Hello my name is Sarah and my friends always tell me i give good advice so i figured i would give this a try. i hope i can help some people but if you dont like my advice i am sorry but i will try to help the best i can. =]
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ur a sissy and wont ever shave under ur belt! HAHAHA! exery1 is gonna make fun of u (link)
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haha you are extremely immature and gross because you are interested if girls shave "under their belt" and i dont even know you.
morons these days.
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so im planning a sweet 16 and i made a guest list and came up with 66 people so far. This was without crossing off the "questionables." what i mean by that is those people who you dont really talk to..but you dont hate either..and the couple of people who had a sweet 1 in september but didnt invite you..and now it seems we are a little more friendly. Hope i didnt confuse you guys..any tips on what to base who you invite on? anyone ever been in my place before? how did you decide who to cross off? i dont usually talk to the "gangsta" group..but i figure inviting them would spice my party up..is this the wrong idea? i need help lol so dont be afraid to critisize
5's for everyone who isnt obnoxious (link)
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well i dont know if you just have alot of close friends or are really social. personally i would invite pretty much only my close friends so it didnt get crazy but that might just be my personality....just make sure you dont invite people you dont like/dont trust! =]
i hope you have an awesome party!!
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ok my sister's 16 birthday is coming up! i want to get her something special beacuse ...u know its her 16! but i dont no wut to get her!
any suggestions!
i rate high!
thanks! (link)
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well how old are you? because if you are younger and dont have alot of money here are my suggestions:
scrapbook with pictures of you and her or her and her friends
*(if she gets a car) accesories for the car
a necklace or bracelet
or if she likes any sports something that has to do with that sport
a cute stuffed animal
a picture of you and her with a personalized frame
or you could just talk to your parents and see what they think but i hope i helped.
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hey i asked earlier about possible duets for dating couples for the talent show..well today everyone was like saying my boyfriend is gay because hes a good singer, and they were like, guys dont sing. only a couple people said it though. and today we went and watched the seventh grade talent show and i sat next to him and all the little seventh graders were saying it to.. well some of them. it's getting really annoying, what should i do? i mean, im not gonna break up with him because i love him but i just wanna make them stop. (link)
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i hate to say it but all you can really do is ignore them or tell them to shut up.
if it helps, i think it makes a guy more attractive if he can sing =).
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hey im doing this concert thing at school as like a treat for everyon for raising over 10000 dollars from the fundraiser.. does anyone know any good duets for boyfriends and girlfriends?? ((im doing 2 duets with my boyfriend))
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Umm that jessica simpson song "im gonna love you forever"?
or oldies like "i've got you babe"
"ain't no mountain high enough"
or theres an old mariah carey song i think called heaven?...thats sad though....
those were the first that came to mind. i hope it helped.
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I recently lost a lot of weight, and am underweight. I was wondering, once I get back to my normal weight and start eating regularly, am I going to gain weight as quickly as I am now? I just gained 5 lbs in a week, and am kind of worried.. (link)
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it depends how you lost the weight. if you sort of starved yourself and then started eating regularly the weight comes back very fast at first. once you get back to a normal weight and normal diet and exercise you will most likely start to gain weight more regularly. if this is not the case i am sorry and feel free to IM me.
i hope this helped =]
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I have this kissing problem. I have this thing where when a guy tries to kiss me, no matter how much I want to kiss him, I always turn away. I used to not be like this. I had this one boyfriend that I made out with all the time. And one boyfriend I only kissed once. And that was a couple years ago. Ever since then I always turn away when a guy tries to kiss me, and I don't understand why. I want to kiss my boyfriend I currently have, but everytime he tries I do the same old thing. I turn away. Does anyone have any ideas on why I keep doing this even though I want to kiss the guy? I've been dating my boyfriend for over 2 months and we still haven't kissed and we are a pretty serious couple. Not one of those I see you at school things. Thanks. Good advice, good rating. (link)
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Well if you arent comfortable kissing him go with your instincts. but if you really wanna kiss him dont wait for HIM to "make the move" (lol i know that sounds cheesy...), you should just kiss him....
most likely it will work itself out but i hope i helped =]
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Hi right well i went out with my two best friends today called k and m we went to a theme park! and some of the rides were two person seats! m always wanted to go with k she never seems to want to be with me on anything and im confused! my friends mean everything to me and i dont want to have a big argument! how do i sort this problem out becauses it kind of feels like she likes k more even though ive been best friend with them both same amount of time and i like them both the same!
please help rate high! sorry its a bit long (link)
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if she is one of your best friends she probably didnt realize it would hurt your feelings this much. if you are really worried try to be honest and say something like "maybe it's just me but i noticed when we were at the theme park you were always sitting with k more..." try to talk to her alone though so it wont be like "2 on 1".
i hope it works out.
