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How do I get my gf to think im "sweet" and really hang out with me alot? movies? talk on phone alot? what should i do?? I RATE REALLY HIGH!


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Ok, so this is what you should do to make your gf think you're sweet;

-Call her like 5 times a day just to tell her that you miss her.
-Get her roses and a teddy bear on her birthday.
-Write a song/poem for her (this would be awesome if you knew how to play a guitar)
-Make a mix CD for her listing a bunch of love songs on it
-Hug her and kiss her!!

Those are just a couple things you can do. If you need any more, feel free to ask me in my inbox. Take this from a girl who likes sweet guys ;]

xOo Nikki xO

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Besides Ebay where is a good place to find livestrongs?? I am trying to sell them to my friends at school for double price!!!

You can find them at any nike store or Finish Line..some place like that. But its a lil hard to find them because they're soooo popular...they're most likely sold out, lol. But anyway, I love them bracelets! I have a livestrong one. ;] Hope you make lotta money!

xOo Nikki xO

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How is the best way to get a tan? Sun or tanning salon. I need one bad after this winter I am so pale. Any ideas?

I'd prefer Sun. I mean, cmmon, you could fall asleep in a tanning bed, lol. Just dont stay in the sun too long. You might get skin cancer. I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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Ok...Here's the story. I have been friends with this guy since the 5th grade.We're both 16 and I have had a crush on him since 5th grade too. Finally, 5 years later,(2 months ago), we went out for a month. I thought "Wow, I can't believe this.It's what I've always wanted." Well it wasn't. He was always around his friends. I mean I don't see ANYTHING wrong with guy time,because I want girl time too. But he was ALWAYS with them. He barely called cause he was always with them. The funny thing was that before we went out we talked every night for like 4 hours! I adored him and I know he adored me. But being alone all the time just wasn't working. So we broke up. We THANKFULLY went back to being best friends again. Well now 2 months later we have a little problem. We went to a party and we kissed...I loved it and I know he did. Then 3 days later I asked if he liked me. His answer was "Yea but I don't see us as anything more than friends right now...but yes I do like you." I was devastated...did I read his signals wrong? Well we had a heart to heart and came to an understanding and hung up the phone with saying we loved each other! The next night we went to a basketball game, then to the pool hall. As he played pool and I sat there watching...our eyes met for the longest time,he smiled at me with the cutest smile, and my heart just melted! "Maybe he really does like me the way I like him!!" I thought. Well when it was time for me to leave he said "Bye I'll call you later" Without anything else...he usually hugs me or kisses me on the cheek!! Once again...a signal misread. My friend Beth, whom was there throughout it all, spoke to him one night about it. He said he didn't want me to like him the way I did because he didn't know what he wanted right now and that he didn't want it to end up like last time and him "hurting me". Problem was...he never hurt me! Now, almost a week later, we have yet to speak to each other. BIG CHARACTER HERE!! Morgan... a girl he is/was in love with has hurt him twice. They didn't even go out...she lead him on and then let him down. He claims he doesn't care anything for her. I believe him...but if I could just find out what it was that he loved about her I would change and just to gain AT LEAST one characteristic he loved about her! I have never been like this...I've always said I would never change for anyone! Especially not for some guy. But for him I will do anything. WHAT DO I DO!! Please don't say "Girl, don't change for anyone" or "Let him come to you"...seriously HELP ME!!

Ok, I'm sorry I gotta say this, but...DONT CHANGE FOR A GUY! I mean, if you have to change for him to REALLY like you, then hes not really worth it. The perfect guy is a guy that will love your for your perfections, imperfections, and YOU. Not some chick pretending to be something she's not. I mean, I would think that it's common sense or something. Its totally girl code. Soo...my advice to you is to not change for this guy, and at least TRY to move on. Because he isnt worth you if you gotta change your personality even a little bit for him. I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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is there any other way to get rid of moles besides a dermatologist removing them? i have some in embarrassing spots that i could never tell my mom or a dermatologist and i was wondering if there was any way that i could do it

I mean, unless you're brave enough to get a knife and just slash it off of there (I'm guessing you're talking about ur booty or something like that), then I suggest that you show your mother or your dermatologist. I mean, at least a dermatologist is used to seeing that stuff, and it will be less painfull, lol. Anyway, I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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what doesw it mean wen ppl say like 13/f?
Please tell me i rate!

When they say they're 13/f, that means that they're female and they're 13 years old. Haha, theres a click in your head now, isnt there? ;] Hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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I know this is weird...But whats a descrete way of giving the guy you like a hug? :P Besides just walking up and hugging him. Sorry this is weird...But I rate high :)

Just...you know, go up and givem a hug! Theres nothing really embarassing about it..I mean, its not at our school. I'll juss go up to muh crush at the end of the day, hug him, go, "cyuh bud," and he'll say "bye" back to me. So, just give him one! It doesnt have to be a long one, maybe just a one second hug. Dont be scared you'll like giving hugs after a while :D hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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The movie Saw is about a serial killer who makes up mazes to see if the person is worth living.

