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Boyfriend trouble
♥ok i found about this website by my friend MysteryJay anyway,
I was gonna ask how do u handle with your boyfriend living so far away and his parents and my mom doesnt want us dating, but my mom jsut handles it, but his mom doesnt want us dating cause im black and live in a different state. My boyfriend is white.
Also he says he wont cheat on me and i want to believe him but he lives so far away so how am i suppose to really be a 100% sure.
I want to live with him forever and he says he wants to live with me forever too. But his mom doesnt like us dating so you think we'll ever eb able to see each other in real life? he lives in PA and i live in MO. Please help me if you can.♥
Jaklin
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Hi,
I'll tell you my opinion but you have to remember that I dont know you, or your boyfriend, or his/your parents. I don't know your age as well, but here goes: (And I hope I help)
Lets target the first problem: His parents. They don't want him seeing you. Once he turns 18, there's nothing they can legally do. Until then, they have all the right (Unfortunately) to keep him away from you. Now even though his mom doesn't like you dating.... you two still are. Which means that she might not like it, but she's not doing anything to stop it. However, if he starts talking about meeting up with you, she might not allow it, so be careful not to push her over the edge.
Second : You're afraid he'll cheat. In my opinion (and from personal experience) I NEVER go into a relationship if I have a DOUBT that the person will cheat. Each time I wasn't sure about the person, I ended up getting cheated on. I did the long distance thing and personally, it didn't work. I'm 17, and the guy is 17 and he's been my best friend (still is) since we were 5. IT DIDN'T WORK! Not because we don't love each other or because I was afraid he'd cheat....but because he lives in NY and I live in FL.
If you're not 100% positive he'll stay loyal to you, then it's a waste of time. I know you love him, but you can always have a relationship together when you both are 18 and legally can move in together without worrying about parents and etc.
I can't decide what to do for you, only you can. But if I were you, I'd stay in touch with him and be great friends, and then when you both are of legal age, you can move in together if that's what you want and this way you can keep an eye on him so he wont cheat.
I hope this helped....lemme know if there's anything else I can help you with.
Good luck!
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