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On november 1st I got a boyfriend, and even though we have only been dating a little while I love him and know he is the one for me! Well here is the other part of the story.
Before me and my boyfriend started dating I had this thing going on with my ex boyfriend. Then my exboyfriend said alot of mean stuff to me. Like im a slut and i cant get any guys and all that stuff. Then when I got my boyfriend (that i am with now) my ex boyfriend apologized. My exboyfriend is in my gym class and everyone says that he keeps looking at me. He even poked my tummy! what is up with that? I mean he insulted me (but he apologized) what is he thinking? THe bad part is I kinda like knowing he is looking at me and stuff...
Whats going on?
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just because he said sorry doesnt make it right. stay with the guy your with now, hopefully that will work out for you. dont bother with your ex. hes an asshole and you dont need to give him the time of day. good luck.
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I saw that you said that you have colored mascara from CVS... what brand is it? I go to CVS all teh time looking for colored mascara but I can never find any...
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i checked. the brand is milani. maybe the cvs you go to doesnt have milani stuff, but mine does. sorry if you cant find it though. good luck.
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i was just wondering how old you were when you had your first kiss....im 14 and i still havent had mine so i kinda feel like a loser but plz put real age...ty (link)
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i was 12. i know you cant wait, but it really doesnt matter how old you are. it'll happen soon enough though. it really varies throughout different people. good luck hun.
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I am 17/M. I have a girlfriend that I have almost dated for 4 months. We had a great realtionship to start out with. Once school began though I start to drift away from her. I am very active in school and after school. She is in love with me but I am not.(I told her I didn't after lying about it for awhile) She calls and I am not really inclined to call her back or even talk to her when she does call. It is like a chore for me. I wuldn't mind spending time with her but only if it was for awhile not some BS 15 mins. When we are together I feel really close and begin to like her a lot. Then after like 2 weeks I just dont care anymore. She is really serious in this relationship and I am not so much. I don't know what to do. I just want some direction or arrow telling me what I need to do. Plz give me that DIRECTION! (link)
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you sound like your not sure of what your want and your girlfriend is. you should break up with her because its not right for her. shes totally in love with you, mean while, you dont feel the same. thats just not right. you need to figure out what you want before trying to make it work with her. your girlfriend isnt supposed to be the equivelent of doing the dishes or cleaning your room. she should be something you look forward to.
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i like this guy wat should i do?? (link)
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ok. um... where to start... if you like this guy, hang out with him more and talk to him. thats all i can give you on that with what you gave me. try giving a more detailed question so i can give you a more detailed answer. also, you said you give 5 and up only on ratings, but 5 is the highest rating you can get. maybe you meant 5 and below.
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hello..i am 16, and turn 17 in february.. i was wondering peoples outlooks on me. i lost my virginity when i was 14 to the first 'highschool sweetheart'.. then i didnt have sex until this past summer. and once i did i was addicted. my sister said it probably runs through the family but im not sure. i have now 'hooked' up with 4 guys, including the highschool sweetheart. thing is, two guys were only when i was totally wasted so i dont know what to think. please tell me your outlook on my situation and why i might be 'addicted' to sex. (link)
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i wouldnt say that makes you a slut, or that you act slutty. i would say you just like sex, and whats wrong with that? who doesnt like sex? i dont think its a big deal that you've had sex with 4 people, as long as it wasnt just some random person who you decided was a good choice of someone to do. now, since you did have sex with two people when you were wasted, i guess thats kind of considered slutty. and as for why your "addicted", i have no clue. just try to not have sex too much... or else people will start saying your a slut... and when people start saying stuff like that, it gets around, and then everyone thinks your a slut. so just try to keep your reputation clean for the most part. good luck.
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I feel bad for duming her. I dumped her because i felt bad about dating her because my parents did not want me to.If i date her again i will feel bad for disobeying my parents. what can i do?
And if there is no hope for me what do people do to make themselves happier? (link)
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if your parents dont approve of you dating her, do it anyways. if you like her, explain to her that you dumped her cause your parents didnt approve of it and you didnt want to get in trouble. i dont know if she'll take you back, but you can always try. sometimes, when your parents tell you not to do things, they have no reason for it. therefor you shouldnt have to listen to them. like why the hell cant you have a girlfriend? whats wrong with that? if i were you i'd just forget about what they said and go with her anyways. whats the big deal?
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ok well, i'm only 13 right, and i've been thinkin about sex,...alot, i'm still a virgin and everything but it's like a random thought that clouds my mind! it's so weird, and i dont even know what this means or anything,.... (link)
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it means, your thinking about sex. thats it. i dont understand what the actual question is, but to let you know, theres nothing wrong with thinking about sex.
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What would you do if you hated life but then all of a sudden your "friends" decided to hate you. ALL OF THEM? (link)
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sounds to me like your having some problems. if i were you, i'd talk to my friends about what ever i did and try to make it right again. i know its really annoying when none of your friends want anything to do with you, but eventually they'll probably come through, and be friends with you again. as for life, i cant help ya there because life is gonna suck, most of the time, no matter what you do. it depends on what is really the issue, but most of the time, "life" cant be helped. good luck.
