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Hey people my name is Christan. I'm 17 years old I am a junior I have been through a lot in my life I have a dad somewhere out there that I don't know. He left me when I was born my mom and my step dad were in big time drugs we did not have really any money we had to steal from stores to get food we got food from churches. If it weren't for my grandpa they would have been living on the streets.

So now I am adopted and am doing a lot better then what I would have been doing.

Obviously if your reading this then you are on my page then you will know that I am good at answering love questions, friendship questions, and computer questions so if you ask a question I will try to answer it as best as I can. Thanks!!!


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when is it going to get warmer? i need to work out soon outside but its too cold

i thought global warming would warm the earth?

Ok first do you have any signs that there is "Global Warming" personally I think its a load of crap thats what I think. Ok the scientists said that it was going to be the warmest year yet. YEA RIGHT!! I dont believe in it my parent my family does not believe in it my few friends dont believe in it either. SO I dont mean to be mean but I think its a load of garbage to be honest with you thats my opinion. SORRY!!

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something happened with my boyfriend (ive been dating him for almost 3 years) and his dad and now he's moving to his mom's house in indiana (i live in illinois). what can i do to not be so upset over this? i'm afraid he's going to forget about me and leave me for someone else.

Well I'm going through the same thing the girl that answered this (chica_chick666) well she is my girlfriend and she lives 4 hours away from me and I think it sucks but I really love her so I'm waiting and oh I just saw the additional information and thats really good that you are not breaking up thats good. People say thats it's really hard to keep a long relationship and it is but you dont need to listen to other people just focus on you two not others stay faithful. Hope this helps!

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15/f

So, I realize "love" between two people can make happiness for them and some degree of comfort. I haven't had a steady boyfriend for basically two years, so I don't understand what's so attractive about the whole thing.

Sometimes I will be sitting on the couch and I will see some show about people being in love and my chest will completely tighten and I will wish that it was me. But really, when I think about it I don't understand what is so fantastic.

I know that part of this may just be that I don't know the "right guy".. but why is being in love so great? What happens?

Thanks =)

Being in love with someone gives you so much comfort they say that its better to marry (not saying that you are planning on getting married yet)then to be alone. being with someone gives you peace and you don't stress that much because your bf or gf will be with you when you need something love is an awesome thing that you cant take for granted the one chica_chick666 that answered this is my girlfriend and I love her very much and the bad thing is that she lives in a different state she lives 4 hours from me but our love is that strong that I am willing to wait but yea. Love is a great thing that you cant take it for granted its like your parents you love them right for a bf or gf you need to have that same love as you would your parents. I hope this helped. Need anymore help you can leave a message in my inbox.

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I always feel so self conshess[[ya I know I spelt that wrong]] I think its because I have so many zits: http://usera.imagecave.com/linzbaby/Extras/0000000.JPG

I mean, I like my figure. I have never had a weight problem or anything, im not the chestiest person though: http://usera.imagecave.com/linzbaby/Extras/standinup.JPG

I look better without zits, but im still not pretty: http://usera.imagecave.com/linzbaby/Extras/huh.JPG

The bottom line is, do you have any tips or anything for me to improve my looks?

P.S. Im not here for pity. Just tell me exactley what you think.

Wow I don't thing I can help cause I cat see a spot oh yea I can use a program to darken the light let me see I mean you don't look bad at all. Ok I used a program to lighten up the picture and is it on your forehead and right cheek cause I don't know if it is but the exposure of the picture is showing that maybe its heat I don't know but if you will let me know that would be great. Well if you do have zits I feel your pain but I use a product called acnefree it's compared to proactive and costs a lot cheaper I hope this helped and I'm sorry if it did not help.

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If a guy asks me, out of no where, if I have a boyfriend... what does it mean?

