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so today in mustang time (its like homeroom) we got to write an anonymous question about anything in highschool or just anything. well instead after the bell rang i asked about my boyfriend. and i said how i knew his family cant afford a psychologist or anything so she told me to go to my school counselor since its obviously out of my hands and see how they could help him. so i came home and told him about it and hes mad at me. he said he wanted it only between us and now he cant trust me with his feelings and how hes not going to tell me them anymore. i told him i was just trying to help and he said he knew that but it would just make things worse. hes going through court right now and their trying to take him away because hes there for "endangerment to himself and others" so if they found out he was seeing a counselor or something they would know he does need help, and they would take him away. so thats why he was so mad. so then i said well i'd rather have you be happy and gone, than staying how you are now. and then he was saying how he wouldnt be happy without me, which i do know it would just make him worse. so i dont know what to do. i do nott want him getting taken away, but i do want him to get help. i know by trying to get him help was the right thing to do, but im not so sure about the time right now (with this whole court thing) advice please?
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Well my girlfriend who answered this first is exactly right it was the right thing to try to help him even though he got mad at you it seems like he does not want you to try to help. But I suggest you try to help in anyway you can even though he does not want you to just be careful how you try to help cause your boyfriend can break up with you. My advice is to talk to him and tell him that you are sorry that you tried to help. Comfort him and just pray for the best. I hope everything turns out the way you want them to if you need anymore help email me or just leave a message in my inbox tell me how everything goes. Thanks!!
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Most of the time things work out on there own. It was nice that your tryed to help but most poeple dont want help they feel its there problem and they have to work it out on their own. Even though it is not just there problem it effects everyone around them and they can get help. Im sorry for your boyfriend i have gone through the same thing. But you have to remind him of the people that love him and need him to stay alive, sometimes thats what you need to hear. You did a good thing trying to help but at this moment he does not want it and he does not understand that it will help.
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