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THIS KID dOes hE lIkE me?
13/f
I like my best guyfriend. I think he likes me... What do you think?-- We flirt alot and he always asks my opinions on things. I sit next to him in two classes. He's really nice to me and tells me alot of his secrets. He looks at me often. He has called me hot before. Like all this sounds so great, but for some reason i feel like he doesnt like me. What do you think?????
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1. He closes the distance
“First and foremost, moving in closer indicates a desire for more intimate contact,” Hartley says. So if a guy you’re talking to at a party inches a little closer as you talk, or your date slides into the same side of the booth as you, you know he wants to get to know you better—and not as a friend.
2. He speaks softly
When a man talks in a quieter voice, it’s an excellent sign, Hartley explains. “He’s indicating that what he’s saying is for your ears only,” he says. “If he’s telling you something private or secret, it’s a good thing—guys don’t do that to women they’re not into.” If you want to let that soft-talker know you feel the same way, respond in kind, which should quickly turn those sparks into an all-out fire. Caveat: If you’re in a loud bar or restaurant, where you have to shout to be heard, you can’t tell anything by his decibel level. So wait until you’re walking or driving home to see whether he’s turned the volume down.
3. He rounds his posture
Hypermasculine body language (think: swaggering walk, standing tall with shoulders back and chin up, etc.) serves to attract women from a distance. But when a guy is talking close-up with a woman he likes, he will soften, or “round” his body language, Hartley notes. If your guy’s squared shoulders cave in when he’s chatting with you, he’s indicating that he feels comfortable and secure in your presence.
4. He talks slowwwly
Like birds in a mating dance, men typically talk more slowly and softly when they are attracted to someone, Hartley explains. Of course, if he knocked back a few gigante lattes on a first date, he may be too wired (and nervous) to sound like Barry White, but give it time: If his speech starts to make you feel sleepy, he’s a goner.
5. He can’t take his eyes off you (in a good way)
So his eyes are locked on yours? As long as it isn’t a psycho stare, but rather a lingering, heavy-lidded, “Wow, you’re amazing” gaze, that guy is digging you big-time, Harley says.
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ok well it really sounds like hes into you sweetie. i had the same thing happen to me. casually say hey do you think we would ever be more than friends? and you think we would work as a couple. its usually a sure fire way to get the truth out in the open
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im definately getting the vibe that he likes you. i think hes hiding it though because he isnt sure how you feel. definately bring it up. just casually ask him who he likes. and definately send him the right signals.
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Well, from the information you gave it's a very good chance but you can't be sure, there are alot of other things that come into play. Like, if he thinks of you as a friend or someone he would like, if he likes someone else also. You can figure this out by asking him if he likes someone, and you can also use your friends and his friends as tools to help you find the answer. But try and be sneaky about it until you are at least 90% sure that he might like you.
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The best way to know is ask... its better to know than to not know at all. there will always be "what if" it can't really hurt to ask.
Maybe bring it up casually when your talking, around that kind of relationship or who likes who kind of subject. Or maybe bring it up as a joke, what would you do if I told you I liked you? It took me 3 years to find out a guy liked me and when I found out it was too late, he was moving far away. Don't be like me and lose out on something that could have happend.
Good luck with this guy! I hoped I helped you some.
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