we broke up AGAIN and decided not to get back together in two weeks, but it became shorter than that. and now SOME people knows we're going out and the others think we're not. I like the feeling of being single, but yet when we break up again i feel very sad. and i can't talk to my friends about it, because they think i'm single you know? and sometimes i feel like it's better off being single, but yet i really like him. and this one time when we broke up, he was about to kill himself by getting anti-depressing pills or whatever. but then he emptied it. i don't know what to do, i'm not sure if i should be single or not. i like to be treated as if i was single, but yet i also like to be taken by him. but i guess it's that i need some space, but he could never understand that and we end up breaking up again. what should i do? (link)
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I think you need to figure yourself out before you should get involved with someone else. You cannot have the best of both worlds, although I completely understand where you're coming from. You probably like being with him because it takes away the loneliness of being single. My advice is see a lot of different people. You will learn more about yourself, you won't get so lonely, and you will still be single.
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