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Hey..Im Amber yah im 14 years old and i live in maine...i love to answer questions and i do my best to help anyone out. i guess i give pretty good advice cause most of the time it works for most of my friends..but im not always right...im really big into sports i LOVE to play all kinds of sports. i play lacrosse and play other ones with my friends and cousins. Im always out busy doing stuff so i hope i can help you with whatever you need. cause i been threw some pretty thuff things to..so i kinda know how u feel.

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ok so i have this boyfreind...and i love him with all my heart, weve been on and off for about a year now. Ive been in love with him since the first day he asked me out.I love everything about him, but theres one thing that he just started doing that really bugs me. Ok he's your average 17 year old honry teen...but he like talks about it a lot. He always tries to talk dirty to me, and i used to think it was cute, but after some of the things guys have done to me...i dont like it anymore...at all! even him, and sometimes he gets to the point where i have to tell him to stop...but i feel really bad telling him that. I know this is a weird situation, but what should i do?

Okay well if it bugs you and you are really close just say you can be horney all ya want i just dont like it when you do/talk horney to me it just bugs me. I am sorry but that is what in my heart. I am sorry and I love you. It might hurt him a little. but its the truth and u r just leading to ur hart. maybe he acts horney becasue he thinks you or girls like it. good luck e-mail me back and tell me how things went.

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my sis just got her first boyfriend & she likes himbut im worried he doesn't like her. He kissed her a few times but he never calls her & i read in a mag that that means he's not really into her!!! can u help.plese do
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Okay well just tell your friend that I don't think he likes you just think of it he never calls you he never dose anything with you besides kiss? dose that make any sence. Well i am just saying to you that becasue its your life i just dont want you to get hurt thats all. And but before you say that think u did some research but you should not belive all magazines there arn't true some can be but most arn't. Hope i helped....sunny411

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i used to have this friend named stephanie and she thinks she's all that so i stop being her friend.i told her that im not her friend but she can still talk to us but she asked if i can stop talking behind back but like i mean we arent friends anymore so i was like why?!?!then she said because it's not nice!i was like your not that nice either so and she said she didnt talk behind my back but i bet she did a million times and i really wAnt her to leave me alone but i dont know how im afraid i might make her cry!wat do i do?

Don't talk behind her back then she might leave you alone. Say to her Will you just leave me alone i dont want to talk to you okay... if she wont stop bothering you. You dont know how much one person can say behind your back. And be like i dont mean it in a bak way but it is the truth!
hope i helped good luck,

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i think wednsesday at church im gonna talk to hi mand say that i like him. the only problem is that he has a grilfrind. should i still do it?

okay well first you need to find out if he likes his girlfriend alot and he and see if he likes another girl...ask his friend or something! and maybe when he is not with his girlfriend or something act like he is not seeing someone and be like Do you like anyone because i do. and get deeper or... tell it to his face i like you!

e-mail me bak and tell me how things worked out good luck hope i helped...

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1 of my friendz who is a guy really likes me and he told me and asked who i liked and i said him so we are going out but i dont really like him that much because i like a different guy but him and the guy im going out with are friends.so if i ask the other guy out and dump the guy i am going out with he'll be really upset so what should i do???????

Well thats what you should do just say that you do not want to ruin a good relshiship with him you still want to be really really good friends just say i am at the momunt when i like someone else i'm sorry. and he will understand and just say that you are a really nice kid in all but i rather be still be really good friends...and ask the other guy out! if he says no then tuff luck... hope helped...

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i have been going out with my boyfriend for alomst a month. I'm 15 and were really close. We always makeout and cuddle a lot. Do you think it would be too early to go down his pants?

Its up to you just think what your parents are going to do...Do you want this guy to have your childs father you do not want to take the chance about getting prendict do you? its your body but when you do have a child think about how much of the trouble! your only in High school right? well its your body and you mgiht be able to do what you want but i am saying its your choice! so you choose...hope i helped and good luck e-mail me and tell me what you choose to do.

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ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female

okay well he is giving some hints that he likes you! Smile :) he smiled when he thinks of you he smilies! So thats a good sighn. Well about Brooke maybe she is not for him and he is trying to get contact with you! Well look at him in the eyes to see if he likes you if he won't stop looking at you he probley likes you and every day try to get closer and do things together and in a quiet moment maybe not ramdaly say "Will you go out with my i really like you." and i bet you he would say yes! Send me another question or something to tell lme how it went! hope i helped good luck!

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Ok, heres the deal.

Almost a year ago two months from now I met a girl on the net over an MMO. She's young like me, 17, and has a very addicting personality. We became friends quickly, and we talk about alot of things together, and swap alot of pictures from good times we've had with friends, family, etc. I found her to be attracting, but foudn it strange too. I've not met her in RL at all, because she lives states away... but the most freaky thing is that we're going to that state this summer break, very close to her area..

