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What was your first kiss like?


Question Posted Wednesday September 9 2009, 3:11 pm

When I was 12 I had my first kiss with this boy that i really liked at the movies, and it was pretty funny it was bad lol. but after that i learned that its not that big of a deal lol and the rest were better ha so anyone have funny first kiss experinces?

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MAK answered Wednesday September 9 2009, 10:41 pm:
Mine was strange and terrifying.

I was fifteen, I went to the movies with my friend and her cousin, who was 17 at the time. I have briefly talked to him once before, and he was flirting with me big time. I was really flattered by that so that kind of made me attracted to him.

So it was the movie, and we were whispering to each other, and out of nowhere he suddenly put his face near mine. I realize he wants to kiss me so I put my head down, completely freaked out. So I'm pretty much shaking because I'm so nervous, and he does it again! So this time we just kinda rub noses and then he just pecks me on the lips. His lips were really soft, smooth, and squishy, and honestly, I didn't like how it felt at all.

But because I wanted him to think I was a good kisser, I let him keep giving me little pecks, and then all of a sudden he asks me if I would be his girlfriend! Shocked I say yes. He then leans in to kiss me again, and I think now here comes a real kiss, and it was a bit longer, and a few seconds in I'm thinking hmmm, I guess this is the part where I stick my tongue in his mouth. I was near panic attack then, and my mouth was completely dry, and I felt my tongue brush his teeth, so I guess his mouth was open too, but I guess he didn't like it because he pulled away. Anyways, mortifying, terrifying experience for me. Oh, and did I mention he spoke almost no English?

Anyways, we went out for about a month, I never got used to the idea of him kissing me, and by the end of the month I was almost nauseated thinking about it, so I broke up with him. But he actually was not a bad person, it was just the kissing that was bad. Oh and he never wanted to french kiss, and my friend said that he doesn't do it ever, so it wasn't just me.

So that was my really long story about my first kiss =)

Not a good experience for me, and something I try to forget.

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christina answered Wednesday September 9 2009, 7:14 pm:
Mine was actually kinda horrible. :(

I was around 12 or 13, and my "friends" at the time were very rude & forceful, and I hadn't learned to stand up for myself yet so I let people push me into things I was uncomfortable with and walk over me.

Well, I was riding my bike and the boy that liked me (who I also happened to like) was walking around near my street (he only lived a street away) and my friends were at the corner and they decided to make us kiss. I didn't want to, but they kind of held my bike hostage & said if I didn't kiss him, I wouldn't get my bike back.

So, it was forced, awkward, and I was really pissed off in the end. I wasn't friends with them the next year, and that was that. However kisses after that were better because I felt comfortable and it was something I wanted to do, not something I was forced to do. Thank god that was like 5-6 years ago. :)

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modelkate11 answered Wednesday September 9 2009, 5:20 pm:
Mine was in my first boyfriend's grandma's computer room. We were talking to my best friend online and she asked if we had kissed yet and I typed "not yet but hold on" and as my boyfriend at the time was walking out the door I grabbed him and turned him around and kissed him, very sloppily and I tripped a little on my own foot so he had to catch me. I laugh about it now but I'm still secretly a little mortified. Haha

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es answered Wednesday September 9 2009, 4:40 pm:
Mine was SOOO AWKWARD! I couldn't move! I froze! And when I say froze, I mean it.
He came in to kiss me (and he was a lot older so he definately knew what he was doing) and I didn't move. Just stood there, not even moving my lips. He somehow like it tho? hahaha weirdest experience. I wouldn't kiss anyone after that for a while cause I was scared it would happen again. Thank GOD I got over that!

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