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Hello Everyone:
I would to ask all of you something. Why does it seem like it's hard for good guys like me who dosen't, smoke, drink or do any of that bad stuff to find a right girl for him? It seems like there are a lot of girls out there who are nothing but trouble and always want want want all the time. I do not like girls who are always wanting stuff all the time. And it seems like all the good nice looking girls already have boyfriends. What is up with this?
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Well, its sad to say, but most girls like bad guys. I honestly dont. I love the decent ones who dont do bad stuff. And all the good ones already have boyfriends because there are barely any good girls out there anymore, and other guys got to them first. Dont worry though, some good girl will notice that your a nice guy and wanna be with you.
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Well im 29 n went through it all, married, broken heart, good women n bad women, so listen 1st of all you must be trying to hard ti find the good woman, n sometimes as men we especially if we r the sensitive type we tend to jump in relationships quick, my advice is which worked out good 4 me is online dating site, theres lots of women who want a good man,take your time find out there interest n be real to them whith what you wantin a relationship,take yr time n you will find a good woman, try these site which is good: www.singlesnet.com,plentyofish.com. The second is free too n good.. Good luck buddy
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I guess there is some appeal in a "bad boy" but honestly don't change a thing because once the girls are out of that "bad boy" phase they'll be looking for their potential husbands and they'll seek the qualities you have. Also some girls find it hard to believe there are guys like you around so they settle for less. ..... The nice girls are taken cause they're nice! haha that's obvious I'm sure
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Ah okay. I didnt know how to reply to your feedback so yeah.
But nahh I mean Im not too young to date or anything, two of my friends have already done it ya know? Actually three. Probably half my grade. But sometimes I dont like it when people say Im pretty because it makes me feel like theres something wrong with my personality. I dont knoww
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Honestly? I don't know. Some girls just have no standards, no morals, nothing. They think that since a guy is their boyfriend, they have the right to be needy, and need something every second from him. They take advantage of him, and don't even care. And most of the poor guys don't even realize they don't deserve that kind of treatment.
Personally, I'd LOVE to find a guy like you. Guys who don't drink, smoke, or do any of those bad things are so much better than those who do [obviously]. And the fact that you realize girls who are needy aren't worth it is also amazing.
All I have to say, is don't give up. Like my friend who answered this [helloxdear13] said, keep trying. Don't lower your standards or give up your morals, because one day you WILL find the right girl for you. You'll find somebody who respects you, and doesn't constantly need something from you. And when you find that girl, she's going to be SO lucky to have a great guy like you.
Until then,
Best of luck =]
-Laura. (15-f)
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nooou. youre totally great (:
i'd date you and i'm good looking hahaaa :P
but seriously i think it's soo good you dont smoke or drink. you know i've got a similar problem. i dont seem to find a nice good looking guy who DONT do shit. it's soo hard and to be honest i dont know any :/
and why would you want a trouble-girl as a gf anyway? i mean seriously it's not worth it. and you'll find a girl who likes you for you are (:
like me for example. and i'm not a geek or anything haha
but dont worry too much. there deffinetly are girls out there who dont dig drinking etc.
just try meeting new people. and also, the girls who are taken wont be taken forever anyway :P
hope i helped a little (:
good luck xxx
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Well you know what? I think that's just life. I'm glad that you've made the right choices so far and you know there has to be a good girl out there for you so just be pacient and the right girl could be closer than you imagine. Don't give up. Hope I helped. Please let me know.
xoxoxox
princessita
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Aw, I'm really sorry that's all you see. I personally hate it when guys drink/smoke, do any of that, it's a huge turn off. Its the same in a lot of people I know.
I think most girls are like that because they feel they have a right to want something. They think that if you chose to be with them then you should love them more than life itself (its those princess stories) and that you shouldn't be against giving them everything. Its not the right way to be, but some think its justified.
All the nice looking girls, and all the nice girls, already have boyfriends because they are nice. They are caring, good hearted people that yes you could fall in love with, as could other boys (and they do).
I know this sounds a little overused (okay, a lot overused) but just keep trying. All girls aren't like that, and a ton would love someone like you. I'm confident in that. Just be nice, I'm not saying submit to their will but be nice and put yourself out there.
I hope I answered your question.
-Calli
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