That means he could be interested in you

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my best friend who i have gotten to kno this school year. has been geting into alot of trouble with her pranets lately and is now sexually active. she barely hangs out wit us at school cuz she is too busy making out with difrernt boys and we don't ever go out to like the movies cuz she is having sex with them (diferent boi per night)..my friends n i are debating if we should tel her off that she is a bad influence and our true feelings towards her but we don't know if thaT would be right to do...we are confused..help us out.

Well it sounds like you need to tell her off cause it sounds like she has no interest of being you friend anymore so I would tell her off and say whats got into you and I'm sure she will probably fill guilt. Well I hope this helps.

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okay. to start off, i'm a 15/f freshman in highschool. i have 2 best friends, we'll call them l and p... basically we're like a little group that does everything together and is never separated. i've been friends with p since like kindergarden and with l since about 4th grade. then in middle school we kinda distinguised ourselves as a little group. like you know how people make up a little name like car and say their names are carrie, ashley and rebecca or something... yeah that's what my friends and i made up with our names. so that's our little thing but anyway that's not the point...

the point is that now that we've started highschool, my friend p has started to, change? i mean obviously people are gonna change...idk. ok. me and l are pretty shy. p is shy too but not as much as us. p is doing sports all seasons and has made friends through that. l and i aren't doing any sports or clubs right now. well like i wanna do volleyball in the fall but that would be sophomore year... so yeah, i know i should do something but i think it's too late...

from thursday to tuesday, p went on a trip to florida with her band classes & like the marching band. l and i didn't go. (we don't do band) ok so anyway, basically every day she was texting and calling me. at first i didn't mind, but then l brought it up to me that she didn't text or call her at all. l was getting mad and talking soo much about p behind her back, i kinda just went along with it b/c i know if i was l i would feel the same way. k so at first i didn't mind hearing from p, but then she started becoming a little...idk, conceited? she was saying how she was hanging out with 11 guys, and some girls..including one guy who i kinda like, and of course she now has a crush on.

p finally texted l back after a while, and l had said something like, are you too cool now or did you fall off the face of the earth? (because she didnt hear from her) and p texted back like, yeah i am too cool now im hanging out with 11 guys hahaha jk. obviously a part of her wasn't kidding though.

and then like l gets all pissed and like i feel the same way but i know if i was in p's position i would probably be really ecstatic too. i really don't know what my question is but like, what should i do? i always get stuck in the middle of these things, and l always has to say something behind p's back whenever p does something she doesnt like. i understand l sometimes but most of the time i really don\'t wanna hear her talking about her. so what should i do? we're fine now in school and everything but i'm just sick of this.

plus i've know them forever and my shyness doesn't help. they are my only 2 friends i can be my true self around. i know i need to make new friends but. i wish i could start over freshman year =\ ok so i guess my question is, what should i do about my friends? should i say something to them about this? and also how can i break out of my shyness? thank you so much if you read all of this. i'm soo sorry about the length.

Don't worry about the length I have seen A LOT LONGER. Well anyways you should talk to your friends about your problem let them know how you feel and hopefully they will understand how you feel and they will if they are true friends. But the shyness thing ok well you need to open up more open up to more people talk to other people get to know them. I hope this helps if you have anymore questions leave me a message in my inbox or how bout you leave that message in this Columnist her screen name is chica_chick666 she is the best and can really help she does not turn down a question and can really help she is my girlfriend she is even listed on my colomn under favorite Columnists she is the only one on my list so give it a try. Hope that helps. Tell me how it goes.

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I have mass friends at school, but recently I come to find out, several of them are getting pregnant, and having kids. It's not like they are twenty or something. Otherwise, I wouldn't care because they're old enough (I think). They are ranging from 14 to 17 years old.

I find it seriously ridiculous that my friends are just having sex like it's nothing, and end up getting pregnant. In fact, a few of those people are Christians, and told me so many times they would never do that and it's pathetic. Months later, they find a guy, have sex with them, and they leave my friends. Later on coming to find out they are pregnant and have the kid.

