my name is laura, i`m 16 years old and live in california. i live next door to movie stars and i surf to school every day.
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I know that people say you are too young to be in love. But does that mean I can't tell my boyfriend that I love him?
13/F
Thanks so much !! (link)
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age doesn`t change the way you feel about someone, but age does affect how he might react to you saying "i love you." sure you might feel it but you`re still young, and you have the rest of your life to find a boy that you fall in love with. just have fun while you`re young and don`t make the relationship too serious. just go with the flow and hey, maybe he`ll say it first.
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ok im 15/f. my bf now we have been dating a little over a year, and i love him with all my heart, i would do anythin for him in this world we'll call him FRED.well we broke up for like 2 weeks and i dated a boy (bob)and i broke up with him because i couldnt stop thinking about fred. my dad dont let me see fred or talk to him but now that we are dating again i have been in such a good mood and everything like that. me and bob got along good and were good friends now but the other day he asked me to go to prom with him what should i do??? is that considered cheating if i would go with him or is that wrong or what(going as friends)? (link)
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find out how your boyfriend feels about it. if you truly know in your heart and bob does too, that you guys are just going AS FRIENDS, then its not cheating. but since bob is an ex boyfriend fred could get jealous and if he doesn`t want you to go, i wouldn`t fight it. you made the choice to be with fred for a reason, you don`t wanna mess that up to go to prom with only a friend. especially since prom is more of a couples dance anyways.
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Ok, so I'm 16. My boyfriend is 17. It's getting increasingly harder to be anywhere alone with him without parents getting paranoid and feeling they have to "check on us". We're both responsible people who make responsible decisions and although both sets of parents know that I feel quite sure there's nothing that will make them feel differently...so that's not what I'm asking. I'm beyond trying to change them.
What I want to know is how to get around it...
I just need some sneaky ideas =P (link)
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if you`re allowed to drive with him, tell your parents you`re going to the mall or somewhere you normally go. then maybe go somewhere else, park somewhere or go somewhere romantic. i`m not sure what you want to do but thats the easiest thing.
or when one of you has the house to yourself for a few hours have the other one come over. even if it is only for an hour or 2 some alone time is better than none, but be sure to get out of the house before any parents get home.
i don`t know how rebelious you want to go but you could ditch a day of school or something. a few detentions aren`t gonna hurt anything.
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ok.. i wanna loose wat b4 the summer.. this way i can like look good in a two piece.. all i wanna do is get rid of the stomach... and the thighs.. but rite now all i care about is my stomach.. i weigh around 130 pounds.. and im 13.. but like everyone says im skinny... but like... i mostly weigh 10 - 15 pounds heavier cuz i have muscles... i have a little stomach but i mean its noticable.. how can i decrease it and how much do i have to do of it per day?? oo yea.. this guy has a crush on me.. but he told my friend he wil lask me out wen im skinnier.. and i eard him say it.. so like... i wanna lose the weight... (link)
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first of all, that guy is a jerk for not liking you just the way you are. i wouldn`t waste your time with him.
but the best way to lose stomach weight is running. running will help you lose leg fat, thigh fat, stomach fat, arm fat. it straight up burns fat. and be sure to do as much stomach exercises you can fit in to one day. but only doing crunches won`t get you any skinnier all it does is builds muscle under the fat. so run as often as you can. at LEAST 3 times a week, but the more the better.
and also if you wanna lose weight, eat healthy. don`t diet because its hard to maintain a specific diet, but just eating healthy and daily exercise is the best way to go.
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ok.. me and my mom aren't really close... and like when she tells me stuff like oo i need to buy u a bra or sumtin like oo lets go bra shopping i get like embarrased and she does it like in front of people... so like my friends wouldn't care to come with me cuz they would buy there own.. but i mean iim only 13.. and ive got some boobs.. but im not sure wat size.... but they are like small.. i would be no bigger than a a cup.. .and in bikini size im a medium.. so liek maybe you can tell me by that wat size i am or like wat possible sizes are small.... (link)
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when you go shopping with your mom just try on a few different sizes in the same bra. 32A sounds like a guranteed fit. but if its a little small then 34A. and theres always ladies at the store that will help you find the right one or measure you for size. but don`t sress too much about it, we all go through this at one point or another.