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im 23 and have had pretty bad teeth for a while . pretty large gap aand they stick out, apart from that I am really happy with my looks, but it is getting worse and worse as the days go by , not smling etc , should I confront my fear at 23??? what other options do I have? (link)
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if you dont want braces you could try invisaline? i dont know if they really work but i see them on TV and my friend almost got them but they cost alot. but so dont braces =\
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Hey! I know, I ask a TUN of questions about tracK!
but, I have a meet on monday! (Im asking this on Saturday Morning) and I have HORRIBLE pains in my knees and ankels when i run, and after i run i have the pains in my ankels. it always feels like my i am going to sprain my ankel!
I have pratice in about an hour!
so, i need some help! what should i do to make myself go faster, despite the pains.
I know how to at the meet because i only have to do it one time, but at pratice wtih the continous working, what should I do??
and any ways to go faster, and im in the 4X1 relay! anyone have sugestions for that either?
Also- I know what the pains are coming from-its the track.
:/
sorry its so long, but i only have a little over one hour before i have to leave for pratice!
Thanks In Advance!
-*KelC*- (link)
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im gonna try to keep this simple:
dont push yourself until the pains go away. i dont do track but i play soccer and softball and i sprained my ankle and i kept playing and i made it worse. go slow until the pains go away.
hope i helped
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soccer is coming up soon.... i need to get in shape... really bad. whenever i run now i feel i get out of breath a lot easier. and i think my leg muscles decreased, i lost a lot of weight. what can i do do get in shape, and increase my muscles (mainly leg muscles.. although arm muscles would help for my throw-ins)?
thanks.. (link)
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if this who i think this is......:
haha i am SO OUT OF SHAPE. you should play on B team with me! ;)....
lol but if that doesnt make sense and this isnt who i think this is than:
just try to run everyday. even if its just around the block. and do the "6 inches" or whatever its called when you lie down and lift your legs about 6 inches of the ground. it kills but it works.
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well its kinda a 2 part question.
Well my aunts getting married, and im in her wedding. me and my other aunt HATE the dresses ALOT. we dont want to wear them at all. what should we do?
And i want to look good in the dress if i have to wear it, and im thinking about tanning and going on a diet of just water and like salad and fruit... but the thing is i dont eat alot. the only meal i eat is lunch and im never hungry. i think its because i dont exercise enough.. even though i play alot of sports and im pretty active.. i dont know what the problem is. (link)
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your problem may be this: not eating makes you gain weight. the reason for this is because it slows down your metabolism. eat THREE squares meals EVERYDAY AND EXERCISE....not to be harsh but to put it simply a diet of just water salad and fruit is in one word stupid because you dont get any energy....
in not sure how dark your skin is but tanning isnt a very good idea either. if you mean going to a tanning bed im pretty sure the radiation is horrible....
and i dont know you but think of when you are 50 years old...do you want to look at wedding pictures and see yourself wearing a dress or do you not care? plus its not your wedding...so when you do get married YOU can decide what you want.
sorry if you dont like my advice or if you are forced to wear a dress you dont want to..
but remember just eating water, salad and fruit is BAD for you...
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k, i recently had sex with my ex bf.. and it was for 2 mins and nothing happened. i haven't gotten my period yet - it was suppsoed to come on tuesday, but i haven't gotten it yet. although, i have been very stressed lately (breakup with my boyfriend, dad lost a job, friend almost commited suicide, etc) and i am also very underweight for being my height. could those be reasons for missing my period or could i be pg? please write back! (link)
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i think you should take the pregnancy test just to be safe. but because you are stressed and underweight that might be it to. but just in case.
hope everything works out okay for you
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Ok heres the problem, i LOVE to sing, i can sing very well too. The problem is i can't preform in front of people! I am way to nervous. I can't even sing infront of my family. Its just to nerve -racking. My family says i should go out for singing lessons because sometimes they hear me but im to nervous to go out. When i get older i really wanna try out for american idol, ya it sounds stupid but i do. Its just im to nervous in front of people! Does anyone have any tips to get un-nervous, or any advice for me to go out?