If it was like 1 or 2 people, I would understand. But it's becoming an epidemic almost at my school. Approximately 10 girls are pregnant (whom are my friends), and another 5 had their kid within the last year.

Don't criticize me of my opinion though because I really can't help it. I am a Christian, I love my friends, I still pray for them, and support them. But I just get so mad thinking about it, like they basically ruined what was going for them. A friend of mine wanted to leave her house (family problems) and become a Vet. Now she got pregnant, and she is stuck there in poverty. Can't even afford a decent meal for her and her child, since her family is stuck on welfare and social security for paying for other things. Her boyfriend like left her, so there is very little for her and her son. She is battling for the father to pay for child support.

Please don't get me wrong to whoever has been in that situation of getting pregnant at an early age. I can see the struggle in it, and the effects, but seeing my friends make bad choices just angers me because I want them to have self-respect, and do something successful. I am quite prude, so don't judge me on that, and you can't blame me at some extent. I feel guilty for basically not trying to understand the reasons why it happened, and the circumstances. It's hard to understand.

So, my question is, how can I get over this?? I've been trying for a long time to get over it, but more people getting pregnant, so my anger comes back.

Please remember I am not here to judge, criticize, or offend anyone here, so don't take it personally. I just need advice, please. Thanks!

Well you cant linger on the mistakes other people has done you cave to forget about it and move on. It's sad to see Christian's do such a thing its really sad to see what the world has become and how the world acts. So my advice is to just forgive and forget you need to forget what you friends did and pray for them. You need to pray for them that this epidemic will stop and that the people will thing before they do something that serious. well I hope this helped. Need anymore help leave a message in my inbox or email me at christian_grg@hotmail.com. thanks

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I wear Axe spray deoderant and since its smell is overbearing, I also wear Aeropostale A87 cologne and I try to spray a lot on, because I tend to sweat a lot during the day, and sometimes I start to have some unwanted B.O.
What is a reliable and long-lasting deoderant to have, because my axe obviously isn't working.

Thanks for any suggestions, and please say what's good about the deoderant you mention.

Try oldspice its really good it smells good and it lasts a long time ever since I have used it I don't smell any B.O. I guess it depends on your type of body but i suggest you try oldspice arctic force its high endurance and it works I hope this helped.

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when you date a guy, but he doesn't send anything to you or call you or email you or anything on Valentine's day.

Do you just break up with him? Or you call and ask him what's going on?

Well I'm a guy and a lot of guys are shy about doing thing like that they thing its kinda weird until there mom does it for them and help them. But I would just call him and ask him how everything is going forgive and forget. I'm sure he still loves you me and my girlfriend went to a dance for well it was not really Valentines Day she lives in a different state which sucks but it keeps me motivated but just ask him how things are going and tell him that you miss him. I hope this helps!!

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Ugh. I hate to talk about global warming and pollution and stuff, but... What is pollution like in colorado???

First of all I really dont believe in Global Warming I mean what the hell it has not even happened yet and dont even believe it will happen. Do you believe in Global Warming? I thing its all bullshit to be honest with you but thats my opinion my dad does not even believe in it. Oh the pollution in Colorado is pretty good its alright hope this helps lol.

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basic thing is i know she is not interested in more than friendship and same is with me also...
i am somehow unable to understand her nature>>>

Hey I'm a little confused how bout you send me an email on a little detail and i will try to answer it as best as i can. my email is christian_grg@hotmail.com. thanks.

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14/f
i've liked a guy named .. dan, scine i was in 2nd grade, we went out when i was in 4th through 5th. but then 6th through 8th [until now, im in 8th]] grade, i was over him. and last weekend we hung out, flirted. he lives next store to me, so were on the same bus and today he sat with me and we listened to his ipod. my plams got all sweaty, and my plams never get sweaty. i was nervous about like what to say and stuff. i neverrr get nervous with other guys! but valentines day is soon, and i wanna like .. make a move on him. i dont know like how i should. how should i? how should i even let him know i like him?

