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the bruuunettte.. i am 18 years old. i have been through plenty for my age, so i know what pretty much everything is like. i don't care about ratings, i will answer your question completely honest, and if you don't like it && rate me a 1, i will laugh. it does not phase me. if you're not serious, please do not waste my time. if my advice is not something you like to hear, well too bad, you asked me and that's what i had to say. i am a really [[nice]] girl. i promise. i can give really good advice or really stupid advice if you give me a stupid question. but i guarantee i can help you. just ask! =]



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advice

how do you have sex? duh..penis into vagina..i know that..im a guy by the way..but how do i kno which hole and how to make the gurl feel comfertable and if u dont mind could u just tell me how like how do i start???

pleez no dumm answerz..im serious i luv dis gurl alot and i dont want to hurt her..its both of our first timez.

thanx - bryan

awww thats totally sweet.
by the way im sorry im so late.
well i mean when the time comes you will know which hole.
just make sure she wants to first. then just kiss her and just work your way make sure you use a condom.. safe sex. so yeah and then just do it. i mean basically you go in n out ya know until your finished... dont worry it will work out.. have fun i hope it goes well.
XoXo

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does anyone kno of really good techno songs? i rate 5's. thanks.

♥ uMm "Better Off Alone" by Alice DJ.
or "Heaven" by Sammie DJ.. ♥

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Hey, im 5'7" and about 150lbs, my friends dont think that i am fat but i dont know if there lying to me because they dont want to hurt my feelings....So...do you think that sounds overweight or normal??
thanks

you are definately NOT overweight.... at 5'7?? definately not!!!!!!! be happy with your body.. who cares what anyone esle thinks..

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ok i am 16 and all my friends say they have had sex i feel i am the only one that has not.what shall i do?they keep asking me if i have had sex?

well dont do it just because everyone else has. maybe you are waiting for the right time. and if they keep asking you tell them to FUCK OFF .. ;)

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ok me and my bf are planning to have sex the thing is we are both virgins and i was wondering wat it was like the first you have sex... mostly on the girls part.. like does it hurt and all that i want to no bc i want to be sure im really ready we already have everything else planned out and all but i still wanna be sure ne good advice and no loser advice is apreciated ill rate good laters

yeah, it hurts, just be ready for it. XO bi

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ok im 13 and im sort of dating this 16 year old for a while we have been close and like his friend is going out with my frie so we go places with each other. well i get out of school on the 24 and we were all going to walk to there house and hang out there but ive never been to his house b for do you think i should go remember he's 16 and im 13.?

omg people who say stuff about age... it doesznt matter AT ALL!! unless hes over 18 and ur under 18... omg when i started dating my bf he was 16 and i was 13 but im 14 now and hes 16 babeSz it doesnt matter at all.. age aint nothing but a number!

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About a year ago when i was 14 my best friend and i were kinda role playing when she would sleep over and i just felt so comfortable touching eachother and i enjoyed it sooo much! But now she thinks it's gross and i don't know how to approch any other gurl because it's really fun. It's like girls know what feels good to them so they do it to their partner. i don't think i'm lez because i like guys and have a bf but i enjoy doing sexual things wit girls and i can't take my eyes off their bodies in the locker rooms and stuff. what should i do?

babeSz, your bi. thatSz all there iSz to it.

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how do u make a girl come?
(im asking individuals, cause they always delete my stuff)

well.. you could use clit stimulation. basically fingering. and rubbing of the clit. hope i helped have fun! xOoXoOx AMbER

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Anyone know how to french kiss? Im a fourteen year old girl whos frenching someone for the first time today please help!!!I rate high :c)

uHm juSt Go WiTh tHe fLow. iTSz nOt EVEn HaRd. GoD lUcK bAbESz. XoOXoxOXoXOoXo aLl YoU rEeLy Do iSz MoVe YoUr ToNgUe. gO AlOnG WItH hiM.!!! XOXOXOXOOXO OX AMBER OX OXOOXOXOXOX

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Can someone tell me a site that has music codes and can be used for myspace?

www.musicvideocodes.com
www.musicfeet.com
www.musiccodescentral.com

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Hey..
omg ur so pretty..lol anyways..
I'm 13 and im getting my belly button pierced in like a week..and omg i have no idea what to expect. I don't know if you have yours done..but i was wondering how they pierce it and if it hurts??
thank you! x0x0-Lauren

hey babe,
well no i dont have my bellybutton pierced, but i know a lot of people who do. they said that they THOUGHT that it would be painful but really it wasnt. i am pretty sure that you lay on this table thing and the guy has like a needle and sticks it through and leaves it there till he gets the barbell ready then he takes it out and then puts the barbell in. im pretty sure its not painful. so theres not much to worry about.. hope this helps. love ya XoXo
♥AmBeR♥

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Well hey yall, The other night , well day actually Me and my 'boy' were just Hanging out, right? Well yes i am young, A minor ( too young for kids either way ) .. Well yeah we hadnt seen eachother in forever .. So yeah we hung out n stuff yeahh.. Then we ended up having..sex & I left blah well Later on, His father ( yess.. can you say Ahh? ) he walked in the room saying he smelt sex & Picked one of the.. four condoms up and realized it was broken, This was around 5-8 or so.. on a Tuesday night, so I'm gona get tested to be safe ( i guess, right thing to do right? ) on Tuesday.. night probably like 9. Well, Do yall think its better to have a plan what to do before I find out, and we need to make one ? Lately alls weve gotten at is, "Shit were gona be even more fucked" , Or should we just worry about it later? Also, He is going to be 18 next year, And I will still be a minor, I am NOT bragging at all I just want help, But we both have very wealthy families.. Not sure how this happened, with bright futures, and How to break it to them? His father knows ones broken though, Whats the best thing to do here?

