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I have to do a paper on a current sports controversy but I can't think of any and I can't find any on google. So what's a current controversy in sports?
At the moment, there are plenty lol
Here's one I know the most about:
In baseball, the Yankees and the Red Sox have always had the "Curse of the Bambino" (which if you're not familiar with: its basically the "curse" the Red Sox encountered when they traded Babe Ruth to the Yankees, and from then on, the Red Sox went on a losing streak.) Well this streak was broken in 2004 when 2 star Red Sox players Mannie Ramirez & David Ortiz (Big Papi) won the game for the Red Sox in the 12th inning(meaning it was tied and they broke the tied score). This has become a controversy because later steroid test results have showed that both Ortiz&Ramirez have tested positive for drugs/steroids and if the curse was really legitimatly broken.
Here's more info on it:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Curse_of_the_Bambino
Hope I helped!
it's new, and i'm pretty sure it's t-pain. its upbeat and they play it in clubs in stuff. it's something like "you like what you see when you're lookin at me" or somethin like that. those prob aren't exact but yeah, i can't find it on google or myspace or anything. any help?
I realize the person below me gave the correct answer, but just some extra info:
It's by Maino, which is why you couldn't find it =]] good song!
♥ok i found about this website by my friend MysteryJay anyway,
I was gonna ask how do u handle with your boyfriend living so far away and his parents and my mom doesnt want us dating, but my mom jsut handles it, but his mom doesnt want us dating cause im black and live in a different state. My boyfriend is white.
Also he says he wont cheat on me and i want to believe him but he lives so far away so how am i suppose to really be a 100% sure.
I want to live with him forever and he says he wants to live with me forever too. But his mom doesnt like us dating so you think we'll ever eb able to see each other in real life? he lives in PA and i live in MO. Please help me if you can.♥
Jaklin
Hi,
I'll tell you my opinion but you have to remember that I dont know you, or your boyfriend, or his/your parents. I don't know your age as well, but here goes: (And I hope I help)
Lets target the first problem: His parents. They don't want him seeing you. Once he turns 18, there's nothing they can legally do. Until then, they have all the right (Unfortunately) to keep him away from you. Now even though his mom doesn't like you dating.... you two still are. Which means that she might not like it, but she's not doing anything to stop it. However, if he starts talking about meeting up with you, she might not allow it, so be careful not to push her over the edge.
Second : You're afraid he'll cheat. In my opinion (and from personal experience) I NEVER go into a relationship if I have a DOUBT that the person will cheat. Each time I wasn't sure about the person, I ended up getting cheated on. I did the long distance thing and personally, it didn't work. I'm 17, and the guy is 17 and he's been my best friend (still is) since we were 5. IT DIDN'T WORK! Not because we don't love each other or because I was afraid he'd cheat....but because he lives in NY and I live in FL.
If you're not 100% positive he'll stay loyal to you, then it's a waste of time. I know you love him, but you can always have a relationship together when you both are 18 and legally can move in together without worrying about parents and etc.
I can't decide what to do for you, only you can. But if I were you, I'd stay in touch with him and be great friends, and then when you both are of legal age, you can move in together if that's what you want and this way you can keep an eye on him so he wont cheat.
I hope this helped....lemme know if there's anything else I can help you with.
Good luck!
When I was 12 I had my first kiss with this boy that i really liked at the movies, and it was pretty funny it was bad lol. but after that i learned that its not that big of a deal lol and the rest were better ha so anyone have funny first kiss experinces?
Mine was SOOO AWKWARD! I couldn't move! I froze! And when I say froze, I mean it.
He came in to kiss me (and he was a lot older so he definately knew what he was doing) and I didn't move. Just stood there, not even moving my lips. He somehow like it tho? hahaha weirdest experience. I wouldn't kiss anyone after that for a while cause I was scared it would happen again. Thank GOD I got over that!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b7yCrTBVVZo
Listen to this song ...its a 13 year old singing!
A 13 year olds song gave me butterflies in my stomach/
whats your opinion on it?
First, he's 15
Second, sorry to tell you this...but because I work with music and in a recording studio.... his voice is VERY TAMPERED with in this song... meaning it's altered, if you hear him live, its not gonna sound quite like that.
Other than that, good song.
When I say the word "natural" I mean things that I can buy or do, but not prescription medication. I'm starting a new year at school and I'm already feeling depressed and anxious. I hate this feeling but I can't really talk to my parents about it. They keep saying it's a phase. I really need to feel better because I want to do better in school this year (and life in general). Are there any natural antidepressants that I can take?