Well when you go out with him again you should ask him if he likes you then if sh says yes just say that I like you too or you can just tell him straight up and tell him. You are lucky you get to see your bf are whatever u call him my girlfriend lives in a different state and i don't get to spend Valentines Day with her well actually i kinda had my Valentines Day already I went to a dance with her and i had a great time with her and we Frenched so it was fun well i hope this helped even though i kinda told you to much lol about my life.

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I'm a freshman highschool girl and this year I've really grown up this year. You could say I've grown into my looks. I stand with the same group of people every morning before classes and every morning I get these little smiles from the guys. They also look at me then when i turn around to look at them they quickly look away and then say something and kinda point at me. Is this a good or bad thing? I think its good but I don't want to get my hopes up too high. So what are the guys saying/thinking? Boys answers would really help but girls should answer too.

Thanks in advance:]

It sounds like the guys do like you because when the look at you and then when you look at them they turn away real fast that is a sign that they like you. They probably talk about you a lot in a good way. Hope this helps.

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What do i do about my bf???!!!

I would break up with him first cause he is cheating on you and that’s not right I know I'm a guy but girls really like how I act im not like most guys they say so I’m going to answer this but yea I would break up with him first and that’s the final answer it would probably break his heart to hear you say that but he deserves it. I hope this helps.

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First off, I'm 16/f. I'm not sure that helps, but whatever.

My life is a mess. Let me explain:

I dislike my school a lot. The kids there are loud, obnoxious, rude, inconsiderate, & idiotic. I know ALL of them since I've been going to school with them since 2nd grade. I know their types, I know how they act, what they think & how they think. I have about 11 friends throughout my whole school. Those are the ones I can count on. Outside of school, I have about 20-25 friends tops. Not a lot. A lot of people in my life have done things to screw me over, so I eventually got sick of it & pushed them away from me. I don't trust many people, or like very many either. I don't like my school because it's like a prison. We have cops there. My school was NEVER bad until this year. All the new kids coming in made fights with each other, and it's just unbearable. I had 3 girls wanting to jump me because of something they THOUGHT I did. I told them I didn't do it. I can fight, but when three 200lb bitches wanna fight me, I can't fend for myself. I'm tiny, but I hit hard. But they've stopped bothering me. I just don't like my school. The teachers give me a hard time, and I hardly ever go. I've got an easy temper and it takes a lot for me to stop myself from hitting people on a daily basis. These kids just piss me off and I just wanna kill them all. I can't stand see their stupid, ugly faces anymore. I'm sick of them & their bullshit.

