Q: I just cheat on my boyfriend. Not like sex or anything, i'm only 14. I kissed someone else today. We both went to hang out, knowing we liked each other, and ended up making out. I feel REALLY bad though. I mean, he's single so he doesn't care, but he kept saying "it isn't cheating since you don't even like your boyfriend". which is true, but my boyfriend is like in LOVE with me and I just can't bring myself to dump him. I don't know...I just feel really bad. And I'm always getting on to my best friend because she cheats on like all of her boyfriends. I feel like such a hippocrit...I don't know what to do. Help?

Q: (16/m)
What do girls like to get as a gift?
(only girls answer!!!!!)

Q: I have the coolest English teacher ever, he's so funny, and doesn't give a shit as long as we pay attention and do the work (like we can drink or listen to music in class)
Today was the last lesson of English(tomorrow is the last day of school) and I'm really gonna miss him over the summer (I have him next year as well)
:\ Is that rally fucked up?
I get along with him well, and I donno...I just miss him? :\

Is there anything wrong with me?

Q: Yesterday my two dogs got in a big fight in the backyard when I wasn't home. one is pit-bull cross with rhodesian ridgeback, the other pit and border collie cross. The neighbor told me that they fought for 30 minutes and my dog, (the ridgeback) had the other by the neck for a long time. the border collie cross is very injured today, and the other has minor injuries. There was another time about 4 months ago when it went the other way around and the border collie tore a chunk of ear off my other dog. Normally, they get along great, sleep together, play, swim together. they are very nice to humans, and obedient. My ridgeback did snap at my son once however (now both dogs are only allowed in the house at night and when my son naps). i just don't know if this type of behavior is normal. Really, both dogs are really sweet, even if it does not seem that way from what I write. so my questions are: is this behavior normal? and should i keep them away from the cats even though so far they have been getting along with them? (minus a few growls from the ridgeback, although that one seems to like the cats the most)

Q: Okay so I have this rockin room! PURPLE everywhere I'm 13. It's not a little girly purple it's a little dard ALMOST gothic but not. I have this purple furry bed spread and chair, my bathrooms walls are purple 2 along with shower curtain towls & rug. IT"S like SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO cool. But thing is i just re did it for my 13th b-day.
But I don't it's everything I ever wanted but I just wish it was more...??? me?? Does that make sense. It's like I'm bored when i'm in there sometimes. keep in mind i'm thirteen kay! so idk Is there something I can do to make this room.... ME? ALso is there something "productive" I can do in my spare time this summer in my room?

Q: my boyfriend is acting weird. he never lets go of things when i say nevermind. it's like he's constantly insecure. every time i'm trying to go to the bathroom.. he tries to come in too. he knows that I have PMDD [pms issues] and he constantly gets in my face [literally] and pokes me over and over.. THEN he says I'm "mean" and "moody" when he irritates me! What should I do? He seriously pisses me off sometimes but I have no idea if I'm overreacting !

Q: right so i am from a pretty conservative country... but i am quite exposed to western and eastern thought and ideology so i understand both ways and my country's own.... somehow it has fused into something new and something that makes -at least to me- alot more sense than both viewed separately (...united we stand...?) anyway....i feel like i am too conservative to one side (owing to how i am forced to "conduct [my]self") and too liberal on the other... my parents are really super traditional, and my sister is worse, i've tried to let her see who i really am but she refused and made it known that i may be a "bad seed" if thats what you call it.
they do not accept me for me. i've learned to be two people (me and theirs if that makes sense) but i really want to allow for personal changes to happen and develop my own sense of who i am... for instance where i come from it is common to beat down on a person because they are different and thus should not be tolerated...(it reminds me a bit of the history of the catholic church somehow....) if someone made a mistake they are condemned for forever... what i am trying to do is propose and advocate a live-and-let-live kind of lifestyle... you don't agree with someone or you think they are going to regret what they are doing just give advice and let them go....