I've had the same problem you do, and I got some great advice. I'll explain to you what I found out:
People feel depressed when there is a lack of serotonin in the brain. Certain foods, especially chocolate, signal the brain to produce serotonin and I HIGHLY SUGGEST eating a little piece of chocolate everyday (I'm not saying go crazy and eat a whole bar haha, but if you buy a hershey bar, break off abbout two small pieces)
Also, exercising creates certain chemicals in the brain to work faster and serotonin production becomes greater so working out for a little while is always good.
I hope this helps, message me for any questions.
I heard that Lady GaGa (sings Pokerface, Just Dance, Love Game, Paparazzi) was a hermaphrodite or a man. I don't know if any of that is true but when I looked at her in her videos she doesn't look very womanly. Is Lady GaGa really a man?
Lady Gaga is a hermaphrodite. She came out and openly said it. Here's the link below, if you scroll down you'll see what she said word-for-word.
http://starrtrash.blogspot.com/2008/12/lady-ga-ga-admits-true-sex.html
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okaay i have know thius guy ( lets call him p) for 2 years and we are now in the same school. we hung out a few times over the summer and i began to like him, hes in grade 11 and im in 10. its the 4th day of school and we saw each other a couple times and waved and said hi and talked a ltitle. he tells me pretty much everything about his firends and about girls hees ahving troubles with and i flirt, not a lot, but i still do and he wants to hang out a couple times a month and we do and we get a long good . but duunnno, i think he sees me more as a friend. and i wanna know how to tell this? and if i am in the "friends zone" what do i do! and how do i get out ?
heeelllpppppp pleeeasse =(
Aw this is cute!
Ok here goes....
You're in the friends zone for a couple of reasons. One of them is that you're listening to all his problems: "he tells me pretty much everything about his firends and about girls hees ahving troubles with" STOP IT! THIS IS A BIG NO! When he starts complaining and saying too much you cut it off! Don't be rude, just conveniently say that you have to go, or you'll talk to him later cause you gotta go to work/do homework/mom's on the phone etc. This one of the biggest reasons he sees you as a friend.
2nd...STEP UP THE FLIRTING! guys like it. Don't go overboard with the flirting cause that's when it becomes annoying, but I'm sure there are other things you can start doing.... laughing more etc. (since you didn't specify how you flirt, I can't really help you out on that)
3rd... Guys like chases, it's fun. BECOME UNAVAILABLE! If he wants to see you, say you cant! You're busy with friends etc. He needs to know that you're not at his beck and call, you have a life! And when you tell him you have something to do, actually do it, like "I'm hanging out with John Doe today so I can't hang out, sorry" and make sure you do this, this way you're not tempted to talk to him and make plans =p He needs to get jealous that you're not his only priority! If you hang out with him everytime he asks, you'll just go back to step one with the friends zone.
Good luck!
Message me if you need anything else!
My computer like upgraded or something I have windows xp and it's not the blue crashing screen I know to hit cntrl alt delete..but that won't work. Why did it upgrade of never did this before..
Ok, all that means is that there's an error in the hard drive. Try the following before you start to panic:
Start the computer, and right when it starts up (before it goes to the windows loading screen) hit f8...if you do it at the right time, it will take you to a black screen with white font. Go to safe mode and hit enter. Once you're in safe mode, the computer SHOULD work (if it doesn't then it's time for a repair!)
If it does work : Go to Start, All Programs, Accessories, System Tools, System Restore.
Follow the instructions and see if this helps.
Hope I helped!
In advance, sorry if this is long.
Ok first off i'm with this guy named allen, we've been dating for 5 months tomorrow.
We've got lots of problems, he can be a bad bf at times, but then again i can be a bad gf at times, so we balence each other.
Anyways there is this guy that i liked a few years ago. His name is ben. He told me today that he wanted me all to himself, he asked if i felt the same about him. I do but i don't want to hurt my bf, and also i'm starting to fall in love with my bf (even tho he doesn't feel the same).
I don't know what to do, on the one hand i can dump my bf and probbly get treated better.
On the other hand if I stay with my bf, i could very well get dumped by him in another few weeks or months, and probbly loose my chance with ben.
Ethier way its a loose situation for me.
ANd honestly I don't know what to do.
Any advice?
Well, I don't know you, or your boyfriend or Ben, so I'm just going by what you're telling us.
A relationship that's full of so much negativety won't work out. It just doesn't. If one of you isn't happy, then the other won't be happy as well. Plus if your boyfriend doesn't love you back, why on earth would you wanna be with him?!