I hate most of my family. My aunt & her husband always fight, so going anywhere with them for more than a few hours is really unenjoyable. I honestly don't know how he stands her. I feel bad for him. As for my aunt's daughter: I hope the bitch ends her life. Yeah, that's my cousin, but lately she's been talking shit about me saying all this crap that's not even true. She said I wasn't pretty, and that I was fat, and that I had no friends. I've got friends, but we've lost touch because they've hardly got time for me, and I'm not gonna wait around. If they're not gonna make an effort, well then neither am I. I'm pretty, but I'm not gorgeous. I have really low confidence, and she doesn't exactly help the situation. I'm not fat. I'm not thin. I'm inbetween, and according to most people, I'm exactly the right size. I sort of like my size. There's only two things I'd actually change about my body, and that's it. She's not exactly skinny either. I told her what I thought about her, and she called me with her bullshit. I just told her to kill herself, & left it at that. As for my parents & older brother...they drive me INSANE. My brother's sort of inconsiderate. He does the stupidest things, and I can't stand it. I put my hand through a window a couple weeks ago because of him. And I'm gonna fail my classes because of him. We have to share our computer & whenever I need it, he makes an excuse to stay online. He doesn't go to school, so he honestly has no reason to be online. All he does on his MySpace is add those skanks who barely have anything on in their pictures. He doesn't even know half of his damn friends on that site. As for my parents, they wanna move back to the city, and I'm not having it. I've lived in the city, and when I did live there, nothing was wrong with it. Now there's all this crime & crap, and I've got a lot of nice things. I'm not gonna go to school so I can get jumped for my shit everyday. I like what I've got, and I'm not gonna let anybody kick my ass for it. And I'm not living in the city. I honestly rather hear the fire sirens from down the street then hear gunshots & all that stupid shit. I can't stand the city. I'm not gonna get raped, jumped or shot because the taxes there are lower than the taxes are where I live. I don't like where I live, but I don't like the city either. I don't know anybody in the city, which you might see as a plus, but I don't like being by myself. And it gives them all the more reason to jump me. Nobody likes the quiet kid. Trust me. And my mom just makes me mad. She always touches me [not innappropriately], but she just touches my shoulder or whatever, or my face and I hate it. I HATE being touched. I just don't like it. It's annoying to be constantly touched, and have people's hands in your face. It kinda makes me wanna smack the shit out of her. I realize that's my mother, she gave birth to me, blahblahblah, but I've got no respect for her if she's got none for me. We usually get along, but she can be really annoying sometimes. My dad on the other hand, pfft. He might as well not even be a father. He comes home whenever he wants, we eat when he decides he wants to go to the store, and then we eat what he wants to eat. And my mom thinks he's cheating on her. =/ I don't think he is because I think it's silly, but there's always a slight chance he is. Nobody works an extra 10 hours a day when they're not supposed to. It just doesn't work that way. My mom & brother always get on my case about eating. I eat when I'm bored, because I've got nothing better to do. I like food, and that's that, but they always yell at me for eating. If they keep yelling at me for eating, I'm just gonna stop altogether & be anorexic. Or I'm just gonna throw it all up for them & ask them if they're happy. I swear, nothing I do pleases them.

My parents play favorites too. They let my brother do whatever he wants because he's older & he's a boy. When he was 13 he was going to the movies, and have girlfriends & hanging out & doing whatever the hell he wanted. But when I was thirteen, I was staying home everyday, not hanging out with people, and not having a boyfriend. Everyone says "Oh, well 13 is too young to have a boyfriend/girlfriend." Well, I have to have some kind of happiness, correct? I wasn't allowed to have a boyfriend until I was sixteen, but somehow I sweettalked my parents into it. And now I can have one. But I don't get why he gets to do whatever he wants, but then if I wanna do it, it's like a sin or whatever. I told my mother a couple of weeks ago I didn't believe in God, and she FLIPPED. Saying all this shit about "OMFG, YOU WERE BORN AND RAISED A CATHOLIC, WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU DON'T BELIEVE IN GOD!?" And I just told her how illogical it seemed to me. The thought of a being creating everything you know & love just seems so unreal & unethical. How does one likely being just create everything? It's impossible. I'm not saying that science created everything, but a person sure didn't. It's not logical. It just..it just isn't.

As for my personal life: I've got a boyfriend. He's amazing. I've known him since I was 12, and we just started dating about 2 months ago in December. Thing is, he's a marine. He's in Iraq right now & I wanna blow my head off because I can't stand the distance. I'm not gonna dump him because for one, he's halfway across the world, and it'd make me look bad, and I hate hurting people. And that'd crush him. He'd have NO reason to come home if I did that. And I love him too much to give him up. But, I hate not being able to call him whenever I want to, or being able to hug & kiss him when I need to. Or being able to call him when I'm mad & telling him to come & get me for a little while so I can get away from my parents. I HATE THAT. I hate the fact he's a marine, I hate the fact he's in Iraq & I hate the fact that I have to wait a really long time before I can see him again. And I don't get to hear from him very often. I realize he's busy doing marine things & whatnot, but hearing his voice is so reassuring. Whenever I don't talk to him I think the worst. I'm thinking he got shot, or blown up, or he's hurt, or something of a bad matter. And I can't help it. I had two friends go there & they promised to come back & died a month apart from each other & I don't want him in that same situation. I worry about him, & he worries about me even though he shouldn't. I just don't want a phone call saying "Your boyfriend's hurt" or "Your boyfriend's dead. I'm sorry." I'd fall to pieces if that happened. I wouldn't know what to do without him. I've liked him for so long and if I lost him to a war, my life would pretty much be over. I miss him & I can't do it anymore. I can't live. I feel like I shouldn't be. He's actually the only reason why I haven't killed myself yet. I'm suicidal but haven't cut in months because of him. I don't wanna cut, but I feel like if things keep going the way they are, I'm gonna start up again.