So, what if, when I meet her, I /do/ like her? My parents know that we'll be meeting, and they don't have any negative feelings about it. What should I do, try to let her know and then maybe during or after college make a move?

First off you are 14 she is 17 age difference its like saying a 14 year old going out with a 11 year old! no offence! But she lives in different states YOU MET HER ON THE INTERNET! she could be 50 for all you know! she could be sending you pictures of other kids in her state or her younger you never know people who do this get hurt (most times) Make a move when you can do what you want i am just saying about people who meet on the internet.....hope helped and good luck big time

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I was talking to my boyfriend and he got a boner. I happened to glance at it and he noticed me looking and got real embarrassed. I can understand why he'd be embarrassed but now he's scared to talk to me anymore. I don't think it's gross or weird. It's natural and I wish he could see that I don't care. He doesn't have to feel ashamed or anything around me. He makes me horny too. TMI? Sorry!

Okay well tell him how you feel make shure its not online or maybe on the phone because you could be talking to someone else and you dont want that to happen at all do you? I mean you are boyfriend girlfriend so i don't understand why he would care about you looking at his (you know what)!!! He just probley dose not feel as if he did not like how you did it! so talk mabe things might work out after all you are still going out!

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Last night I was over at some friends house and I was the only girl and there was three boys (I'm 19) and we were drinking and they must have got drunk becasue they grabbed me and flung me onto the bed and started having sex and I didn't want to! Now this morning I won't stop bleeding! PLEASE HELP...oh my god I don't want this to happen to me I'M A GOOD GIRL!

okay well see a doctor, tell your parents the TRUTH! if they trust you they mgiht belive you! You got raped and thats not good! So its not your fault so dont panic. If you do get a child and you dont want one put it up for adoption!

..hope i helped and good luck..
~sunny411~

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Is it legal to have a tag cover (the tag on the back of the car) that covers up the county name?
I live in georgia by the way.

yes, it is. if u were in the situcation good luck geting out of it!

hope i helped!,
sunny411

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What are solar nails?

they are fake nails! my sister has them they are really cool! hope i helped...

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I just found out my boyfriend is a bisexual...i don't know what to do, it freaks me out

Lucy

Talk to him tell him how you feel..
good luck..
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while and we really want to have sex like early this month but I always get my period in this beginning of the month and we both don’t want to wait. Can you have sex on your period..have any of you ever done that before. Is it safe?I rate 5’s.

Well itz not safe unless you want a baby?


hope i helped...
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i have three rabbits but one of them seems to of lost all his body fat this winter has anyone else experineced this????? he is eating fine he is his normal self

It might mean that they are prengit. and will havee cute bunnies! Bring him to the vet it could help!

hope i helped,
::sunny411:: good luck

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does anyone know any good babysitting slogens that i can put on some handouts that i'm making?

thanks

try like
ME=Your kid
Your kid=Me
i'll be here for only (name of days) for only (amount of mouney) anytime!

hope o helped good luck,
sunny411

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ive had aboyfriend for 17 years and i think hes is going to dump me tonight or he might keep me should i be nervouse

well...you dont HAVE to be nervouse its a feeling and if you have been together for 17 years. then it could be possible he could break up the only reason is becasue people want to see other people like boys or girls....If he dose you could still be really close as beatfriends....But maybe he could not if he loves you alot 2 maybe he will not. just act like nothing is going to happen. Yes everything happends for a reason you may nevor know why...but inside you still might have that loveing inside of you if he breaks up with you keep it there reambering of him! :) GOOD luck...

sunny411

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I thought i was over this kid that i liked for a while (we were close and dated a couple of times) but then he started to get over me to but i started gettin jealouse because he was getting over me...hes still not completly over me (I think)but im still jealouse...i dont think im over him what should i do?

Well if you are friends just ask him out again....Because if he really likes you and you really like him then thats good. but if he says no then understand that and be really good friedns maybe few months or so you could even be bak together just understand some people always want outher girls/boys insted of the same one all the time you need to find other people and its something that might stay there for u to like him and it might not go away but thats a feeling and you can not stop that....good luck hope we helped.

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My Friend is going to have sex with a boy this febuary vacation and i want to do it too. but the boy that i want to do it with is my friends X but she is moving do you think i should do it or do you think i should wait until she moves so she wont get mad at me?
Please Help Me.
x o Me o x
Gender- female

She is your friend and its not right to just have sex with someone when it is your friends X she could find out! And plus all becasue of one perosn might do dose not mean like ur uncool to do it. You are stil the same person. And also you do not want to get prendict. well its up to you i dont know ur age but still. Well good luck hope we helped!

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In my school should I do lacrosse or track? I like them both but I'm not sure which to try out for. Can someone give me their opionon? Please don't say one is better than the other give me reasons why. Thank you!

i play lacrosse and it is fun my cousin dose lax lacrosse and field hockey and basketball so if you like them both then play both! Its ur opioun so do both u like them both! goodluck

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