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new ex-boyfriend
Okay. There's this guy that I still love.. He was my first boyfriend and we were going out for two years.. Today would have been our 2 year anniversary if we hadn't broken up yesterday....He said he thought it would be in our best interest and I think it was too. ..But I do still love him and he says he still loves me. ...We just dont fit together like most would consider normal...We have lots of little fights...But thats not what this question is about.......My main problem is that we still love each other...Ive never had to deal with a breakup....We decided to remain friends, but its going to be hard to talk to him...Ive been crying since 2:30 yesterday afternoon...and its now 6:45 today...so over a day...and I still haven't stopped.....I need to know how to get over him while still remaining his friends...I feel like I'm going to die and like I've lost the only thing in the world that meant anything to me..Please help me through this
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let me tell you what 2 do in a situation like this the same thing happened 2 me like 2 months ago this boy i thought i was in love with broke up with me he said that he wanted to be friends and maybe it could work some other time i felt like crying but then i realized that he was not the one that god wanted because if it was we wouldnt have to fight about little things because we would no longer be two people we would two halves of a heart that have come together perfectly to make one whole your heart will remain broken until you find the right one for you and trust me you will it took me like 2 weeks to get over that guy it seemed like his half fitted with mine but when i really thought about it it really didnt so just breathe deeply and meditate think about all the bad thing in you two's relationship and also the good things think of how a relationship with that one special guy thats out there for you will be with none of those bad things and try to move on there are so many fish in the sea and trust me somone at your schoool likes you everyone on earth has some secret admirer
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It is hard to remain friends, especially if there is still feelings involved. The best way to get over him is to steer clear of him until you get your emotions together.
You are going to have to remember one thing: If you remain friends with him, you are going to have to be able to see him dating other girls without it bothering you. Until you know you can handle that, you need to stay away from him.
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