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Ok Me and My boyfriend broke up yesterday due to he liked another girl! It broke my heart, I was mad, and I could have pinched his head off. But now he acts like he likes me AGAIN! Like when I was sitting at lunch today with some girls he kept looking at me for long periods of time. He does that even when I pass him in the hall. And when he sees me on the bus he will look for me and when he sees me he will smile. So Whats going on???!?!? Signed Confused! (Smarty Pants will be reported.) (link)
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dont give him the time of day. if he didnt want to be with you anymore because there was someone else he wanted to be with more than you, then just forget about him. if he asks you out again, say no. i know its hard to forget about cause you liked him so much, but try to think about other things, and other guys. eventually, you'll get over it and realize he wasnt worth your time. good luck hun!
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alright well im 14 a freshman in highschool and i really like this guy in my grade he is soo nice to me online but like i think he likes some other girl and like in school i dont even see him so i have no way in trying to talk to him there and i just really wish he would like notice me as a person that likes him .. and it sucks because i dont think he ever will but all my friends are telling me not to give up on him cause it would be sucha '' cute couple '' but still any ideas how i could like talk to him online and just let hint him but not like making it akward .. ya know?? or any other ideas..
pleassee help me =( (link)
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just say hi to him. i dont think he'll mind. maybe he likes you too ? you never know... and just try to flirt with him when you talk to him. im sure he wont mind. =)
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I have a boyfriend but he cant stop crying because he wants to see me, i liek him alot but like hes more emotional then me!
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if i were you, id dump him. hes a guy. guys arent supposed to cry like that. it really doesnt bother me when guys cry, but in a situation like this, thats kind of sad. im not telling you that you have to, cause i dont understand the circumstances of this relationship, but thats a little bit much for me...
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Can you tell me eyeliner and liquid eyeliner brands? Oh and I want to see you're opinion on what is better to use.
And is there any COLORED mascara? Like.. purple, pink, etc? If yes, what stores are they in?
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in cvs, theres some mascara thats different colors. i have pink and blue. they have a whole bunch of colors within all their different make up tho. and for eyeliner, just try different stuff and see what you like. theres alot of good eyeliners out there, you just have to find the ones that you like the best.
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I wrote before about how my mom was sick and that i wasnt sure what was wrong with my mom( http://advicenators.com/qview.php?q=383493 ) Anyways, Now I do. I'm not realy in the mood to write this all out but here this will help alot. Today i decided to start up writing a journal again but this time on the computer since I can type realy fast just save it to a founder with that days date. Well anyways heres waht i wrote today (take in mind taht I started the journal thing today and the ---- means informatino i cant give out lol...
10-22-05- Saturday
Dear Journal,
I decided to start to write a journal. I used to when I was 9 or 10 or something like that but I never found it as a necessary as a teenager. Since I haven’t written in so long I guess I should start with the basics. I am 13 years old.I live at --------,Ohio. My home phone number is now ------. I’ve been living in -------- for about 10 years. I have a dog named Scotch and a Cat Named Magic. Ashley (my twin) is of course 13. Katie is 12 and Jenny is 23. Jenny is married to Brad and they have two Children; Alec who is 5 and Addison who is 3. I am in the 8th grade also and I go to East Palestine Middle School. My favorite color is pink. I am a East Palestine 8th grade Cheerleader. I was one last year too. I have a awesome boyfriend who I am sure that I am in love with. His name is Kevin Scott Ludwig. He’s 15 ½. He so handsome. He has blue eyes that I get lost in and has a laugh that can make anyone’s day. I have brown eyes and brown hair. My fears are really hard to explain so its easier to say that my fear that always haunts me has pretty much became reality.
My mom went to the doctors Last weekend for a yearly checkup, no big deal right? Well they drew blood work and such and she’s been waiting for results. Always, Thursday Addison and my mom went to school with me till after 4th period cause it was bring family to school day okay? Well when she got home she got a message from our doctor saying that they got the results from the blood work and to come in right away. So she called my dad and told him and he came home and them and Addison went to the doctors. Well, It turns out my mom has a disease. This is my worst fear / nightmare. Though I’m not really sure what the name of it is but its bad. Her bloods thick and it doesn’t have much oxygen and tons of carbon. She has to stop smoking. Also she is supposed to donate a quart (yes a whole quart) of blood every 4 months. She can have a heart attack and die any second. Its really scary and I cry if I think too much about it but the girls (my two sisters) are kind of acting like its nothing. Something tells me between the next couple months if it stays the same or gets worse my mom will go into a mild depression (that’s my opinion) just because she is already not doing well. She hasn’t been sleeping either. Like when my mom gets mad at my dad and goes to bed angry she will yell like once in her sleep at him ( its kind of funny). Anyways, she hasn’t been sleeping and when she is crying in her sleep and yelling and talking and a lot of other things. She is talking likes she going to die. She is scared for her life and she is terrified she is going to die. I don’t know what to do. I am lost confused and just out of it at some points.
