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my friends mom
my friends mom is having triple bypass surgery because shes a heavy smoker. my friend is tryin to be there for her but shes already told him that its going to be impossible for her to quit. hes torn apart because shes not even willing to quit even if it means her life. i dont know what to say to make him feel better i dont even know if theres anything i can do to help i just feel so bad cause he cares about her so much and she could careless if she died or even saw him graduate
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Shes having triple bypass because she
has heart problems. Whatever the reason.
Because of media hype he is concentrating
to much on the possible cause right now.
He needs to be there for his mom. She is
in for a long hospital stay without access
to her smokes. He needs to let her doctor
take care of her quitting and concentrate
on his mom in the here and now. Let the
future take care of itself. He can discuss
it with her doctor after the surgery:)
Right now she is probably nervous and
depressed. Not a good time to badger
her about her habits.
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thats so difficult.
just be there for him. listen when he talks about it and tell him you understand how hard it must be for him.
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Let him know your there for him when ever he needs some one.. Pray for,if your religious, and let him know your going to pray for her.
That's what I do when some thing happens to my friends. It may not work, I'm not sure.. Just let you friend know your there for him.
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