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I have a little sister..and she thinks she's in love. Everytime she gets a new crush, she goes "goo-goo-ga-ga" over him..and then he breaks her heart, and she goes crying to me. She then states how much she loves him even though she only went out with him for a week! She cries and she cries about how much she loves this boy..until she finds another crush another week later! She then states that she is in love with this new boy! She's not just saying it..She actually means it. She really thinks she's in love..and she's only 11!!! It's so frustrating and annoying because when I tell her she's not in love---she gets soo mad. What should I do? This act is getting annoying..she's not in love.
PS she once "loved" a guy she never met over the internet. (link)
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tell her shes only 11 and too young to know what love is. and if she wastes all her "i love yous" on a boy she doesn`t really love then she won`t know when she actually means it.
shes only 11, she doesn`t know any better. and since you`re sisters you`re allowed to be mean to her, because no matter what you guys will always love each other.
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So today I took one of my earrings and started pressing it really hard against my cartilage in hopes of piercing it. (after sterilizing it, of course!) anyway, I chickened out. I want to know how much it hurts after... I want the truth! going to a profesional isn't an option. Any suggestions, comments, tips? thank you. (link)
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i have 12 ear piercings, all done myself and i did my lip myself too.
the trick is, make your ear completely numb with ice and after its completely numb, light a needle (safety pin whatever) on fire so the tip is hot. have the spot marked where you want it done, count to three and do it all at once. if you go slow it hurts more. it doesn`t hurt going through but afterwards it is a little sore. leave the needle or whatever you use in your ear for a few minutes to make sure the hole stays before you put the earring in.
and make sure you have something soft, like a make up pad or something behind your ear for the needle to hit.
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I've liked this guy for awhile. At the beginning of the year I officially met him at a football game through one of my friends. I had known who he was, but not his name or anything. So it turns out he was really cool. I talked to him a little bit and stuff, but I didn't think too much of it at first, and he had dated like two of my friends so it wasn't the best situation. So around December we started talking more online, and the past few weeks we've been talking some more at school. We're not in the same grade so it's basically just hallways and stuff. Well near the end of December I decided I kind of liked him. I told him in January. This was on the computer. About a month later the subject was brought up again. He told me that he was thinking about asking another girl out and that he didn't know me very well. They dated about a week, than he broke up with her for another girl. They've been dating for about a month. About 2 weeks ago the subject was brought up again. He asked my friend if I liked him and she told him yes, he told me he didn't know that I had liked him. I was like, "why not? i told you" and he was like was it on the computer? and im like yeah. turns out I was talking to his brother the whole time! =[ He asked what I saw in him, and I told him. He said he would've asked me out, but he was dating someone else. Ever since we've been flirting like, nonstop. Everytime I tell my friends the stories, they all say he likes me. He is known to be a flirt though. I know he really likes his girlfriend, but is it possible he likes me too? I think about him all the time. He's so different from everyone else. He listens to me, makes me laugh, I actually feel happy around him. I feel like I can be myself without feeling stupid. I don't know if I should tell him how I feel or just continue to be his friend. I don't want to mess things up between him and his girlfriend, but I don't know what to do. (link)
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well to me it sounds like you`re doing the right thing so far. since now he knows you like him he probably sees you differently now-in a good way of course. and he and his girlfriend havent been going out for very long and it seems like your guys' frienship is a pretty good one, SO just let him know you`re cool with being his friend (he already knows you like him), and his feelings could lead him to breaking up with his girlfriend for you. you never know, but to me at least, it seems like he likes you and does want to be with you. he just doesn`t want to hurt his girlfriend.
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i have a really big great circle of friends, mostly girls but we hang out with a few guys too. So, i have a crush on one of my guy friends, and my friends brought up that we would make a good couple, after that i fessed up to acctually liking the guy. After that they told me that they thought that he was flirting with me that night (before the guys went home, and the girls slept over), i am not the best at judging this sort of thing, but he is just a nice guy, and there were mostly girls at the party so he had to sit next to one of us - so could this mean that he wasn't really flirting and just being himself? he is also very shy too, he doesn't really touch anyone, the most physical contact i have had with him is playing egyptian rat screw and slapping on the same card pile. I am also more experienced, so i wonder if he will ever get the guts to show me his real feelings. What should i do to let him know i like him without losing a friend?
