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slutty?
hello..i am 16, and turn 17 in february.. i was wondering peoples outlooks on me. i lost my virginity when i was 14 to the first 'highschool sweetheart'.. then i didnt have sex until this past summer. and once i did i was addicted. my sister said it probably runs through the family but im not sure. i have now 'hooked' up with 4 guys, including the highschool sweetheart. thing is, two guys were only when i was totally wasted so i dont know what to think. please tell me your outlook on my situation and why i might be 'addicted' to sex.
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Once you do it one time you are "Addicted" to it, whatever that just means you liek it!
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While some people are addicted to sex, they are few and far between. It seems to me that you just like sex. As for why? Well, it feels good. That's the common sense answer.
It seems like you might not be very happy with the choices you've made, since you're asking this question. Only you can decide how you see yourself - whether that is as a 'slut', a normal teenager, confident, beautiful, mixed-up...and on and on and on. It's up to you.
You may or may not have been choices you aren't happy about, but that's a human thing to do. From this point forward, you have the ability to choose who you have sex with, when you have it, and how you feel about it. The amount you like sex doesn't run through a family, but if your parents and sister have modelled a certain type of behaviour to you, then it might affect your life decisions.
Best of luck.
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You probably not a sex addict. Don't worry. I do think you probably like the attention. Its exciting how much power sex can have, getting guys to be interested in you, the power a guy has over you when you are interested in him.
I don't think its slutty or wrong to like sex. I just don't. I think if you are safe and smart about it, its really fun and natural. But, as you can see by some of the responses below, a lot of people don't feel the same way.
You have to decide if people having maybe not the highest opinion of you is that big of a deal or not. Also, as for being totally wasted when having sex... try not to. It can lead you into bad situations that you don't want to be in, then sex will not be a fun thing.
Hope this helps. Good luck and keep me posted.
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well if people find out about it people will start to say stuff you know how highschool is.
just dont let anyone know and once you have sex you always want it every girl does. trust me
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Youre title was "slutty"? Did i give u information that you didnt want to hear, is that why you gave a 1?
Youre asking people how they see you and then you give them a 1! This is how i see you, because im older than you and im still a virgin and proud of it. Ive had a long relationship too, but im not giving it away that easily, because high school romances arent forever! I will get it away to my fiance or my husband! Sex is very important to me, and i want it to be very special, not just give it to any guy.
You need a reality check girl! Maybe you see yourself as "easy"!!!
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well i am only 14 but it still sounds wroug to have sex at such a young age that is just my opinion but if that does work just try cuting down!!
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I don't think you are slutty unless you actually set out to be so (i.e. 'woohoo I am a slut I will wear no clothes and hump anything with a pulse'). Everyone makes mistakes, especially when they are wasted.
You're probably not 'addicted' to sex, you probably just like it a lot (maybe because you didn't have it for so long or you got lucky and found a guy who is really good in bed lmao!). Find yourself a good boyfriend and have sex with him as much as you want, that way you won't feel slutty as you won't be 'sleeping around'. Just don't go getting yourself a 'reputation', 'k?
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i wouldnt say that makes you a slut, or that you act slutty. i would say you just like sex, and whats wrong with that? who doesnt like sex? i dont think its a big deal that you've had sex with 4 people, as long as it wasnt just some random person who you decided was a good choice of someone to do. now, since you did have sex with two people when you were wasted, i guess thats kind of considered slutty. and as for why your "addicted", i have no clue. just try to not have sex too much... or else people will start saying your a slut... and when people start saying stuff like that, it gets around, and then everyone thinks your a slut. so just try to keep your reputation clean for the most part. good luck.
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