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Hi, this is Kate and Kayla.This column is here to help you with your boy,girl, and anything else problems. Get advice from teens like you that have been there. We are pretty good at giving advice! Hope we helped!
XOXO
--always smile...
even if it's a sad smile
cuz wats even sadder
than a sad smile is
not smilin at all :)
Part of bein a champ is actin like a champ You have to learn how to win and not run away when u lose
I'm twisted cuz one side of me is tellin me to move on on the other side I wanna break down and cry!
Crushes only crush you,
Falling only hurts you,
Hearts will only break you,
If there is no love to save you.
Many people will walk in
and out of your life,
but only true friends will leave
footprints in your heart.
Love is strong yet delicate.
It can be broken.
To truly love is to understand this.
To be in love is to respect this.
There's always that one person who will always have your heart.
advice
soccer is coming up soon.... i need to get in shape... really bad. whenever i run now i feel i get out of breath a lot easier. and i think my leg muscles decreased, i lost a lot of weight. what can i do do get in shape, and increase my muscles (mainly leg muscles.. although arm muscles would help for my throw-ins)?
thanks..
WEll, try running a little bit every day, at first slow, but then everyday go a little faster. Just practice a little everyday, it helps
Everytime i leave my 1 year old puppy alone, like when i take my brother to work in the mornings, and there is nobody up to watch him, he always gets into things. Like this morning, he chewed my clock, and my medicine *was way out of reach* was in the floor chewed on. Thankfully he didnt get any of it though. My question is, 1. how can i stop him from chewing on things that he is not suppost to, and 2. is there other way other than locking him up in his carrier?
Well,I have a 2 year old husky and he does the same thing. To get the dog tostop when you get home and find something ripped,eaten, etc. then Show it to the dog and then put him in his crate, carrier, etc. That is what i do with my dog and he is making great progress. As for the carrier, until he stops doing thta there is basicallly no other place toput him.Tell me how it works out!
~oxkatekaylaxo
my cat constantly follows me and everytime i sit down she comes to sit on top of me.. i will get up andmove somewhere else but she still sits on me.. i push her away but 2 minutes later she comes up again.. i know its cute and everything but it just really annoys me sometimes.. does anyone elses cats do this.. how do you get them to stop
Wow-ur cat must really love you. The cat probably thinks of you as its mother and follows you like they always show ducklings doing. Whenever the cat follows you or gets on the couch beside you, put it down on the floor, tap its nose and say firmly, NO,BAD. Eventually the cat should realize that it should not follow you all the time. Tell me how it turns out!
~oxkatekaylaxo
Ok. My cat Zoey will not stop pooping on the floor! She has a litter box and all she does is poop on the floor right next to it. She's not a baby, shes almost 4 yrs. old and she's always used the litter box fine, just recently she has started doing this, her litter box is clean because i clean it at least once every two days and i dont know what to do with her anymore, she has done this at least 10 times. I know that like putting their nose in it and saying no works on dogs but does it work od cats? Please if anyone knows anything i can do then tell me! Thanks in advance!
Your cat may be getting sick, my old cat was doing the same thing, so we took it to the vet. They said it was sick but i can't remeber what the sickness was. WE had to put it to sleep. I would see a vet soon so they can help it.
~oxkatekaylaxo
We recentley got rid of my beloved pet, Mac. He was a yellow lab, 6months old and like 154 pounds. i loved hime so much and whenever i think about him or ee pics of him i start to cry. How can i get over this?
That's so ironic, because i am going through the same thing! We got rid of my cat that i have had since i was three!!! It was ssoooo sad. I still think about her, but i tell myself that she is happier where she isnow then when she was here(whether that may be true or not) I completely can relate. Just give yourself time to heal- it won't happen overnight. Write me back and we can grieve together :(
~oxkatekaylaxo
My mother bought me a beta fish (a Japanese fighting fish) and I have no idea how to take care of it. I got a book on how to take care of it, but you have to decode it (meaning I don't understand a word of it) The local veterenarians don't really know how to take care of these fish because not alot of their clients have fighting fishes. Does anyone on Advicenators know ANYTHING about these fishes? Do you know any sites where I can find information?