My life's just upside down & I can't stand it. I'm on probation, I'm in PINS...my grades suck & just everything is fucked up. I don't know what to do anymore.

I've been to counseling before, but it just didn't work, and I've got no one to talk to about anything because I don't have that many people I'm close to since they did things to screw me over. I just wanna know what you guys think I should do.

Wow that was really long but it was worth reading and I'm really sorry all of things you have been through my life was not the best I was adopted. Ok I don't know my really dad he left me when I was born they don't know if he is really alive they have no proof that he even exists I thing my mom lied about my real dads name so I have to live with that for the rest of my life. My life was pretty much screwed up my step dad and my mom were in to big time drugs I got taken away and it hurts to even think about it my current mom brings up the fucking subject and she does not know how much it hurts me to hear that. I just recently found out that my brother was diagnosed bipolar and my real mom has cancer and they said she has 18 months to live but I don't know if she is telling the truth because she has lied to me before just because she wants to see me like why can't she just say that she wants to see me so I really see your point. Its really hard to think about all of that you have been going through and how fucked up your life is and my life but you have to look for the better you need to turn your life around talk to your friends that will understand. Other friends seem to have more of an influence on us more then our parents do if you feel like you need to talk to your parent then you need to do what you need to do. I know what counseling is like it does not seem to work I had to go because I was suffering from major depression I would beat up my brother on the way to school I have a really bad temper when I get one I practically put holes in my wall I break things and I fell like I can take on the world. It's nice to vent your anger on someone who shares common things and has been through a lot just like I have My girlfriend lives in a different state and yea it sucks I cant even drive yet are I would go up there whenever I felt like it. I have thought of suicide before and I could not imagine ever doing it cause of my girlfriend who has been through a lot to and has been through every step with me.

All I can say is you are the one who needs to turn your life around and you need to know that there are worse people out there that has it worse then you would probably ever dream of I know that counseling does not work I know that and you know that to but you are the one who needs to change.

About cutting yourself I have done that before and have a friend that does that but I don’t cut myself anymore. You need to stay positive about things look towards brighter things you are the only one that can make yourself change no one else can make you change.

I hope this helps and I’m really sorry if it does not but if it does and have anymore questions you can leave a message in my inbox and I will try to get back at you with the best answer I can and my girlfriend can help to she is good her name is chica_chick666 she can really help to she is awesome well good luck with all of that you are going through. If you do need anymore help don’t hesitate to email me or just leave a message in my inbox my email is christian_grg@hotmail.com . Thanks!!

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i am 19 male, i have this friend who is girl.. let me first make it clear that i am just interested in friendship with her...

i ll start from the beginning, about in the starting of this year at college, she joined our friend cirle..we were having no problems, and helped her in whatever way possible regarding her relation with her boyfriend. however she had a small fight with one of the friends.. she didnt feel comfortable being with us any more...she joined an another friend circle... now she continues to talk to me... she share her thoughts with me that she shares with no one else{atleast as far as i believe}... recently she broke up with her boy friend also at the same time her mother fell ill, she asked for my help and i helped her in whatever way possible...

but for past sometime i am feeling that she is only using me whenever she requires me... i wonder many a times that what is my importance in her life but dont know should i ask directly her or not?? what should i do?? should ask her and how should i ask her??? i really want to know about her feelings for me...

