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He cheated but I gave him a second Chance
I somehow got my bfs friends number in my phonebook. His friend texted me saying "i need to tell u something" so i told my bf i found something that i didnt want to knw. then i went to work n my bf calls n tells me he cheated on me. i go home, call him n he tells me he wont do it again, he wants to be w me, he wants a straight forward relationship. so I gave him a second chance was that wrong?<br>He cheated on me w a girl he supposable hates, they went out b4 n she cheated on him, she hates his best friend. First he said he did it bc he didnt want to hurt her feelings then he said bc hes stupid then he said bc it just happened then finally tells me the truth bc he wants to get laid.
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YES, you shoul've just dumped the guy.
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I think that you should have dropped that guy. I mean, he CHEATED on you. I mean, he was with another girl, and that alone is wrong. No girl deserves to be cheated on. I mean, he should be greatful that you gave him a second chance and he should be treatin' yooh like a *PriiNcEsS* right now. So..Up to this point I dont know if you made the right decision or not. I mean, if you really trust this guy then I wouldnt blame you. But I guess if you find him cheatin' on you again then at least you learn a valuable lesson: NEVER give men a second chance. I hope I helped some, and tell me how it turns out.
xOo Nikki xO
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Yes.. man all that loser wants is a piece of ass.. if ur not giving it to him, he'll find someone else to get it from.. my theory is, once a cheater always a cheater... hes going to kep cheating he will never change.. 2 months ago me and my boy friend broke up.. because every other day he would cheat on me.. and we wouldbreak up.. it got kinda old after awhile.. you shouldnt be trreated lik that dont make my mistakes and stay with the jerk.. you deserve better hun, dont let him fuck you over anymore.. so in my opinion, i think you made the wrong choice to take him back, because he'll think that ur like obsessed with him and he'll think that you wont mind if he cheats on you becuz you love him, and he probably thinks he can get away with it too, and he'll make it a better, trust me ive been in several relationships lik that when they think its ok to cheat becuz they no ull take them back.. its horrible.. well good luck with your decision much love! <33
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Well, I may be a guy and such, but I kind of think that you probably should weigh out everything logically. I mean, does a magazine really hold all the answers?
Let's take an article I read called "The Great Moon Hoax of 1857." That entire article is about a scandal in the media in which several newspapers printed a story about a telescope that could zoom to withing 3 meteres on the Moon's surface. Obviously this was pure poppycock, and in no way true. Yet this newspaper had the audacity to continue, and say that there was life on the Moon. Life?! On the Moon?! "Ridiculous," you say? So we may think, but the people back in 1857 believed it, and since it was in print, it must be true. Right?
Note: I don't really remember the actual year, but 1857 is a nice number don't you think?
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He is an asshole! hes not worth it.... you need to find a guy who will not treat you like that you deserve better then that....it wasnt wrong to give him a second chance... everyone deserves a second chance but if he is going to lie to you and keep changing his story he is not worth it.... you need trust in a relationship and if he is going to go and cheat on you then you cannot trust him... so i think he doesnt deserve you... your so much better then that.... dump that trash and find a man who will treat you right... treat you like a princess... not like your a piece of a game! hope i helped... if u need anything else ask hun! im here for ya!
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im sry but i dont think he deserved another chance! i read in a magazine about the cheating thing and it was written by a dude and it says:
Any guy who cheats is saying he doesnt care about you or the realationship. Do you really want to be with a guy who has no self-control or respect for you? ( Even if you really like him, staying with a cheater will only make you feel like a loser.) So, keeps this one simple rule: If he cheats on you, dump him.
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