WEll it is very simple to take care of a beta fish. Go tou your local pet store and buy some bet fish food. Feed the fish 2-3 pellets every other day. Every week refill you fish bowl with water but never use tap water, it could kill it. Use bottle water (buy a gallon of poland springs water, etc.) Every month, clean the tank entirely! Also make sure you don't put your fish in a dark area. They like sunlight.
~oxkatekaylaxo
Me and my brother both bought Betta Splendens. (Better known as-Siamese Fighting Fish) We wanted to know how much to feed them we bought tiny pellets that they have at the pet store. We both have males so they cannot be together. How much do we feed them a day? How much do we change their water and any other basics? Thanks.
well, you should feed each fish around 2-3 pellets every other day. You should refill the tank every week but clean it entirely every month
I hope i helped
~oxkatekaylaxo
If there are any cat experts out there, I need your help! My cat has constantly been throwing up her food twice a day for almost a week! (She's not bulimic!LOL)What's wrong??? I rate 5's!
I am not totally sure what is wrong, but it might be the food you are feeding it. It could be making the cat sick. Try buying a different type of food. My cats eat Fancy Feast and are fine with it. If this still doesn't work then i would reccomend seeing a vet.
~oxkatekaylaxo
Every gel I use for my hair, makes my hair greyish and flakey. I have used numerous types and its always the same.
Is it my hair?
If not, what gel would *you* reccomend?
Thanks (any advice appreciated)
Try using spray gel. Like Herbal Escence or Suave. Also you might be using too much gel which makes your hair turn white and flaky. Just go to CVS or Walgreens and buy a spray gel to see how it works...I hope I helped
I think I am pregnant what do I do what are the other side effects beside a missed peiord please help me out
Some of the other side effects include eating more than the normal amount, going to the bathroom alot and, like you said, missing preiods. Check using one of those pregnancy tests- it's better to know in advance!
~oxkatekaylaxo
My cat has no cat fod and shes really really hungry..i loooked for some tuna at least for her but no, and teh pet store is closed, and i found some sardines..can i give my cat some sardines?? there was sardines in mustard, tomato sause, and soybean oil, should i give her the one in soybean oil or will it make her sick?? i need an answer quick cuz she needs her dinner!! thanks!
Well, i wouldn't give the cat the sardines. Like milk, it is a myth that this stuff is good for your cat. If you have absolutely no food, give them white chicken and the juice of the tuna to the cat. Hope it helps!
~oxkatekaylaxo
ok, in the sims 2 university it shows on the box adn stuff that theres a "home plastic surgery kit", but i cant find it ANYWHERE. ive looked through everything... anybody know where it is? thanks
I am not quite sure, but try google. I have the SIms expansion, and I found alot of stuff like that on google. Tell me what you find!
~oxkatekaylaxo
there is this guy and i have liked him for 2 years now. We went out last summer but the day before school started back we broke up. My dad found out some stuff we did and talked to josh and told him not to talk to me ever again. josh has a girlfriend now but i still want him so bad. My dad told me the other day i could talk to josh again. And i really want to but we havent talked in so long and i dont know what to say. I dont even know if he wants to talk to me anymore. Any ideas on what to do? i'll rate high for answers!!!
Try calling Josh and telling him how you feel. you never know, he may feel the same way for you. Even if he doesn't break it off with his g/f, you two could still become good freidns, so at least you will get to see him. Hope i helped!!!
~oxkatekaylaxo
What is a "body wave" in your hair? Is this a perm or is there a way you can get this by using styling products or whatever?
Well, a body wave is a type of perm. I have a natural body wave but to bring it out i use G2B Curled up. Try that. I have a friend that is a hair stylist and I will have her give you advice on this one. Hope I helped!
~oxkatekaylaxo
Ok, I've been seeing this guy for almost 4 years (I know, quite a long time!) I met him at uni and now I am in my final year at uni and he is working miles away. We have never been apart like this before as we were always together at uni.
I have mixed feelings about how much longer I want the relationship to go on for. Whenever we speak on the phone he says something stupid or puts me in a bad mood and makes me unhappy.
I feel I want some time to be young free and single especially as I have been witht the same guy for such a long time. Surely these signs mean it won't last??
