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Hey I'm Francesca!
I know I havent been through everything, but I have had my share, and I would be glad to help you!
Ever broken any bones? How about rules?

What are the 3 things about you that you wouldn't want me to know?
1) I fall in love too fast 2) I HATE my body 3) I hide everything I feel
What is your favorite food color?
Purple
Do you sleep thru thunders and storms?
No, i'm a very light sleeper.
Are you a dog or a cat person, or rather prefer a comodo dragon?
i love cats, but I have a dog cause i'm allergic to cats.
What is the single feature people compliment about you the most?
My legs
Are you ALSO scared of spiders?
I don't like them.
What is your biggest fear, except for spiders?
Death, afterlife.
Name your most favorite part of day?
Daytime
Ever had an imaginary friend as a child?
Yes, her name was Masa
Ever been in an accident?
I have been in a car accident.
Have you ever stolen anything from a store or from someone?
I stole lotion from my grandma...
What are your turn on's and turn offs?
on's: attractive, loves God
off's: rude, having a "big head"
Are you a morning person?
I'm a morning and a night person.
What are your most favorite and least favorite foods?
Most: sushi
Least: black olives
Name the one piece of clothing you can't live without.
A bra
Do you have tattoos or piercings? If yes, how many and where are they?
I have a tattoo down my spine that says 'you are the light of the world'
My ears are pierced twice and my cartilage is pierced and my belly button is pierced.
What is/was your least favorite subject in school?
Math
Do you take showers in the morning or at night more?
After I exercise
What are the most important 3 things in your life?
1) God 2) my family 3) my friends

advice

Can you get a girl pregnant if you nut in her ass

not unless your sperm got all the way around to her vagina. Just be careful.

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I had a orgasm with my bf last month.he inserted finger in my vagina but it was clean.i missed my periods by one month.can i get pregeant?

Not unless you had his penis inside you, and he ejaculated. If not than you are not pregnant, unless he somehow had sperm on his finger.

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What can you do to your nail polishes when they start turning sticky ? especially the white ones !

put some nail polish remover in the bottle of nail polish, it thins it out and makes it not sticky. just a couple drops than shake it.

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I just bought these long black leggings but im not sure what to wear them with ? like with shorts or boots ..and is it ok if i just wear them as "jeans"?

her #1 and #4 are great. but not #3.
you can wear them as jeans but remember they can be kind of see through so you gotta make sure you cant see your butt in it! So i always try to wear shirts that are longer that cover at least half my butt.
any shoes are okay really, boots look the best if your trying to dress it up.

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Just wanted to be clear on something:

"...if someone wants to smoke hookah i am going to tell them to go for it because i have had zero bad experiences."

So, what I am getting from this is that both the World Health Organization, and the Mayo Clinic state that smoking this causes cancer... but because you don't have cancer yet, you are going to encourage other people to get cancer?

Just checking...

See why that might be confusing, especially from someone who says her number one priority in life is God?

Thanks for clearing this up.

Sure why not?
smoking isn't against the law or un-Godly.
Use your own judgment right? That is what common sense is used for.

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i have never used a tampon before and i am just wondering if it hurts? please be honest

it really depends if you have every been sexually active, and i'm guessing you haven't.
so the smallest absorbency will definitely not hurt, it will just feel uncomfortable at first. I would stick with those for your first period and than try and move up to regular, if it hurts going in than stop and take it out. definitely wait on using super, i accidentally used one at the beginning and i cried it hurt so bad.
you just need to make sure you use the small ones and it will be fine!

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I am making thirteen in three days and i havent had my first period. I am kind of scared and all my friends already started. I have all the symptoms and my mom started when she was thirteen

hey girl don't stress about it, trust me you don't want it! If you are having the symptoms than i am sure you are going to get it soon, make sure to keep a pad with you at all times!
there is nothing you can do to make it some faster, it is just your body.
dont stress about not having it, i'm sure there are lots of girls that haven't started yet either!

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I am thirteen. I like this girl, and I asked her if she loved me. She said she like-likes me. Take note this is not the same. She is an amazing person and she is one of a kind. I don't want to lose her, but I'm so reved up about sex, I can't help but masturbate. Should I stop? I need some real girl advice. Also, someone who can support male masturbation please pitch in.

hey!
you are definitely too young at 13 to be wanting to have sex so i think it is a great way to release that by masturbating. it will probably be awhile till girls start wanting to have sex too so your gonna have to wait a long time!
masturbating is a completely normal and healthy thing to do especially at your age. don't feel bad or ashamed about it at all. it definitely isn't something you should be promoting about yourself but don't worry about it. maybe you wont think about sex so much?
the only thing you need to worry about is getting addicted, i think your too young now for that to be an issue but if masturbating becomes something you physically can not live with out than you need to talk to someone about that.

