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Why do people want to be loved?
15/f
So, I realize "love" between two people can make happiness for them and some degree of comfort. I haven't had a steady boyfriend for basically two years, so I don't understand what's so attractive about the whole thing.
Sometimes I will be sitting on the couch and I will see some show about people being in love and my chest will completely tighten and I will wish that it was me. But really, when I think about it I don't understand what is so fantastic.
I know that part of this may just be that I don't know the "right guy".. but why is being in love so great? What happens?
Thanks =)
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Being in love with someone gives you so much comfort they say that its better to marry (not saying that you are planning on getting married yet)then to be alone. being with someone gives you peace and you don't stress that much because your bf or gf will be with you when you need something love is an awesome thing that you cant take for granted the one chica_chick666 that answered this is my girlfriend and I love her very much and the bad thing is that she lives in a different state she lives 4 hours from me but our love is that strong that I am willing to wait but yea. Love is a great thing that you cant take it for granted its like your parents you love them right for a bf or gf you need to have that same love as you would your parents. I hope this helped. Need anymore help you can leave a message in my inbox.
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I think nearly everybody questions this at some point. My roommate has had a girlfriend for a year now and I always envy what he has with her. Yet just the other day he told me that he envied me! For being single. There are advantages and disadvantages to each side.
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Love.we think about it,dream about it,loose sleep worrying about it.when we dont have it we search for it when we discover it we dont know what to do with it.we fear losing it.it is our source of pleasure and pain but we cant predict wich it will be from one moment to the next.it is a short word,easy to spell,difficult to define and.... impossible to live without
thats what i think about the whole thing it is very confusing but it feels great to now you are loved by someone even if it is your mom
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Love is such a vague topic. Everyone wants to feel loved: to have someone feel special about them and to treat them in a way that no one else does. People often think that their families don't love them, but they do- even when they believe that they hate/are hated by their family members.
Love is a sensation beyond what anyone can describe. It feels so good to love and appreciate someone who also appreciates you to a high level.
Again, Love is complicated, and I completely understand why you are asking this question- especially so close to Valentine's Day.
Hope I helped!
--Jack
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No matter what anyone says, the only way you will truly understand why being in love is so great is to feel the emotion for yourself. You will someday, I promise. Have patience.
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