It sounds like this girl just needs someone to talk to because she is depressed because her mother is feeling ill and she does not know how to handle with it. And I think this girl can probably like you to because she is opening up to you I would just try to get to know her and just ask her out then when you go out ask her if she likes you then if she does she does and if she doesn't she doesn't but I'm sure she like you she sounds like she does like you cause girls usually talk to other girls about stuff there going through so I would just ask her out then ask her. I hope this helped. Tell me how it goes. If you have any other question you can leave a message in my inbox. Thanks!!

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so today in mustang time (its like homeroom) we got to write an anonymous question about anything in highschool or just anything. well instead after the bell rang i asked about my boyfriend. and i said how i knew his family cant afford a psychologist or anything so she told me to go to my school counselor since its obviously out of my hands and see how they could help him. so i came home and told him about it and hes mad at me. he said he wanted it only between us and now he cant trust me with his feelings and how hes not going to tell me them anymore. i told him i was just trying to help and he said he knew that but it would just make things worse. hes going through court right now and their trying to take him away because hes there for "endangerment to himself and others" so if they found out he was seeing a counselor or something they would know he does need help, and they would take him away. so thats why he was so mad. so then i said well i'd rather have you be happy and gone, than staying how you are now. and then he was saying how he wouldnt be happy without me, which i do know it would just make him worse. so i dont know what to do. i do nott want him getting taken away, but i do want him to get help. i know by trying to get him help was the right thing to do, but im not so sure about the time right now (with this whole court thing) advice please?

Well my girlfriend who answered this first is exactly right it was the right thing to try to help him even though he got mad at you it seems like he does not want you to try to help. But I suggest you try to help in anyway you can even though he does not want you to just be careful how you try to help cause your boyfriend can break up with you. My advice is to talk to him and tell him that you are sorry that you tried to help. Comfort him and just pray for the best. I hope everything turns out the way you want them to if you need anymore help email me or just leave a message in my inbox tell me how everything goes. Thanks!!

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ok this is for guys...
ok i like this guy...what are signs that a guy is interested?

i'd rather guys answer like what they normally do or tell tale signs...but girls can answer too

thanks!

if it helps im 14/f

well he will flirt with you and you probably know this but he will act kinda dumb around you he will want to be around you a lot thats all i can really say cause thats what guys will do. I hope this helps.

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17/female:
I'm having a confusing problem...

I've been going out with my boyfriend for 11 months (1 year in March). And for a while now I've been kinds thinking like where is our relationship going? Things aren't the same as they were in the beginning and I feel like i'm getting "bored".

I was rushed into the relationship because he fell for me straight away, so I guess I kinda went along with it and then grew to like him later on and hence why we stayed together.

Anyways I went away on holiday with my college to barcelona for a week, and Me and my friend were hanging out with these cool and REALLY good looking guys (that came with us but we haven't really spoken to before because we were new). She told me that she thinks one of them liked me but I thought she was just making things up and I just brushed it off thinking that he was only being friendly.
However when I came back from the trip, I get a text from him saying that he likes me and wants to go out with me. I told him I have a boyfriend and he's still interested.

The problem is that I really like him and I think that he's SOOOOOOO good looking and has a nice personality (really caring etc..). And i'm already going off my boyfriend so what should I do?

Should I dump my boyfriend and see what happens with this guy or what? Because even if I do dump my boyfriend I wouldn't just be doing it to go out with this guy.

Please help, sorry its so long!

Don't worry bout it being long trust me I have seen longer about a page and a half so don't worry but this is what I'm going to say I think you should keep your boyfriend cause it seems to me like he really does like you since you said that he fell for you. So thats my advice I hope this helped. I guess I could say this that it is better to go out with someone you really know. But if you really want to go out with this new guy then no one is stopping you. So you have to make the decision whether or not you want to go out with your boyfriend or the new guy. But really I hope this helped. Good luck.

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