Woah thats awesomefull!!! That sounds awesome, I'm getting that from Blockbuster tomorrow or something. Thanks for the info, Hun.

xOo Nikki xO

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is there any way i can convinve my REALLY overprottective mom into letting me go to bording school?! lol everytime i ask she puts on this sad face (like to make me feel bad) and says "you really wanna leave your mom?!" and i always say "no but i really wnat a change"....and i just think it's time for me to be able to be a little more independant! but i guess my mom thinks im gonna be a baby forever..anways do any of you know a way to convinve my mom to let me go!? and also i know this is totaly irrelevant to the subject (lol) but how can i convince my mom to let me date already when ALL my firneds have been allowed for a while now!...thanx i RATE HIGH! lol xox Ari

Ok, this is what you do. So, just sit her down at the table one night and talk to her. Tell her that you're growing up and you need your space. You cant be babied forever and she needs to face the facts that you're not a baby anymore who needs your mom to scare the monster out of the closet every night. I mean, you might be going to college and you just want to be prepared to be able to leave your parents for a while. Tell her that you'll be safe and maybe you can write her a letter weekly? I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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my best guy friend and i tried to start a bf and gf relationship but we feel uncomfortable being that. we just wanna be really close friends. i was wondering should i ask him to the prom and just say we can go as friends?! and when should i ask him?!

Yeah, you guys can go as friends. That wouldnt be a problem at all! You should ask him asap (a.s.a.p lol) and just tell him that you two are juss going as best buds. I mean, if you guys dont feel comfortable being bf/gf, then dont be. I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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14/F. Next time my dad goes to the movie store I get to pick a few movies. I prefer scary movies rated pg-13 or R. Movies I like were Saw and the Ring. I personally thought the Grudge was stupid. Any ideas? (I will take suggestions other then scary movies if they are good)

I think you should go ahead and watch Boogeyman because that looks pretty good. They're having a new movie coming out soon I think its called "The Curse" and that looks pretty cool, too. Hey reply to me and tell me what the movie "Saw" was like, cause muh mom and I might get it at Blockbuster and I was wondering if you could tell me what you personally thought of it.

xOo Nikki xO

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whats the difference between being christian and catholic?

The only differences they have are their beliefs and their like...ceremonies and stuff. Catholics usually around Easter and Xmas they put food on a plate and set it by a candle for the spirits to eat off of, while the Christians dont really do that. I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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I know this guy since we were 7 years old. I think he is gay. He always talks about gay people. He always points out who is gay. He has no male friends of his own and he goes to gay clubs and claims he is just watching to see who lives a secretly gay life. He also has a lot of woman friends and gossips very much.
He dates women have no flaws. Very pretty women that look like models.He is very picky. He calls every body ugly. when i date a guy he tells me he's not that cute. I've seen cuter. Is it just me or is that something a girl would say? What do you think about this situation.?

Its something a girl would say, Lol. Anyway, I think your friend here might be Bisexual because he does fine with girls, yet he sounds like he likes boys. I think you should take this up with your friend and honestly ask him privately. Hopefully you wont, like, freak out. But I for one think that gay friends that are guys are pretty cool because its a guy you can actually talk to, you know? Tell me how it turns out, and I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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is this normal...

im ok with death, and i know heaven is more peaceful then earth..and i know heaven nothing can go wrong..

i sometimes want to die..but sometimes i fear that i dont want to dye...like i dont want my life to end i always want it to continue...and never end

im 14 and i know my death isnt till another 80 years or so...

Trust me, it's normal. Everyone is afraid of dying. I am..my friends are. Everyone has that same fear, trust me. Ok, so some people arent afraid of dying. But thats because they know that they'll be better off in Heaven. Everyone wants to live forever. But I heard that when you die you are reborn. So, technically, you will never die. You will just not be on earth as much as you like ;] I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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I need some nice vintage holey jeans! Where do you think is a good way to find them or how can i get them this way at home? Thanks a bunch!

just get some at like Goodwill or at a garage sale or something. If you wanna get them with all the holes and stuff, get a pair of faded pants and slide on your knees alot. Thats how i get holes in my pants...of course, it's always accidental, lol. I hope I helped ;]

xOo Nikki xO

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Ok this is a serious question and please don't delete it! Ok I've been bestfriends with my bestfriend Katie for over 6 or 7 years or something like that. Ok well the problem is recently like around newyears she got back together with her X boyfriend who used to hit me and say bad things to me and stuff. I really did think everything changed. UNtil the other day it got real serious and we got into an actual fist fight! and I know this isn't right. I just don't know what to do. The other day I started crien and walked away. I don't know what I should do. I don't want to loose my bestfreind because we already had a seperation because of this. This is getting really serious and Im afraid if I don't do something about this I will get hurt not only physically..emotionally to..