15, female (link)
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thats the hardest thing, making just a friend more than just a friend without losing the friendship. but with my experience with shy guys (trust me, i`ve been in this exact situation) is the closer they get to a girl that is only a friend, the more they feel comfortable with her. and since most shy guys don`t go out with a lot of girls, he`ll realize that his one close girl friend he actually likes more than a friend. shy guys are hard to work with, but just be flirty in a nonagressive way. maybe he`ll loosen up. and if his actions don`t change but your friends still thinks he may like you, then tell him how you feel. i know thats the hardest thing to do but theres no way around it. just go for it, because the worst thing is to do nothing about it, and look back and wonder what would have happend.
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Hey, ok so i recently just got a boyfriend and i love him! but i feel like he likes me more in a sexual way than he does emotionally. should i do something? (link)
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talk to him about it. see whats up and how hes feeling about the whole relationship. but if thats too hard because i know talking to your boyfriend about something like that is tough, then just stop putting out for a while and see how he reacts. if hes chill with it and still wants to hang and everything then you know he`s into you for more reasons than just sexual ones. give the guy a chance, chances are hes just really horny. i mean c'mon, hes only a guy ;)
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so me and cody have been dating for like 20 days. and me and him are as close to perfect (probably not the best word to get my point across) as a couple can get, until it comes to hangin out. like at school hell talk to me and well hold hands and he doesnt care what his friends think. but we had vacation and we made plans 3 times to hang out, HE made them, HE broke them ..
friday he said to call when i woke up, so i did and his mom said shed have him call me. well 6 hours later .. he hadn't called .. so i called and she hung up on me .. cody NEVER called to apolgize or say he couldn't. now hes in maine till vacations over. and his fones off ..
i left him a voicemail sayin it kind of hurt my feelings (he ignored my call, like it rang and he pressed ignore, so i know he had his fone, so i know he got he voicemail) and to call me. its 2 days later and he hasn't called. but he'll call me sunday before school and apologize and have an excuse .. he always does .. and i always believe him ..
everyone says dump him .. but i cant. i love him .. i just dont know what to do without messing it up and gettin him pissed off .. HELP?! (link)
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first off, anyone can apologize to a voice mail. get him face to face or actually talk to him on the phone and tell him that him blowing you off really hurts your feelings, and since hes your boyfriend he shouldn't be doing things like that. its a lot harder to come up with excuses on the spot and when he can see that you actually are hurt it might give him a change of heart. but i don`t think you should dump him without knowing for sure he knows how you feel and you both have truly talked about it. but he might just be a jerk and not worth your time. and if thats the case then dump him and move on.
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ok, im almost in love with this guy. not obsessed, but getting close.
he's gorgeous && incredibly sweet.
but there are problems;;
1)i cannot talk to him
2)he likes someone else
3)he's a druggie
now, i know what you're going to say about him doing drugs.. but hey! sometimes, a bad boy is good for a girl..you know??lmao
so what can i do??
should i just sit around && hope he gets over this other girl??
or should i talk to him??..conversation starters???
will rate high ;D
♥ thank yooou
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well if you just sit around and wait for him chances are nothings going to happen. if you want something go out and get it. sure he might like another girl but thats because you haven`t given him the chance to get to know you yet. get to know him a little bit, be his friend. then sooner or later things are bound to happen. and if not then at least you have a friendship to base your feelings on and then you`ll be able to talk to him about it a lot easier. so just go for it.
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AHHHH!!! HELP Okay well, theres this guy... we'll call him jimmy and first we were friends and then we wnet out, the first day he was GREAT.We held hands and hugged it was the best day ever, then for the next two weeks he compltely dissed me, now we are really good friends, and my best friend thinks i still like him, i keep telling her now but then she said "why don't you like him?" and the truth is. . i cant think of any reasons why i don't expect that he's a little bit dramatic at times and thats all. My heads telling me no no no but my heart is telling me yes yes yes. I know he doesn't like me but it justs breaks my heart when i see him fliritng with anotehr girl. When me and him are haning out it's all good, but then when a nother girl comes into the pictures he totaly ditvhes me as my friend tells me i don't notice it but she syas she sees the pain in my eyes. I don't want to like him anymore. I got over him once but that's because i dint see him flirting and he started to again, so now i dont know waht to do anymore, i DONT want him back he's going to break my heart. I don't want to like him, i can't stop thinking about him, it's dirivng me NUTS< HELP AHHHHHHHHHHH!!! (link)
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just relax about the whole thing. if he hurt you once before you need to realize that even though hes a great friend, hes not good enough for you as a boyfriend if hes just going to diss you like that. and it might help to flirt with some other boys too, try to make him jealous. because you know that two can play at that game ;)
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