i mean whats it to you if it doesn't harm you... and if it is guilt that drives them then perhaps by giving advice or warning (without mentally and physically constraining someone) you can get rid of that guilt....i mean i've committed some "mistakes"... and i've been punished consequently... but i never felt that i ever regretted what i have done... if anything i feel happier and stronger and more positive about the world... and in my standards what i've done is not wrong... in theirs -and i respect that- it was... i am expected to marry into this and keep it going... and should i not do so i guarantee that things will escalate to the next step and i will be physically constrained or disciplined until i change my mind... i really really which i can create something new... (i am aiming for the stars here... but a doctrine or constitution...?) that joins some of my country's most beautiful traditions which respects some aspects of humanity and individualism and reform the rest... i really want to make this the core of how people live.... i know these are big dreams but one step at a time.... right?


each time i look at my sister and see how completely opposite (even more than anyone i've ever known including elders) i believe that there is room for change.... how can 2 people with the same gene pool have such different opposing views and attitudes.... i refuse to let such -i think- negative and degrading spirit bring me down....
i am not saying i am the hero of times... and i know i might sound air-headed and naive... but i really believe that it was how they were positioned to see a certain angel of things.....

i've been reading about famous people and their lives and how they made changes... i am currently reading a book on rosa parks..... the one thing though that is bothering me is that they all seem to have family support or some kind of support... i'm all alone in this... and i doubt anyone with the slightest though of agreement will have to courage to voice this with me....

what should i do? how do you convince people who do not believe or understand or consider reason... their soul source of wisdom is beliefs and over time these beliefs are mutating into something that does not make sense..... how do at least just get them to here me out when they think that Socrates is a blasphemous brothel somewhere?? if anything how do i leave this environment? or endure it?? i am really running out of moral...

Q: i have small brown eyes and the eyelids don't show that well because they're thin so you can't see my eyelashes and eye shadow that well. I have a wide nose big lips and chubby cheeks.

any advice on how to make my eyes look bigger, my cheeks look thinner, and my nose to look thinner??

please give me makeup or hair tips on how to accomplish this!! thanks!!

Q: Heres the deal his names sam and i'm head over heels for him! well me and him use to be close friends and we just started to drift apart. Then all of a sudden he starts wanting to sit with me in class and he passes notes to me and he steals my pencil and i try to grab it from him and he grabs my hand trying to hold it so we hold hands like a few times throughout a class. & i'm like oh dear does he like me cuz ii like him alot. so after the weekend monday he acts like nothing happened like we were back to the basics he had his friends and i had mine. i glared at him and he would catch me glareing at me and he'll wave hiiee. but thats it we dont sit beside eachother talk to eachother nothing. whats going on?
is he playing me?
shy?
i want him to talk to me again.
is it cuz on that day most of his friends wern't at school so he wasnt shy to be around me without getting teased?
can someone tell me what to do to get back to that very moment.?

Q: my friends mom is having triple bypass surgery because shes a heavy smoker. my friend is tryin to be there for her but shes already told him that its going to be impossible for her to quit. hes torn apart because shes not even willing to quit even if it means her life. i dont know what to say to make him feel better i dont even know if theres anything i can do to help i just feel so bad cause he cares about her so much and she could careless if she died or even saw him graduate

Q: what is the name of the song that goes seeds become plants boys become men please?...thanks
xx

Q: 13/f
I like my best guyfriend. I think he likes me... What do you think?-- We flirt alot and he always asks my opinions on things. I sit next to him in two classes. He's really nice to me and tells me alot of his secrets. He looks at me often. He has called me hot before. Like all this sounds so great, but for some reason i feel like he doesnt like me. What do you think?????

Q: Does anyone know the names of the employees at "Smooch" (Owned by the Kardashians's)??

Thanks so much!