Signed
Scared 15-f

Alright this is serious so listen to me. If Katie really is your BEST FRIEND, then she will break up with this guy for you. I mean, you got into a fist fight with him and your SCARED of him. If shes a real friend she will put you before that guy and break up with him so you can be safe. Thats what I would do. I mean, every girl has to put her friends before her man. If she cant learn to accept that then she isnt a real friend. Its just wrong for a person to pick her BF over her bestest buddie. Trust me on this one. Tell me how it turns out and I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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I somehow got my bfs friends number in my phonebook. His friend texted me saying "i need to tell u something" so i told my bf i found something that i didnt want to knw. then i went to work n my bf calls n tells me he cheated on me. i go home, call him n he tells me he wont do it again, he wants to be w me, he wants a straight forward relationship. so I gave him a second chance was that wrong?He cheated on me w a girl he supposable hates, they went out b4 n she cheated on him, she hates his best friend. First he said he did it bc he didnt want to hurt her feelings then he said bc hes stupid then he said bc it just happened then finally tells me the truth bc he wants to get laid.

I think that you should have dropped that guy. I mean, he CHEATED on you. I mean, he was with another girl, and that alone is wrong. No girl deserves to be cheated on. I mean, he should be greatful that you gave him a second chance and he should be treatin' yooh like a *PriiNcEsS* right now. So..Up to this point I dont know if you made the right decision or not. I mean, if you really trust this guy then I wouldnt blame you. But I guess if you find him cheatin' on you again then at least you learn a valuable lesson: NEVER give men a second chance. I hope I helped some, and tell me how it turns out.

xOo Nikki xO

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me and this guy went out for like 2 weeks, right. so anyways we did a lot of bad stuff but of course hes in 11th grade and im in 7th. i cry ever morning because i think of what we did. he dumped me the next day after we did it. and told me that he was using me to get down my pants. please help me on what i should do! you are like the only girl i can trust, and plus you are so pretty. i love you and thanks! please!

This guy you're talking about is getting me really pissed off right now. You betta listen cause im on a roll! Anyway, some guys are so freakin stupid! I mean, girls arent just there to be sex bitches I mean, cmmon! If he abused you like that then he got another thing coming. I mean, you lost your virginity to a guy who just used you. Im not blaming you at all, but this is what you do. Just go up to this guy and slap him on the face. "You idiot! Why did you do this to me? You took away my happiness...my cheer...my virginity! I dispise you, how could you do something like this?!" I know that I dont know what youre feeling right now but if I was there right now with you I would tell that guy off because it disgusts me when guys do stuff like that just to get in people's pants. Tell me how it works out, I'm soooo sorry I got worked up, hun, I'm just so mad at this guy...

xOo Nikki xO

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* 14 SINGLE Female *
- Everytime I talk to one of my friends boyfriends, they always talk about how much they love my friends. I'm single, and I always get pissed when they talk about them. Do you think it's just because I'm jealous?

I doubt it. I mean, if you hear the same thing over and over again dont you think that you'd get a bit annoyed? I mean, no one likes to hear the same things every single freakin day. So, the next time your friend's boyfriend starts talking about your friend, just tell him off. Just go, "Can we get on another subject?! I mean, you talk about her all the time and it pisses me off!! I know you love her, but gimme a break!" Or something to that effect. I know that I would get annoyed, too..I hope I helped some. If you need anything, feel free to ask me. And tell me how it works out.

xOo Nikki xO

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when it comes to tryin to get a guy...how do know when ur tryin too hard, or not hard enuff.Or wen u should give up...??

Well, sometimes its hard to tell whether youre trying too hard or not trying hard enough. Thats why im glad you asked this and this question is worthy of being answered lol. Anyway, if you're trying too hard other people tend to notice. If you're getting into arguments or catfights with other people who have a crush on your crush, thats trying too hard. If you flirt with him CONSTANTLY and ask him out at least twice every 2 weeks, thats trying too hard. If you're really shy around this guy and you dont talk to him at all, then thats not trying hard enough. I mean, the guy's gotta at least know your name, right? And if you ask him out and he says no, thats a sign to give up. I mean, if he says "No," Then no means no, right? I mean, that means he doesnt like you. And if you ask him out once or twice and he says he'll think about it and a couple months go by without him telling you, then you should give up. I mean, girls arent freaks that wait around for something to happen. I mean, we can wait, but we cant wait around FOREVER. If that guy doesnt work out, try looking around for another guy whos sweet and is worthy of having you. Tell me how it works out and if you need anything, I'm here for you.

xOo Nikki xO

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