- Shy Singer - (link)
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do you have a chorus at your school? try to join so you dont have to sing alone. or if you are religious does your church have a choir? i think you should take voice lessons though. i want them SO BAD but they are expensive and i need transportation. but the ability to sing well is a gift. and people are always interested if you tell them you like to sing. so maybe try singing alone and in front of your best friend or even in front of a mirror. hope your nervous-ness goes away =]
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there are these girls..Paty and jessica. okay well paty and jessica ALWAYS get mad at me for no reason. Dude, and im on these girls basketball team and I fouled one time and i said.."oh i dont rlly care." you no just because it was my first one. and paty goes to me "WELL WHAT THE FREAK...YOU SHOULD CARE." and she wouldnt pass me the ball at all. But this one time at school, i didnt get such a good grade on my socical studies test...(if was a D) & the est was on the whole book *well the stuff we covered* and Jessica comes up to me and goes " (my name) wat did you get? & paty butts in and goes I got an A+ and Jessica goes Me to"...and then they ask me again and i said "no" and then when our teacher wasnt looking they grab my paper and started making fun of me. Please helped
SOrry its so long BUT PLEASE HELP ME *
Sincerly,
crushed/MAD
Ps: there is a ton of more stuff that they have done to make my life miserable (link)
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WHAT LOSERS!! they need to get a life.i bet they think they are very cool but really if they are so cool why do they spend so much time bugging you?? stay far away from them. tell your friends about them if you need to vent. if you dont have any good friends and you REALLY want someone to talk to you can IM me at: rem3mberXforev3r...
i hope these 2 idiots leave you alone. you dont deserve to be picked on.
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Okay, well I am in 6th grade. Me and my best friend have been soo close through elementary school and are families are so close and we even own a beach house togehter. Well, see Through out this month we have started to grow apart. She is trying to be like her older sister (preppiesh) and like that but before she started wanting to be like her older sister she hated the way preps were and that they were retarted and stuff. Well, now she has become a prep and is being someone she isn't. She used to hate this one prep and now she is like trying to be her closet friend. I hate the way she is being. I am hopeing it is just a phase but if it isn't I think we will be spilt up and stuff. I wish I could tell her this but since we are growing apart I don't know what to do. I used do everything to be her best friend because she wanted to end the friendship but now it's different I don't know if I would really care to not be her best friend. I have a boyfriend and since this one night I haven't told her really much about him. I don't know why I want to but then there is something stopping me. I need help. She thinks I don't trust her anymore but I don't know if that is true or not?? Please help! (link)
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okay first off i dont like labels like "prep, punk, goth, nerd" but i want to help you cause i went through something semi like this. friends grow apart. its a huge part of life. you dont have to decide right away if you want to still be her friend or not. but the way you put it, it sounds like she has changed and it is getting harder for you to get along. do you have any other close friends you can talk to about this?...if in the end you decide you will be friends thats great but if not try not to end it on a sour note. let her know that if she needs you you will be there for her. but ultimately this is your decision
i hope i helped and please rate. thank you
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Hey I was just wandering what you thought about this one. Sorry it might be kinda long but I really need your advice.
-Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 weeks exactly today. He is like really stupid and kinda weird so I dont know what I want to do. Half of me wants to dump him and the other half doesn't. I know that he really really likes me and that if I break up with him he might even cry. Today on our field trip some of his friends were like joking around and told me that he dumped me (and I knew he didnt). He was like what?!? I would never dump her. And yesterday he bought me this really cute stuffed animal (dolphin) because he knows that I love dolphins.
-Please someone help me I really need it!! (link)
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if only half of you likes him i think you should dump him. in the long run i think it will work out one way or another....
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ADD ME TO YOUR FAVORITE COLUMNISTS SARAH!!!! You haven't added me ='(.. (link)
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i thought i did....this is mel right?
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HI SARAH! Was it you who said "how did you know it was me?". If it was A) I know you too well =P B) I KNOW HOW YOU TYPE! LOL
PEOPLE SUCK!!!! ERR I HATE THE PEOPLE AT SCHOOL SO MUCH.. (link)
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lo yeah that was me =]
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there are some songs i want on a cd but it's only about 5 songs so i need more so i don't waste a cd..what songs should i put..i like pop...some rap..and r&b...it doesn't have to be a new song.. (link)
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well i like rock/pop so i hope you like these if not sorry =\:
jet: look what you've done
the killers: mr. brightside
kelly clarkson: since U been gone
crossfade: cold
greenday: boulevard or broken dreams
hope you like those =]
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