Q: I'm 17 F and me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years this September. I love him, I really do. But idk how to really say it, but I just want to be a 17 year old and not a married old lady. Thats how I feel sometimes. My boyfriend has been there for me A LOT. I mean, he is great, we have our little fights, but I mean who don't? I NEVER cheated on him, and same for him to me. He's in college, and I'm a junior in hs, but hes home now, and I still have school left for a couple more weeks. So we're together a lot now. Hes not the hottest thing, but I don't care, I love him for how he is to me, and how wonderful he is. I love him, I do, but sometimes I wonder why did I get into a relationship so young like this. We started dating when I was 15, and I'll be 17 in a week. I know he's older and hes ready for this kind of relationship, but I'm not sure if I really am. It's hard, but I don't know what to do. I don't want to think everyday "why am I with him, when I'm not even sure what I really want." And I don't want it to go to the point where I'll cheat on him b/c I'm not sure what I want, and lose him forever. He's said if I would ever break up with him, he won't talk to me again. But how can you really do that to someone you love with all your heart, when all I would be doing is being honest with him. I need help =[

Q: she is 14 and i am a guy and im 13. But iv gone through all puberty so im very mature for my age in how I act and look. we went to the same school but shes out already and comes back for her graduation tomarrow. i love her but i really dono if i like her enough to date her. i go to great skate every friday night and she goes whenever she isnt goin to a party or the mall soo she goes to great skate once every 3 weeks. At great skate everyones grinding flirting or making out. she likes these two guys, last time they were in court and didnt show she looked so hurt.both times before that they came and they were like on her or had her or her on them, in their arms :(. they were always hugging her and her friend and they kept pickin her up, they even signed her and they both gave her their numbers. they were so comfortable always flirting or hugging or talking way to close. when i was with her and i tried doin that stuff to her the first time she pushed me away then the second time she cursed me out, she has sat on my lap tho, shes only hugged me goodbye once. shes not a slut or whore she never even really does that to anyone. shes always with guys but just doesnt usually do that. Shes never had a boyfriend either. me and her always talk over myspace. she has gotten mad at me over the phone but we never even talked in school. Shes into all the gothic things, she likes to dye hair she is going to dye mine with purple streaks over thee summer. Im not sure if I really want that but im going over to her house just me and her and I hope we could flirt and cuddle and everything. what could i do? does she like me, she says ima a jerk? how can i be iv had many girlfriends? what do i do?

Q: sooo how do i get over my ex that i love and went out for 2 years but she stopped loving me and she wants to be friends but i can't do it idk ii am going crazy i miss her all the time and can't stop thinkinh about her idk i am going to flip- out and everyone wants her too

Q: yeah, so all my life i grew up thinking you could get a cold by being cold. but then a few years ago my bio teacher said no, you get colds only from contact with other humans, which is why you seem to get sick more easily in the winter since that's when you're at school and all that. but then my mom firmly believes that it's possible to catch a cold just by getting chilled. soooo wat do u guys think? this is irking me.

Q: Saw these song lyrics on an icon, anyone know what they're from or if they're just a quote? google didn't help.

its time to live until tomorrow's end because we dont need rest we'll sleep when we're dead

Q: Here's the problem:

I am over $5000 in credit card debt. A lot of it is due to the fact that I've had to help my mom on a lot of stuff. I do love her a lot, but it's getting to the point to where I cannot keep doing this. I'm 22 years old and want to live my own life, but I don't make enough money to get my own place right now and even if I was making enough, all my money right now would be going towards the bills. I not only pay my credit card bill, I also pay all the utility bills and the rent for where I live. My mom dosen't work which makes it hard. The one thing I do hate about her is the fact that she smokes cigerattes and a lot of them. I hate buying her cigerattes because a carton is $43 And I have to buy like 2-3 cartons a month. I only bring home about $300 every two weeks from work. I don't know how to tell her about I really don't want to help her on a lot of this stuff without her getting mad. I've thought about moving in with my dad and there, I wouldn't have to worry about any bills except my own. And I would also attempt to accomplish more goals in my life. If I moved out, I wouldn't help mom whatsoever in the bills and then she would be in trouble. What can I do about this issue? I cannot afford to keep having my debt go up and up anymore.

Q: HEY! I need to write funny, one-sentence descriptions about everyone in my family, and I don't know how to do it, I know you can't do it for me - but could you give me some inspirational examples? Like I guess it should be: "James Eriksson - a loveable soccerplayer, who's always doing one million things at once!" .. except, you know, funny. Can anyone help? THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME!!

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