If you know Ben is going to be better for you, and make you happier, why not go for it? Can it get worse than your current situation with your boyfriend? Not likely.
So basically what's gonna make you happier?
And just so you know, at 5 months of dating, a relationship should not be miserable like yours. It should still be fun and happy and exciting. Your boyfriend should care about you, but if he's not, it's not worth it! Find someone you'll be happy with and who'll treat you the right way. You'll be a good girlfriend to someone like that.
Sorry for the rambling lol, I hope whatever you choose makes you happy. Message me for anything else.
So basically on December 21st, 2012 around 11:11pm the world is supposed to end, and Im freaking out haha. opinions on this?
Did the world end on June 6, 2006?
I don't think so.
Were you freaking out then too? Cause apparently nothing happened.
alright. im an asshole. its as simple as that. im 17, i get with multiple girls at a time, and then get bored and move on. thats just what i do. or did. i dont know. the thing is theres this one chick i really like, or i think i like her alot but theres a problem... she knows me haha. she knows that i play girls all the time, and because of that she wont even give me a chance - not that i can blame her... but still. shes a real good girl. as in, an innocent, clean cut, straight a's, goes to church every sunday kind of girl. not what youd call my usual type. and at first thats why i thought i liked her. she was that innocent girl that i couldnt get so of course i wanted her, but i dont think thats it.. it just doesnt feel like that. i want to protect her, and keep her innocent, ya know? and then i start thinking about doing things with her that i do with other chicks and it makes me sick. and its kind of almost freaking me out. but i really like her (because we do talk, and i think shes one of the VERY few girls that i have a for real friendship with) and i want her to give me a chance and show her that im serious. because i think i am. but i also dont want hurt her. you know, if she were to some way she would possibly give me chance, i dont want to screw up. i dont want screw up with her. god i feel like a loser. what should i do?
Well, you seem actually sincere about this so here goes:
Since she knows about your reputation and doesn't wan't to give you a chance, you have nothing left to do about that for now.
Start by being her friend. The MOST impressive thing to do right now is show her that you are capable of having a TRUE, GENUINE friendship with her. Don't tell her she's pretty/innocent/cute/you-like-her/blahblahblah! Let her know you are interested in being friends....really good friends. She needs to start finding out more about you, not just the girl craze. She'll start appreciating you the more she gets to know about you.
You are already in the "friend-zone" because she doesn't want to date you, so you might as well expand that friend zone into closer friends. Know what I mean?
Once she sees a different side of you, she might open up a little. Now this could take a REALLY long time, because she's a smart girl. And seeing as you feel sick about yourself when you think of playing her, proves that you wont. It's that simple. If you've never felt this way about a girl, then its something you shouldn't let pass by.
Hope this helped, sorry for the rambling lol. Good Luck!
I heard there was going to be a sci-fi movie based on the anime I have watched called Avatar. I don't know if it's entirely true but I'm excited if there really is going to be a movie about it! I heard it's also a 3D film and such. Anyway, I was wondering if there was a way to watch the movie trailer online somewhere...anybody know?
Here's the trailer =]]
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IbimJTppplo
hey im trying to learn american sign language and i printed an alpherbet chart off the internet and i cant seem to find charts of words and common phrases.
does anyone know any good sites that i can find word and phrase charts on american sign language??? (with pictures of the hand movements)
i really want to learn it!! thanks xx
Hi, I have been learning ASL for the last 3 years and the only website online that I like is this one (other websites are outdated and they use different hand signals than the common American will, so I highly recommend this)
http://lifeprint.com/asl101/pages-layout/concepts.htm
and :
http://lifeprint.com/
Good luck! If you have any questions, message my inbox
Why do guys always seem to cheat? I just don't understand it. You give them everything they could possibly want and then you find them flirting with other women and junk. What am I doing wrong? It's like nobody can be faithful anymore
I feel your pain!
Well, psychologically speaking, men can't handle being in relationships. It's like they aren't programed for staying with one female.
But the ones that follow this have no morals.
The ones who cheat aren't worth your time, your energy or even a thought. Laugh at them because they are pathetic. They can have EVERYTHING with you but they stupidely choose the wrong path. They are ridiculous. But when the lucky one comes along, he'll know what you have to offer and he'll be welcoming you with open arms. Don't give up. There are many faithful guys out there, and the ones that arent will be playing the chasing game all their lives.