Well I find myself that I cant write anymore.. I’m talking to my boyfriend and I really don’t want to cry right now and I feel the tears coming so I’ll leave it for today…
--Love--
Meg
Dear Journal,
Hey its me again! Well I wanted to fill you in on well more stuff. My dad was talking to my sisters and I about my mom. He was telling us some strange ways she’s been acting and how its extremely hard for her to give up smoking and she has to now because she will die if she doesn’t. Anyways, besides that miserable and unwanted news I found out some new stuff. Not only does my mom has a disease but something major is causing the disease . All the symptoms are saying it’s a brain aneurysm which as you know is not good at all. This is why my mom is scared for her life. She getting a appointment and will go to the hospital probably sometime next week to get a cat scan to see if that’s what it is. Wow you wouldn’t think this could get any worse huh? Between the disease and the brain aneurysm and the fact that my mom is just going wacky right now right? Well wrong. My dad last year went to the doctors and they said he might have a heart problem. So my dad was horrified and so was my mother. They had to take him to a heart specialist and the heart specialist said there was nothing wrong. Well wrong again! Due to what is going on with my mom and such my mom talked my dad into scheduling a appointment with the doctor to have a full physical. Well again they think something is wrong with his heart. He’s nervous but he’s not really one of those touchy feely guys . I’m not sure what to do. I cant control anything anymore I understand that I have to learn to treat both my mother and my father better because if something does happen .. I couldn’t survive knowing I treated them like crap. I don’t really know what to do right now. I really like the idea of writing in here though.. It helps me cop with what’s going on. Well I better go I have decided that I’m going to put today’s entry’s on this awesome website called advisonators.com so that I can have people help me out or help me cope with this really harsh situation.
-Sincerely-
Megan
Some basic Information-
My mom is 42 shes 110 pounds in great health and looks like shes atleast in her early 30's.
My dad is 41 hes not fat but not skinny. Hes all My dad is also in good health.
Just respond I'm not totaly sure what I'm asking for just give me words of encoaragement (sp?),knowledge, I dont care. Thanks you guys. (link)
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well, i read that whole thing, and i have to say, it seems like you have alot on your plate to deal with. i really hope things get better for you and it works out with your parents. most likely, they'll both be fine. just try to keep your head up and dont spend all of your time thinking about it because if you do, you might stress yourself out about it too much. just calm down and be there for your parents the whole way if they are going through something like this. good luck hun.
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Hey i just started taking english, i live in denmark. So i was wondering should you write days with a capital letter. like in the middle of a sentence? Example: are you calling Teresa on monday, or are you just gonna forget about her? Should monday be with a capital letter or not? Thank you., (link)
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yep, capitalize it. you speak pretty good english too.
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OK, well im 14 and still havent had a b/f yet. Is there like smething wrong with mme? Im affraid I wont have a b/f the whole 4 years of highschool. Thanks! (link)
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no, theres nothing wrong with you. theres plenty of people who are older than you and havent had a boyfriend. it doesnt mean theres anything wrong with you. actually, in a way your better off than people with boyfriends because boys are actually just a big waste of time because you can be with them for awile, and then they'll probably break your heart. or you'll get tired of them and dump them. the later in life you have a boyfriend, the better. unfortunatly, its to late for some of us.
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I am extremely lonely. I feel as though there is no one left for me. I recently stoped talking to my "crush" because everything changed romanticly between us. I feel as though in my town, there is no one new, everyone has someone, and all the good ones are taken. I hate this feeling. I hate being lonely, I hate `seeing all these couples in school and having no one. (link)
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alot of people feel the same way as you do, just like me. i have someone, sort of, but cant have them as my own, which also hurts. anyways, back to you; just wait until someone comes along who you can be with. it may take awile but eventually someone will be there for you.
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hey all well i have been with my boyfriend for six months then we broke up once and got back together 5 months later we have been going out now for 4 weeks today but i feel really weird around him and i do love him but i like this other guy but i don*t want my boyfriend to stop talking to me like he did last time! so my question is what should i do? break up with my boyfriend? or stay with him please help! i rate 5
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do what you feel is right. this teenage love stuff is so complicated. i hate it. just because you like another guy though, doesnt mean you should break up with the guy your with. if you decide you dont have feelings for your boyfriend anymore then maybe its time to end the relationship. good luck!
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Hi.
I am 14 years old, and lets just say my name is S. I am a girl, and a diabetic. I sometimes don't get my periods, its irregular and have went to the doctor about it. They said theres nothing they can do except give me birth control, which my mom did not want me on. I have about 9 or 10 lumps (size of tiny pimples) around my left and right nipples, and soreness around my breast. I really do not know if this is breast cancer related, but I am too afraid to go to the doctor. I am afraid to show anyone my body, so I won't go to a family member, or like I said, a doctor.. can one of you please give me some advice before I go to drastic measures such as my MOM?
sincerely,
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hi S. you need to go get help at a doctor as soon as possible. i know its not very comfortable to have people studying your body but you have to go have this checked out, cause if you dont, it could get prett bad. good luck.
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Righto, my monthly visit (period) just came by again. It's weird, it's really uncomfortable and it hurts just to walk.. I was just wondering how can I make my cramps a little better and any hints/tips on periods? Thanks (link)
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midol and chocolate. makes u feel much better.
p.s. is this becca?
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