Also, I went for dinner with some friends of my flatmate and I met this guy who I found really attractive.
I would never ever cheat on my boyfriend but why am I thinking of this other guy all the time when I should be thinking about my boyfriend?
We all went out last night to a club and he was there. He walked me home. Nothing happened but it was so nice to have some attention from someone else and for some reason he made me feel more wanted than my boyfriend does.
Help!! I am so frustrated I don't know what to do! Even if anything did happen, this guy goes back to Australia at the end of May.
Thank you so much if u do reply - i really appreciate it and will give you all 5's! x
Tell your boyfriend that you think the two of you should take a break. If you find that you are happeir without him, then there you go. Have fun with this new guy until may. You never know, you may find a way to stay together, and even if you don't you can still write each other and stay good friends. Sounds like you are too good for your other boyfriend anyways.
Hope i helped!!!
~oxkatekaylaxo
My life is getting increasingly worse the past few weeks. There's people in my life who know me like the back of their hand and understand me, and others that don't. Sometimes I get so frustrated I can't get my point out. It's in my head, obviously, but I can't seem to tell the other person what's on my mind. It frustrates me because now it seems I have a hard time expressing myself. I want to tell people how I feel!
Try making sense of things in your mind before telling others how you feel. Put your feelings on to paper if you can't say them out loud. Keeping a daily journal might help. Hopefully that way it becomes easier to get your feeling out. Hope it helps!
~oxkatekaylaxo
I have no clue what to get my boyfriend for his birthday, he likes sports, and xbox games, I dont know if he would like jewelry. Can anyone please help me?
Gte him tickets to a game or something you KNOW he would like. Go with your instinct on this one-you know him and no matter what you get him, he should still love it because you gave it to him.
Hey, i play for an AAU basketball team and im in charge of making the teams warm up cd and i have no clue what to put on it! If anyone has any ideas of good songs to put on the cd plz let me no! Were all into the whole hip hop thing, and were all over 17, cussing is not a problem. Thanks much :)
I would put exciting, fast paced songs on it, like pump up the jam or something. Something that will get the team rearing and ready for the game. Tell me how the cd turns out!
~oxkatekaylaxo
Hi my name is aaron. i used to have alot of friends most were girls and lots of girlfriends. But now none of them relly pay attention to me do any girls know what i can do to get them to like me...i have hered about ignoring them
Girls are attracted to guys in many ways(trust me, i know) Try being very friendly. Once you are good friends with a girl, you have a greater chance of them liking you. Talk to them about common interests, like sports. Don't ignore a girl-it makes them think that you are rude. But don't play EASY to get-that will turn them off. You know a girl is flirting with you when
-They laugh at all your jokes(even the ones that aren't funny
-they always smile, not just to be friendly
-They are shy or joking around you
~oxkatekaylaxo
I go to a drama school every week, once a week, and I have lots of friends there, both boys and girls. Some of my best friends are a boy called *Sam* and a girl called *Lisa*. When it was Lisa's birthday, we all went to the cinema. Sam came too. When Sam left later, we all agreed that it was obvious he fancied Lisa. I was a little disapointed as I used like Sam, and I suppose I still like him a little. The next week, somebody brought in a box of chocolates for Lisa and she let us all dip in. When I reached over, she gave me a look that told me to 'get lost'. But that next second, Sam reached over and took about 3 chocolates. When I asked could I have one, Lisa said no. Then a few weeks later at the performance, backstage we had a real argument in which she said I liked another boy at drama. I denied it as I don't like him. I told Lisa that 'you could talk - you think the world revolves around Sam!' and she went and told everyone to get them on her side. I can say something the exact as what she says, but I'm the one who gets in trouble for it!! I know two wrongs don't make a right, but you know how it goes. We are friends again now, but I'm not sure if we were as good with each other as we were. 14/f.
Well, your friend is very possesive when it comes to guys. If she and Sam like each other, don't hold them back. Find someone who likes you too, and then you two could double date! You are probably not as good of friends as before, but try to build a stronger relationship with her. It was wrong of her to ask others to take sides(i would have picked yours) but teens can be cruel. Tell me what happens!
~oxkatekaylaxo