In the meantime, don't let it get you down. You'll find the one that belongs with you, and when you do, he'll appreciate you and the thought of another woman won't cross his mind.
hi, i am a girl and i was with my friend / gf today. we are lesbians i guess. her parents know but mine didnt. and then my idiot asshole friend, who is a boy, sent me a txt msg talkin about me and my gf. my dad decided to read my txts. he saw it. now im flippin out and so r my parents!!!! my gf and i fear we will never be able to see each other again. MY FUCKING FRIENDS SUCK!!!! what do i do? my gf and i are hysterical and idk wat to do. plz help me :(!!!!
First of all, it's not your friends fault in anyway. If you didn't want your parents to know, you should of been careful with who reads your text messages, or not have told that friend.
Second, tell your parents how it is. Unlike the comment below mine that said "fuck your parents", you should give them a chance to understand, so sit down and have a talk with them. Tell them they aren't able to control who you like or fall in love with, so either they accept it or they don't, it won't matter cause either way it's gonna happen.
Third, calm down. You need to handle this maturely, not like a five year old. If your parents see you're acting mature about this, they might be a little more accepting to what you have to say rather than if they see a temper tantrum. Think it through logically and then talk to your parents.
Good luck.
are they all for girls?
or is it like a thing both girls a boys can get.
cuz i want girl ones you know?
well i dont think they make girl/boy ones. it's unisex.
i have the 'Morbid Metals Flared Plug' gauges, and all my female friends do.
it just depends on your style =]]
im thinkin of getting some.
i want to get them online tho.
so im starting with an 18 gauge.
for my ears.
anyone have a site that has inexpensive gauges that are cute?
thanks!
i like the ones at hot topic, they have a huge variety, and i buy mine here.
here's the link :
http://search.hottopic.com/search?bmForm=frm_ht_search&bmFormID=1250695581352&bmUID=1250695581352&bmIsForm=true&bmPrevTemplate=%2Fhottopic%2Fstore%2FNodes.jsp&bmHidden=pricelistname&pricelistname=PRC_USA_Standard&bmHidden=SEARCH_INPUT%3C%3EATR_Available_In_Inventory&SEARCH_INPUT%3C%3EATR_Available_In_Inventory=true&bmHidden=p&p=Q&bmHidden=ts&ts=custom&bmHidden=asug&bmText=w&w=gauge&bmImage=submit_search.x&bmImage=submit_search.y&bmImage=submit_search&bmFields=bmForm%2CbmFormID%2CbmUID%2CbmIsForm%2CbmPrevTemplate%2CbmHidden%2CbmText%2CbmImage&bmHash=6eedfe53a560ad80951a9e74a74e06f9f0d01052
Okay, i was at a party last night nadi heard these songs but i didnt know what the title was.
I know one song was by busta rhymes, but it had an old song in it like "im here without you baby, your still on my lonely mind, i think about you baby and i dream about you all the time" .. something like that, its like in the song as the chours or somethingg
and there was this one song, the piano was the backround music, it was about raping and killing his mother, i dunno thats what they were talking about... it was kinda creepy but it was a good songg!
thank you so much in advance!
the first song that you described is the remix of "here without you"
It's "Here without you remix" by 3 Doors Down & Jay-Z
Here's the link to the song : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MpcXaZxHmHc
the second song you're talking about doesn't have enough information, but the first thing that pops into mind is "Cleaning out my closet" by Eminem. It goes something like : I'm sorry momma, I never meant to hurt you, I never meant to make you cry but tonight I'm cleaning out my closet"
Could that be it?
Here's the link to this song :
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=egaLLElOQks
Hope these were right!
i am obsessed with twilight and its kind of awesome but i like it so much it drives me nuts because i want to be the people in the book! its just so darn romantic, and its the first romantic book iv'e read. i used to be obsessed with it a long time ago and i would cry because i wanted their life and romance and blah blah blah. this time its not that bad but i hate that it's not real. what can i do? i dont want to get over it but i do? *NOTE: i am only 13.
I understand you because I like the book too, but you have to realize that everything you read really isn't perfect. I can go into great detail about this, but that would take to long, however.... for instance, their love ISN'T perfect, for one thing Edward is completely & unbearably overprotective, not allowing Bella to do a lot of different things.
Your own romance WILL COME ALONG. I'm pretty sure it won't be at 13, but later in your life. And it will be romantic and breathtaking and you won't even think about this book while it goes on. You will be all but consumed by reality that you won't want a book, because the book won't be as good! You have to realize that this book is made to capture, and it does just that. I suggest reading other books in the meantime, and after a while you'll be fine. Ofcourse, if you keep reading it, you'll just be consumed by it, and you need to be living reality, not some book.
Good luck!
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