I live in KY, but my dad lives in IN and i visit him every 6 weeks, and there is a boy there that is friends with my brother. Well this boy got into a fight because some kid was going to stab him, so now he is grounded and his brother, who helped him, is in a detention center. I know it sounds bad, but i dont really think so.
And he has a gf...but from what i hear he really likes me, like a lot, and wants to hang out with me this summer. And people are telling me that because he thinks im cute and stuff and he has a gf he is a player, but i dont neccersarily think so.
what should i do about this?? whats your opinion??
PS::::
And please dont tell me that i need to leave him alone if he has a gf because i know that and im not gonna do it..i dont play that game...or say that its long distance or anything like that...i know its hard but chances are if anything were to happen it would be for three weeks only..while im there.. :D
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? anniemaylane answered Sunday May 11 2008, 9:12 pm: I'm from KY too. But I'm not going to tell you to forget him , if you like a guy of course you'll go after him. If I was in your shoes here's what I'd do.
I'd call him talk to him visit him when I'm there. I'd also make sure to flirt ALOT. Because players L-O-V-E that. But I wouldn't ask him out, let him ask you out, but make sure he's single first. Then your set. But Make sure sinnce it's long distannt that you comunicate often! That's the key. I hope it works out, but remember that players jump from girl to girl, so keep your eye out, and don't be shocked if it's over soonner then you think,
Wish you the best of luck
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solveitsally answered Sunday May 11 2008, 8:17 pm: There are so many red flags in this dilema i am not sure where to start. The most important thing is that you seem to understand that he has a girlfriend and that you do not have an issue to discuss here. As long as he is with someone else, him and his baggage should be the last thing on your mind. There should be no chances of anything happening. Carry yourself with the dignity the little voice in your head is invoking in you. [ solveitsally's advice column | Ask solveitsally A Question ]
randomconfusionx answered Sunday May 11 2008, 6:46 pm: uhm.
wow, just ask him.
or flirt with him,.
trust me, im not gonna tell you to leave him alone.
bc idc if he has a gf.
if he likes you.
then he'll leave his gf for you.
=D
i think you should i guess talk to him when you can.
whenever you get a chance.
show him you're interested
=D
luvbug555 answered Sunday May 11 2008, 3:17 pm: honey, your so smart.
in my opinion, heres what you do. while your there hang out with him and a bunch of other kids. you and him one on one isnt good because his girlfriend will beat you up.
i dont think hes bad, he was defending himself with the stabbing thing.
while your there, let it be sort of a summer fling. nothing physical and no one-on-one time but still flirting. the girlfriend dosent matter because its just a fling, and youll be leaving after a few weeks anyway!
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