SmElt SeX?? oKAy WeLL jUsT tAlK iT oVeR iT WiLL WoRk OuT iN tHe EnD ANd If It DoEsNt thEn DoNt KnOw What To TeLL yOu! SoRry

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Is it normal to still be bleeding the day after your first time?

WeLL i gUeSs ItS nOrMaL. iM NoT ReElY SuRe.

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how exactly do you finger a girl? and do you have any other advise you can give to a guy that he should know like how to get started or hw to tell when shes ready? well just about any general info will work thanks

WeLl. MaKe SuRe tHaT yOuR fiNgEr iSnT dRy, thAtS uNpLeAsUrEaBlE! aLl YoU ReEly Do iS StiCk YoUr FiNgEr(s) uP a gIrLs CoOcHiE AnD jUsT gO iN AnD oUt. lIkE yOu ArE aCtUALLy HAvinG sEx, bUt WiTh yOuR fIngEr! . AnD tO gEt StArTEd JuSt KiSs HeR AnD tHeN jUsT mOvE yOuR hAnD dOwN hEr pAnTs ANd iF ShE liKeS it ShE'll LeT yOu iF she dOEsnt LiKE iT tHeN ShE wIll TeLL yOu To StOp!! XoX AlWaYs AmBeR

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I know that every girl down there is unique, but im not a lesbian or anything but i see pretty girls in magazines and all of them dont have any visible things in their bottoms. like my question is, is it unattractive to have larger "lips" than most girls and will guys be turned away by it? I dont wanna sound weird its just i dont know who to ask without seeming like a weirdo. lol thanx!

WeLl iF A GuY tHaT u R WiTh ReAlLy LovEs YoU fOr YoU. tHeN hE WoNt CaRe AbOuT yOuR liPs. HE PrOLLy WONt EvEn PaY AtTeNtiOn tO IT. gUyS WiLL BE GUYS AnD iF yOu Do FuK, hEs NoT gOinG To CaRe. As LoNg As He HaS sUmOnE WitH A cRoTcH hEs nOt ReElY gUnNa GiVe A sHit!. XoX LoVe ALwAyS aMbEr

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Well heres the thing..

Sex..

im completely ready but im scared that the condom will break and ill end up pregnant!

any advice on the subject??

thanks

i rate 5's

HuN, YoU dOnT nEeD tO wOrRy So MuCh. WhEn YoU hAvE sEx ThEn YoU hAvE sEx! nOt MuCh to WoRry AbOut. ThE cHaNcE oF tHe CoNdOm BrEaKiNg iS vErY uNliKeLy iF yOu UsE tRoJAN! AnD EVEn IF tHe CoNdOm DoEs bReAk, i MEAn It CoUlD bReAk In ThE bEgiNniNg AnD tHeRes NoT A ChAnCe Of hIm AlReAdY bUsTiNg. UnLeSs HEs A PReMaTuRe EjAcUlAtOr. So iF iT bReAkS AnD hE hAsNt BuStEd Yet ThEn jUsT pUt AnOtHeR oNe On! nO nEed To WorRy SweEtHeArT!
♥AMBER♥

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My boyfriend is going to be 15 on the 25th and I am already 15. On june 5th, we will have been going out for 8 months. I feel comfortable with him and I love him. We have been talking about having sex but we just aren't sure if we should because of the ages we are. I know its illegal until you are 18 but we really want to. And also, what condems are the best to use? Please help!

WeLl iF yOu FeEl tHaT yOu WaNt To ThEn Go fOr iT! iTS yOuR cHoiCe ActUAlLy.. nOt tHE lAWs. So GO fOr iT! Oh AnD TROJAN CONDOMS aRe DeFiNaTeLy ThE bEsT tO uSe!
[♥]AMbER

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why is it that guy find girl on girl action so attractive??
ill rate if ur advice is good

GuYs Will Be GuYs. ThE mAlE bRaIn Is BaSiCaLlY tiTs AsS aLcOhOl, tiTs AsS aLcOhOl. iTs JuSt HoW iT gOeS. So iF tHeRes TwO gIrLs iTs TwIcE tHe AmOuNt oF tiTs AnD AsS.

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what are some good hair dye products that last long? i tried dyeing my hair a dark brown but it faded(to a light brown) in barely 3 weeks. Suggestions?

LoReAl

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How long do you wait for a pregnancy test? If its an at home one.. About a week?

♥ lOOk ON tHE bAk OF tHE bOX ♥

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