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ii'm 17 and in a relationship. My bf and i have been dating for several months now but he has never told me i'm beautiful,but i know i am.i have tried changing my looks but he does not compliment me. Does he really care??

does it really matter if he tells you that your beautiful? as long as he believe it than it shouldn't matter. have you ever asked him what he thinks of you, if he thinks you are beautiful? guys don't just randomly compliment girls very often so you need to prompt him. and you shouldn't be changing yourself for him, if you feel the need to change yourself than he is not the guy for you because he should like you just as you are.
i hope you find what your looking for :)

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Hey, saw your hookah answer.

From the World Health Organization:

"A 2005 WHO report[3] states that smoking using a waterpipe poses a serious potential health hazard and is not a safe alternative to cigarette smoking. Smoke from a waterpipe contains high levels of toxic chemicals, including high levels of carbon monoxide, metals and cancer-causing chemicals."

And it isn't a small amount of tobacco, not by any means.

Please consider reading up on this:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hookah

... and editing your answer before it gets you banned.

I know you just didn't know, and I don't want to see you lose your account over this.

well thanks.
i really dont know anyone who considers smoking hookah "bad". its like the most simple leisure activity i have had zero negative effects. yes if you smoke it daily than thats bad but who does that?

this account really doesnt mean anything to me its just an activity so i thank you alot for that info but if someone wants to smoke hookah i am going to tell them to go for it because i have had zero bad experiences.

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Will I go blind if I masterbate to much?

I don't think going blind and masturbating have any correlation what so ever so no you won't go blind. And don't worry about masturbatng 'too much'. Masturbating is a natural thing, there is no negative aspects unless you actually become addicted, meaning you cant function without it.

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Okay so basically i want to try hookah, I'm of legal age and everything but I 'm scared. A lot of the people i hang out with do it, but they have done it before. Some of them have also done marijuana so hookah isn't a big deal. I really want to try it though. My question is...if I do it once, am I going to get addicted? How addicted? If i do a couple puffs what will happen? Does it have an effect on you? Also, is it going to burn? And how do I avoid not coughing my lungs out when I try it? haha, thank you so much! and please don't try to convince me not to do it, thank guys!!

Hookah is not addictive nor is it bad for you if you do it occasionally. It has a tiny bit of tobacco, that is the only bad quality. It doesn't do anything to you in the form of a high, you wont see anything or feel any different it is just tastes good and is a fun social thing to do. Don't be scared there is no reason to be. It does not burn, it might be a little uncomfortable your very first time but to me it is really cool and feels good. You wont cough but if you are scared than don't suck in very much, just get a little.

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If I am getting a ride from someone, they get pulled over, and the cop searched me and my bags found nothing. But found something in persons car, in his backpack. Can I be charged with the same crime as the person who owns and was driving car?

Maybe not the same crime, that person would get charged for possession, but you would be charged with something unless you could prove you didn't know they had anything.

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I'll try to make some sense out of this, My ex who I just broke up with was the third girl that I've dated. She has a tendency of being needy and clingy and I had a problem with that. I told her about this and it offended her and we would try to work it out and it would stop for a little while but didn't last long. She was looking for a person who she can spend the rest of her life with. I on the other hand am looking to just date and see how dating goes. I want to get married, but I'm not ready to yet. She just wants a guy who she can spend the rest of her life with. I want to ask you this. When you are in a relationship, are you committed to that person? I told her that I was never committed because I hadn't dated her long which I'm not sure of whether it's right or not. I haven't had much experience with the dating game so when an issue comes up, I don't know how to react to it at times. Also, every couple of weeks or so, she would tell me that I don't deserve to date her because of her past. She's been in abusive relationships and I haven't had to deal with any of that which made it hard. Since the breakup, we are trying to stay as just friends. Even after the breakup, she still wants me to talk to her a bit and I do have an issue with it sometimes. When I told her that I was committed to her when I really wasn't, it really angered her.

Okay that makes more since.
The point of dating is to find out what kind of people you like, how you mesh with other personalities. Dating is not necessarily used to get married, especially when you are young. So I definitely agree with you when you say you aren't committed to her, you shouldn't be! Your just trying to figure out what kind of people you like, your not looking for long term relationships with marriage in the future. You should tell her that. Tell her you are just experimenting with girls and finding out who you like and don't like and your not looking for long-term or marriage or anything like that because you two obviously have different views on dating. But don't worry you are definitely doing the right thing.
And honestly she might be bringing her past up to get attention or to get sympathy. Yes she might deserve some sympathy but her saying that stuff is just awkward. You should tell her you don't like it when she brings up her past. Just don't lie, always try your best to tell her the 100% truth about how you feel.

