there is this guy and i have liked him for 2 years now. We went out last summer but the day before school started back we broke up. My dad found out some stuff we did and talked to josh and told him not to talk to me ever again. josh has a girlfriend now but i still want him so bad. My dad told me the other day i could talk to josh again. And i really want to but we havent talked in so long and i dont know what to say. I dont even know if he wants to talk to me anymore. Any ideas on what to do? i'll rate high for answers!!!
o0xbrianna answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 2:56 pm: Hey, you should start talking to him casually about like the good times you had together. Bring the remember when's up. Ask him if you still want to be atleast friends since he has a girlfriend. You can tell him you like him if you want, I wouldn't the first time you are talking to him again though!
xoxhayley answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 11:02 am: Hey babe ! well its kinda funny because this same exact thing happened to me! I went out with my ex over the summer and when school started we broke up. (he was my first love) and yeah my dad also found stuff out we did (bad things) lol and so i never got to talk to him again. Now he has a girlfriend too. So eventaully i had to move on and i did and now i have this amazing guy who i love and its great. So to let you know, if you think theres no1 else out there, its just a stage every1 goes through, BELEIVE ME. i thought i was going to die lol. But anyways, If Josh is worth it, then you need to make a move! don't be afraid to call him. Never by shy for love, if you are then you could wake up the next day and he could have another girlfriend or somthing could change, so just tell him how you feel. I agree you mite think it could be weird, i mean at first when he see's your calling him he mite be like 'ummm..' but who knows?- maybe when your dad told him not to talk to you anymore, he was so sad and he could still have feelings for you that didn't go away... So i would defintily do somthing if you still really like him. You'll always want to talk to him again right? so just do it. And when you do, explain that maybe its weird that your calling him again, but you just wanted to for some reason, and maybe you can hangout with him again and he could come back to you since its been a while without you. So good luck, hope i helped [ xoxhayley's advice column | Ask xoxhayley A Question ]
oxKateKaylaxo answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 9:52 am: Try calling Josh and telling him how you feel. you never know, he may feel the same way for you. Even if he doesn't break it off with his g/f, you two could still become good freidns, so at least you will get to see him. Hope i helped!!!
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yesiliketobeme answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 9:00 am: just talk to him. if he tells you he doesnt want to even be friends atleast you tried. he has a g/f now so i doubt you guys will be anything more then friends. so move on and forget him theres plenty other guys out there.
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lilangelshan08 answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 7:56 am: if you want to talk to him then what's stopping you? ask him if he wouldn't mind being friends with you and if he doesn't want to than that's that, if he does then congrats to you [ lilangelshan08's advice column | Ask lilangelshan08 A Question ]
sadf16 answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 1:11 am: Try to find out where he is or where he usually goes and go there but don't let it appear as if you intentionally went there for him. Make it look like its a coincidence and when you see him then say hi to him and ask do you go here too? like that and then you will have a chance to talk to him again. [ sadf16's advice column | Ask sadf16 A Question ]
TiCkLeD_pInK540 answered Monday April 18 2005, 11:53 pm: if he has instant messenger, just pop up and talk to him and be like "hey, hows it goin? i haven't talked to you in a while and i just wanted to see how ur doin." u kno, friendly stuff. then after like a week or so of this, casually ask him to a movie with a bunch of people. he'll feel comfortable and so will you. if he doesn't have instant messenger, maybe e-mail or letter, but meeting and talking in real life is always good too. Good Luck
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Carly [ TiCkLeD_pInK540's advice column | Ask TiCkLeD_pInK540 A Question ]
MeLi<3 answered Monday April 18 2005, 11:43 pm: Well maybe what you should do is just get the urge to go up to him and start saying like hey haven't talked to you in a while.. and try to catch up on things even though josh has a girlfriend [ MeLi<3's advice column | Ask MeLi<3 A Question ]
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