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okay so i know this is stupid of me to ask but i feel like when i ask people i know i don't get an honest answer. im 5'2 i have light blonde hair that ends right at my boobs its usually curled or in beach waves im a 34DD in a bra i have light blue eyes i usually half to get like a size 8 in dresses since my boobs are so big and have the dress made smaller in the waist i definitely have curves and a butt my waist is smaller and i have big thighs i get really nervous and awkward when i half to get in a bathing suit because i have 2 scars on my stomach. i get told im pretty all the time but i just can't bring myself to believe it i also hate going places because i feel like everywhere i go im being judged

Guys definitely think you are pretty, whether you like it or not.
You shouldn't be asking if society likes what toy look like, it should be good enough if you think your pretty or not, don't worry about what we think. But yes you sound pretty.

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We dated twice, both times didn't work out. We both have autism and it seemed like she wanted me to talk to her every possible chance I had and for hours on end. Often we didn't have stuff to talk about and when we didn't, it kind of upset her. She would often do stuff that I didn't know what to do in terms of what to say or things like that.

So I don't really understand what you question is, do you like her and you want to be with her or you want her out of your life?
If you like her still and want to be with her than I suggest telling her what you just told me. Tell her you need more space, and that it's okay that y'all don't always have stuff to talk about because you are still getting to know each other. Tell her the stuff you didn't understand, the things she said, and tell her it made you uncomfortable. Communication is key in relationships.

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I've been dating this guy for seven months and there isn't a bad thing i can think to say of him. he's absolutely amazing and I am so so so in love with him. I just know it won't work out in the long run. We both have different goals in life. We are best friends and having him in my life as my boyfriend has been the most secure feeling ever. I just want to do the right thing and not date him anymore when i am 100% confident it won't work out. But i know he'll be super crushed and I will too. I get so depressed when I think of us not together or him in my life. How do i do this without hurting him &myself?

Thanks so much!

I think you should go tell him exactly what you just wrote. That is the only way this will work out. Tell him that you love him and you want to be his friend but you don't see a future. Guys like to be told things straight up, they don't want it sugar coated so just straight up tell him exactly how you feel. I know your scared to hurt him, but it will just hurt more if you wait longer.

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my boyfriend prefers his females friends to me. He enjoys their company and he talkks alot about them. He cant tell me he loves me in front of them and still says he loves me..

Tell him you don't like this!! You have to be honest because if you aren't he wont know, guys are bad at picking up hints you need to be direct. It sounds like he is ashamed of y'alls relationship or something if he is hiding the fact he loves you from his friends. he should be able to say that in front of them and you should be his number one priority in life over them. Just tell him how you feel and that it is hurting you.

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I would like to know something, at what point in a relationship do you become committed to someone? My gf and I broke up after dating for about 5 months because she had issues with clinginess and whining about being the perfect person. She told me she was committed to me and I said that I was committed to her. However, during the relationship, she would do these such things and I also do things often that I would be busy to talk a times and she had a problem with that. But then I told her tonight that I didn't feel quite committed to her yet. Did I do wrong? I think this whole relationship thing can stress me out. She was my third girl.

I'm not quite sure what you mean by committed? I'm going to assume it means that you are only with each other and no one else right? So if you told her you don't want to be committed yet than she probably thinks you like someone else or you want to be able to be free to talk to other girls. It's okay that you said that because I think she would rather know that so that you don't end up cheating cause that's worse. Just keep a good and honest relationship with her and it will be fine.

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so I hav Eng speaking exam about my hobby.and I wrote wt i should say but I am 100 % sure that i hav lots of mistakes so plz corret me .English is not my mother language.

So here it is
Everybody in the world has hobbies to make thier free time enjoyable and useful. Hobbies have alot of benefits and advantages like improving skills,having fun and learn new things.

Hobbies differ from a person to another depend on what we like, So today I am going to talk about my favorite hobby . It is drawing ,because I am good at it and I can express myself on it ,I began to draw when I was 10 years old. I love to draw landscape, and faces,My favorite painter is Jozef Terner.
Finally I hope to be like him in future and to improve myself in other field

and thank alot for answering i will pray for you. ;)

Everybody in the world has hobbies to fill their free time with something fun and enjoyable. Hobbies have alot of benefits and advantages such as they can improve your skills, entertain you, and you can learn new things.

Hobbies differ from person to person depending on what we like, so today I am going to talk about my favorite hobby which is drawing. I like it because I am good at it and its a way for me to express myself. I began to draw when I was 10 years old. I love to draw landscapes and faces.My favorite painter is Jozef Terner, I hope to be like him in the future and to improve myself in other fields as well.

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